Does he love me or does he want to be with me for the time being?

Empathize, you should find a time to talk to him, say everything clearly, say all the doubts in your heart, let him explain to you, and then make your own judgment on him. The authorities are not too rational, I had a lot of friends at the time to persuade me to break up with my previous boyfriend, but I was very reluctant, this feeling should be yours, I used to go to my space, leave me a message, but after a long time, I rarely went, almost didn't go much, once I burned him didn't ask much, but he still remembered his former girlfriend's foot injury, asked so enthusiastic, which days I was going to be angry, at that time I just didn't put my friend's suggestion in my heart, and then I broke up after listening to my friends, He found a new girlfriend less than a week after the breakup, although he was very sad, but fortunately they broke up. However, everyone's situation is different, their own affairs still have to be their own decisions, other people's are just an experience and suggestions, hurry up and solve it, the more trust, the worse it is, I hope you can make a better decision.

I hope you are happy.

Don't listen to other people's opinions, everything must come first with your own feelings, except for you, we are all people watching the fire from the other side.

I believe he still loves you, and it's still a bit hard to believe that a man doesn't have contact with a friend of the opposite sex! But if he doesn't love you and doesn't call you, there is no need for him to lose his temper with you if you message someone.

What others say is not necessarily the truth, many things are good that you know best, although it is said that the bystanders are clear, but the feelings are still the best for yourself!

Yikes! You're too! Thoughtful!

You yourself said that you didn't do anything out of the ordinary!!

That's all right!!

As long as he still loves you, likes you, and cares about you or something!

What more do you have to pay attention to these words that you can feel?

As long as he loves you, isn't there nothing to do?

When a man is distracted, he thinks about paper, and paper can't contain fire, right?

God will always let a woman find a boyfriend with a heart of flowers, no matter how long it takes.

If he does have a woman outside, he will not be as good to you as he used to be.

Then you will also break up with him.

It's better not to take things that you don't have, and take them too seriously. You have to believe in Him!

Remember, paper can't contain fire.

First of all, I want to ask you if you like him who says he loves you, if you like him, you should believe him, and it's okay to investigate a little what he does when he goes out, but if he is innocent, then your status in his mind will be reduced by several or even dozens of layers, so it's best to believe in him, wholeheartedly, even if he really does such a thing again, maybe he will be moved by you. This is my opinion, if you have other ideas, so resolutely leave him, then leave as soon as possible, if you don't leave today, he may cause pain for another day, and don't listen to your friend, he is not you, let alone your boyfriend, he doesn't know what you are thinking, some things still have to decide for yourself, for example, what you like, he doesn't like what she likes, you don't like it, you let him order, he will definitely choose what he likes and you hate. I still think you should trust him.

Love doesn't have to be obtained or servant, but it depends on what you think, although love is indeed a kind of competition, but not everyone can reach this kind of state, if you want to keep a person's heart, sometimes it is still useful to get her, in other words, it is still effective, this world is too realistic, although we don't think so in our hearts, but this must be reality, really, friend! As long as you have her, she won't easily agree to anyone anymore.

If he loves you too and has a future, then you can be together.

If he doesn't love you and doesn't know how to cherish you, then give up.

Life is like this, you are happy for a day, and you are unhappy for a day.

Be strong, live your self a little, leave whom, the same earth is not.

It's that he doesn't know how to cherish, then you can calmly go your own way, you have to work hard and be excellent, he will want you, but it's your business to accept it or not Life is like this, you are happy for a day, and you are not happy for a day. Don't keep giving the initiative to others. A person who doesn't care about you, why do you care about him?

Caring about each other is the real feeling. The best is not necessarily the most suitable, but the most suitable must be the best.

Try to find your own happiness.

In love, only one party is a fool, because the more you treat him, the less he cares about you, and often in this case, they will only know how to cherish it after they lose. In love, you have to show your own charm, and don't let him treat you as a puppet by his side. Some people are worth cherishing, but some people are worth letting go.

There is no need to continue! The other person thinks you're nothing! Why pester others, they want to live their own lives!

Don't let your care become a burden to others! also wasted his feelings. Hurt someone who truly loves you.

Let him know that no matter how happy or sad, you must learn to cherish each other and not go too far, otherwise you will leave with confidence. If two people want to be together, the premise must be to care for and cherish each other in order to move towards the future.

Not necessarily!! The important thing is that he is happy!! Respect his decision as well!!

I also fell in love with someone I shouldn't like, but liking is so strange, but I always know about his situation, as long as he is happy, I am satisfied!! For example, even if you love him and he loves you, but you meet at the wrong time, you have to give up, and besides, he is happy to have a family now, isn't it?

Even if he is not married, but he does not love you, you cannot force him to like you, this is his right!! You can't make a choice for him!!

Not necessarily, it depends on his identity and environment, if it is a married man, he must not break his family, because the cost of a third party is often very large. Meeting the right person at the wrong time can only mean that you have no fate! If you're a good fit in every way, and he loves you very much, stay with him, and get married!

If the time and place are right together, if not, put him in your heart, and when you all enter the dusk, there will be beautiful memories! Wishing you happiness!

Not necessarily!! The effect of mutual blessings will be better.

Not necessarily!! Anything can happen. No one knows what will happen. So know how to cherish. One step at a time is one step at a time.

Oh, it can really be great, and in reality, love has to be together.

If you're not together, why do you love you?

Your question is not a question of refusal or not, but a question of getting along and communicating.

Maybe he really didn't think about marrying you, maybe he cares more about his ex-girlfriend, but these are just your guesses. Judging from the situation you described, he also has some scruples about getting married, he has nothing, and he wants you to think more about career growth.

It cannot be completely ruled out that he is indeed not sincere enough. But you didn't tell him what you thought at all, but guessed each other's thoughts in a text with a small amount of information, such as text messages, adding unnecessary misunderstandings. (I used to miss a girl by just texting her, guessing at each other, thinking too much and missing out.)

Your current text messages can only show that he has something to say to you, but it is not clear, he has scruples; If you want to simply get a few words of definite answer from the text message, but he is in a complicated mood and can't give you an answer.

Therefore, I suggest that you find a suitable opportunity to say everything you think in your heart, how you want to say it. You also know that this is a question that will affect you for a lifetime, how can you guess by a few words in a text message? Taking a step back, even if someone gives you an inference from the content of a text message, would you be completely convinced?

Do you believe it for the time being, and promise not to regret it later? Let's talk in person!

Finally, I wish you happiness and happiness! You can also grow from communication.

Some can be seen. His ex-girlfriend hit him a little, and he felt a sense of responsibility and obligation.

The truth you said was very helpless to him.

I think he lacks courage and responsibility.

If only he could speak. Then ask you if you are willing to marry someone who is poor and white.

Your future may be a little more secure.

Such a man is still relatively good. It's normal for men to save face. But in front of the woman who loves. What is face?

Escape from life like this. There are no discrepancies.

Let's think about it

He wants to be with you, but he's not ready yet, or he doesn't have anything right now, so what is he going to marry you?

If you can endure hardships with him, I think you can. He is afraid of delaying you, worried that he will not be able to give you happiness. I believe that he is still a very down-to-earth person, otherwise, it should have been related to knowing each other for four months

You completely misunderstood your boyfriend... You completely misunderstand the meaning of his text message, he actually wants to tell you that he wants to marry you, but he doesn't have anything now, he just wants to get a word of affirmation about your relationship between you. A man does love face, this is the most confused time in his life, you have to give him more care, a little more affirmation, ignoring him and snubbing him will hit him hard.

I'm curious, why do you love everyone so much, love if you want to love, bold, break up if it's not suitable, but don't miss it, of course, the love I'm talking about is not sex, love is to say what you want to say, not suspicion, so that you won't regret it, you can say to him very directly, do you love me, how do you plan to love.

In fact, to be honest, I haven't been in love, but I think that in some ways, boys are more face-loving, especially for marriage, they want to lay a piece of the world on their own, and only discuss the issue of marriage after they have capital, from your narrative I found that your boyfriend is a career-minded person, he hopes that he can achieve something in his career first, rather than just relying on his parents' money to support his wife. In fact, in your heart, maybe you are the only one who really understands what kind of person he is. If he likes you, don't dwell on his past, after all, he's your boyfriend now, right?

Whether he still loves his ex-girlfriend, it may be that he hasn't really let go yet, you should care more about him and let him find that you are the best. Therefore, you should learn to let go of his past and appreciate him well. Finally, I wish you all happiness to the end.

He may not have any plans to get married, you can try to talk about it again, if he hasn't responded to this matter and is tactful, then there is no need to continue, after all, the two of them live to understand each other.

He wants to be with you, and he should make a clear confession!

What do you mean?

Guess what so many other people mean.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find.

If there are such people around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has one.

Those who want to look for it, once they miss it, they will not come back.

If you fall in love, don't let it go easily.

Abandon. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. Experienced love.

The life of love is beautiful, and the love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

If you love him, you must persevere, and you must work hard.

Everyone wants to work hard for happiness, but when two people live together, it is inevitable that there will be emotional problems from time to time, but if you really love each other, you don't care about this little contradiction, and you will definitely regret it afterwards.

Actually, my girlfriend and I quarrel a lot (almost once a day, or even several times), but we still don't break up, because we have feelings for each other, and we have been persevering.

I don't know what to call you, but please believe that true love can withstand quarrels in life! (Now I have something to do, go out, and I'll talk to you in detail when I come back.)