Should divorce be an option for such a married life? Please give me some advice

What kind of torture is this, your uncle-in-law has neither affection nor money for your aunt, and he has to follow him in everything, what is the meaning of such a marriage, marriage is only a small part of that person's life, and it is also nominal, he wants to spend it outside, freely, and when he comes home, someone will call him. And for your aunt, marriage should be all she has, and in a few years, when your aunt is older, and his career is booming, he doesn't see your aunt as a thorn in his side. She missed too much, she couldn't be wrong anymore, she saw the wrong person when she was young, and when her children were four or five years old, she insisted on the wrong marriage, and now she still needs to maintain it?

Women, living so painfully for the sake of their children, let's also think about the rest of your life. Not all single-parent children will become bad, some will be stronger, depending on what you think. Of course, you must talk to your child about divorce, let your child understand your parents' painful marriage, let him understand your choice, and often accompany your child after divorce to reduce his emotional gap as much as possible.

As for the question of property, do as it should be, and do not be ambiguous. The philosopher said that divorce is a product of human civilization (of course, a painful marriage).

I have a colleague who is in a similar situation to your aunt. It was the husband and wife who had no feelings, and then struggled to maintain it for the sake of the child, and the man found another one outside.

But some time ago, my colleague resolutely chose to divorce, she said: I used to always live under pressure, and when I returned home, I felt that the atmosphere was so overwhelming that I couldn't breathe. After the divorce, I found myself relieved and much more relaxed.

Before the divorce, I saw that she was very thin, but after the divorce, her state gradually improved, she became a little fatter, and her face was much better.

Your aunt's life is under a lot of pressure, and now it is not economic pressure, but mental pressure, and if this pressure continues for a long time, it will cause great damage to people's spirits. This kind of injury is worse than physical injury**.

In fact, your little cousin is also living under the pressure of his father, and he probably doesn't care much about his son.

It is recommended that your aunt divorce her immediately. I really think that if she continues to stay married like this, she will develop her own psychological illness.

That's when the real trouble came.

Make some preparations for the money you have in hand now, the child will come over, and your own money will still be used to raise the child in the future, so don't say anything that does not fight for property.

You deserve all these things.

I hope your aunt can be relieved soon.

My opinion: divorce. First, from a woman's point of view, if she is bound by an unhappy marriage to pursue freedom and self-pursuit, this kind of marriage is not necessary.

Looking at it now, it is not a way to attribute it to seeing the wrong person at the beginning, why not open another window for yourself, after all, you are still young, maybe you can still look forward to the emergence of true love? Second, divorce is a legal process, and when it is really necessary to go to court, the other concerns should be brought to the judge, unless they have a prenuptial agreement, and from their circumstances, the judge will follow the principle of protecting the interests of women. Third, as for taking into account the feelings of relatives, I think that your aunt's happy life after the divorce is what your grandparents want to see the most, although they may not be able to accept it for a while, but I believe that their two elders will eventually understand I sincerely wish your aunt to find the life she wants as soon as possible!

Considering the consequences of divorce or the consequences of barely maintaining a marriage, which of the two consequences is more acceptable? In addition, I can't get married all the time, and most of them are not for the sake of the children? But growing up and living in such a family is not necessarily a good thing for children.

The property of the divorced husband and wife should be divided equally, unless there is a notarization of property before marriage, you can only complain that your aunt married the wrong one, leave quickly, why bother to suffer.

Of course, you should choose to divorce, if the married life is not happy, then it will only be a waste of your time to continue.

If your married life is miserable, you can talk to your partner once to find out the reason and then consider whether to divorce.

If this is the case, the first thing we can do is choose to divorce and give each other a chance to regain our own happiness. In just a few decades of life, if you are unhappy every day, what is the meaning of such a life? So let go of each other as soon as possible and find your true freedom.

Generally, if you choose to divorce, because there are already problems with your marriage and marriage, if Chanmu does not divorce, it will only bring you some harm to yourself, and your family will also have a lot of problems.

You should sit down and communicate with your partner reasonably, solve problems appropriately, don't act impulsively and talk big, do wrong things with a sincere enough attitude, admit mistakes and actively remedy them.

You should choose divorce because there are already problems in the relationship, and there is no better life, and it will also have a certain impact on your children.

In the face of a loveless marriage, it is better to divorce as soon as possible, so that it will not delay the other party to start a new life, and at the same time, there will be fewer quarrels, fewer contradictions, and a little dignity.

In the face of a married life without feelings and responsibilities, the sooner you choose to divorce, the better, and you should stop the loss in time.

Many people say that marriage is the grave of love, but many times married life is very sweet, if the two are endless quarrels every day, without the slightest common topic, then the marriage will not last long, the sooner the divorce, the better.

If there are always conflicts between the two parties in married life, and they cannot be very considerate and tolerant of each other, they should be divorced as soon as possible.

Domestic violence marriages must be kept away as soon as possible, because such marriages will not be happy, but will cause serious harm to your personal safety, and it is recommended that everyone must divorce as soon as possible.

Marriages with domestic violence. There is no need to maintain this kind of marriage at all, and it is necessary to divorce decisively.

For the kind of person who establishes a relationship in school, the sooner you get married, the better, and the development of the two people is better.

When you encounter the kind of marriage where your husband has no sense of responsibility and does not have any responsibility, choose to divorce, because such a man is not worth entrusting for life at all.

Feelings have seen too much sadness and parting over the years, some people are depressed after divorce, and some people come back to life after divorce. In fact, saying goodbye to wrong feelings is the greatest respect for marriage. It is always regrettable that the couple who did not reach the end for various reasons, but the feelings that went to the end were meaninglessly persevered, and this is sadness.

So, if the love between two people is gone, say goodbye, don't turn yourself into a clown in this relationship, and come together not only to let go of yourself, but also to let go of each other. I divorced my ex-husband because he only valued his mother. As long as the two of us quarreled, no matter who was right or wrong, he would scold me.

Even sometimes when his mom bullied me, he was like he couldn't see it. Later, I met my current husband not long after I divorced him. I never had a fight with his mother.

Even if there is a contradiction, he will stand between us and make adjustments. Now I have the same relationship with his mother and mother and daughter. He would sometimes tease the two of us and say that we were friends.

Although my second married family was not particularly wealthy, this comfortable life made me very happy. As long as a man loves you and likes you, he will not let his mother bully you. Even if you have conflicts, he will adjust them so that there is no gap between you.

Many people endure an unhappy marriage because of their children, which is actually the wrong choice. Because of such a marriage, no matter how patient it is, it is useless, sometimes it is easier to meet happiness by letting go of the attachment in your heart.

After divorcing my ex-husband, I'm doing well now. My ex-husband and I have been married for three years and have never felt his love for me. He had a fever at home, called ** to bring me cold medicine, he came back empty-handed, when I asked him, he said he only forgot a word.

This happened more than once, and his chill chilled me. In the end, I chose to divorce him. When I got divorced, he thought I had a problem.

Two years after my divorce from my ex-husband, I met my current husband through a relative's introduction. He's very wooden, but he's nice to me. I had surgery for appendicitis once.

He took a special leave of absence to take care of me for a week and surprised me every time it was my anniversary. When I was in my 30s, I got a taste of love after marrying him. So whether a man really likes you and takes you to heart can be felt from his attitude towards things.

He doesn't remember what you said. Not because he has a bad memory, it's just because he doesn't love you. This kind of man does not have to live with him for the rest of his life.

Because your persistence will only make your life more and more miserable.

In the end, they all lived comfortably, because they devoted themselves to their careers after the divorce and made themselves better and better.

People who choose to divorce end up living happily ever after, because they choose to divorce because they are emotionally unhappy and tormented in their marriage, and their divorce is a relief and the beginning of a happy life.

I think it depends on each person's situation, some people are getting more and more tired and irritable after divorce, while some people find a new home after divorce and live happily!

In the end, I lived a very happy life, and my life was relatively easy, without much pressure, and I would not regret it.

People who choose to divorce end up living the independent life they expect, and they also have their own emotional concepts. I can also be better myself in life.

Most people end up living the life they want, and after the divorce, they are very comfortable living their lives.

They all lived a very happy life, because the divorce must be that the other party is not good to them, so they divorced, got rid of the shackles of marriage, and lived very freely.

The life of an ordinary working family, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, must have a material guarantee, and then talk about other good things. If you rely on one person to support the family's expenses, it will be more stressful, and one party will have to take care of the family wholeheartedly, and the other party must have a stable and strong economic income to support it. Life is real where fireworks exist, there will be contradictions, there will be disputes and discord.

Picking up and dropping off children and cooking will be hard, and you have to coordinate with each other. Life and work should be arranged as much as possible, work is a part of life, and work cannot be regarded as all life.

Everyone's problems are different, women have a job, more family-oriented, try to balance the relationship between the two, and take care of both work and family. If work comes first, the family is expected to be neglected. I don't take good care of my family.

In a big city, there is a lot of pressure, and you have to rely on your own cultivation.

At first, I felt that the marriage relationship was not good, and in the end, when I got divorced, I would feel that it was a failure. Divorce is actually a choice, choose what way to live, marriage also needs to be managed, and it needs to be preserved. Only through continuous learning and understanding the needs and motivations behind marriage can we better see the questions of others.

The pattern and relationship with others are also very important, and some people still have a bad life after divorce.

Reasons for divorce:1Flash Marriage 2

Unmarried pregnancies 3Short love time 4Unequal roles for couples 5

There is disharmony in each other's lives, and problems arise. If there are children at the time of divorce, it may still have a little impact, and the impact of a single-parent family on children is not absolute, and it depends on the family's education of children.

Now that the marriage rate is decreasing, only when two people have no choice in the end, they will bless each other, know how to let go, and don't maliciously slander. From the psychological aspect, divorce is due to dissatisfaction with needs, inconsistent pace will lead to conflict, as well as unrecognized self-worth, emotional needs, hobbies, inconsistent values, and different views on life.

Marriage is not perfect, don't let it break easily. I am not complete enough, I am not independent enough, it is still difficult to find a soul mate, and I want to be my true self. If it is the end of the end, let go of each other and bless each other, if you complain and hate, it is also a disservice to yourself.

Fatigue does not only exist in marriage, even if it is a love sentence, it will be tired, two people will inevitably feel tired of being together for a long time, and may also annoy the other half, at this time you have to relax yourself, let go of those troubles, think about what you love each other, if you feel tired and want to divorce, it will be a pity.

Personally, I think that if you feel particularly tired, you should choose divorce, so Songqing is good for both people, since you feel that this marriage makes you particularly tired, it means that you don't love each other anymore, or your relationship has problems.

should choose Sun Nian to choose divorce, but he turned out to be very tired, which shows that it is not suitable for two people to be together at all, and the two people who are not really right people are the other party, so they should give up.