What should I do if I am divorced because of trivial things in my married life and regret it after t

First of all, does the other side think the same way? If he (she) also thinks the same way and remarries, if people don't have this idea, and I am afraid it will be a little difficult if they don't have children.

When you are young, you are prone to impulsiveness, and many of them will pay for it afterwards, so you should try to get rid of this problem in the future. Now that you have divorced, you must first know whether the other party has this idea, and if so, go to remarry. Now remarriage is not a scandalous thing, love is still there, and the rest is cherished.

If the other party doesn't have this idea and doesn't have children, if you want to remarry, I'm afraid it will take some effort. If two people can communicate, they can understand each other, and if they don't communicate, they really don't intersect from now on: if the mountains and rivers meet, you will never know each other!

Now that you know the crux of the problem, you have to reflect on your own problems! You must not be entangled in who bows your head and who will be dwarf from now on, otherwise everything will be in vain, and there is no difference between doing and not doing!

If one party does not wish to remarry, it means that he (she) is tired of this relationship, whether it is an impulsive divorce or how to divorce, divorce is liberation. I don't want to go on anymore. If there are suitors for external reasons, it is really unlikely.

Familiar with him (her) is as good as you, don't plan what to do first, first find out what he (she) thinks. It's never too late to be specific about your actions. Don't fight unprepared battles.

It's also the key to success.

If everything is as you wish, be sure to cherish it. When you are young and impulsive, both parties are responsible for the stiffness in your marriage, and if one is good, it is impossible to go to the point of reckless divorce. If you want to continue, remember to face up to your own faults and be more polite to the other party in the future.

Don't let your temperament come, just want to be happy, think twice about doing things, and wait for your brain.

In fact, it is not only the matter of divorce, but many things in life after that also require you to quit being impatient and reckless. Some things may be redeemable, and some misses are a lifetime, so do you want to spend the rest of your life in regret? Just show your sincerity, sincerity, care, and love, and if one party is still nostalgic for your marriage, you can do it.

If it's gone, don't bother with it.

Cheer up and face the rest of your life, the future is very long, as long as you change yourself, you will definitely get your own happiness.

The best thing to do is to suffer alone, because your ex is already broken, and it is impossible for you to remarry him if you ask him again.

If both of you regret it, you can try to live for a while to see if you can get along well, if you can, then get back together, the original emotional things are not clear, it would be nice to be comfortable and happy.

If you regret it, then you should admit your mistakes to each other in time, and if two people can still come together, then you must cherish each other and cherish this hard-won marriage.

If you regret it after the divorce, you can choose to remarry your ex-husband, see what he thinks, if she still wants to live with you, then the two of you can live a good life and never make trouble again.

Remarry, take the initiative to admit your mistakes to the other party, hoping that the other party will forgive yourself in the face of the child, and don't be lukewarm to yourself.

Learning to be forgiving and understanding others is often as difficult to do as demanding of yourself. We are always trying our best to find each other's faults, always feel that the other party can't get along with me, always feel that anyone is making enemies of me, there are many things that are unintentional, but there are those who are cautious and always have to sit in the right seat and find troubles.

will not understand others, often a sentence unintentionally said, the person who has the intention to provoke listen, he sat down, thinking that he was sarcastic and sarcastic, he couldn't get along with himself, and he became troubled. After a long time, once or twice, there may be a general outburst in the end, a fight, and even a person's **. All kinds of social news reports in the newspaper, such as a person who made a person for a few dollars, and a joke caused a tragedy.

Learn to forgive: Learn to forgive your friends and loved ones. The closer people are, because they care too much about each other, they are prone to misunderstandings.

can't explain, can't explain, outsiders can't see jokes, and they can't let go of their dreams. At this time, the only thing that helps is time, time will dilute a lot of things and will melt resentment. One day you will find out that if you are a friend, you will definitely come back.

And the sooner you forget the words you have said or heard in your anger, and forgive each other or yourself one day sooner, the biggest beneficiary is not the other party, but yourself, and you will be happy and sweep away your troubles.

1. First of all, you should calm down and think about talking about potatoes, can this marriage continue, if you can, remember the good past more, and look forward to the happiness of the future of filial piety.

2. If it cannot be continued, there are only two ways of divorce in China. One is a divorce by agreement and the other is a divorce by lawsuit.

3. Between a man and a woman, if one party insists on divorce, but the other party does not want to leave, the party who wants to divorce can file a lawsuit with the court.

1.Settle the child and give him a sense of security.

The biggest victims of divorce are not wives and husbands, but their children. The young mind can't bear the divorce of his parents, and he is afraid that his parents will not want him, and he is very scared in his heart. The cousin said, "The child does not want to see his parents divorce, but the child can perceive the changes in the relationship between Zheng Jue's parents."

Instead of hiding something, it is better to tell him the truth, dispel the child's inner concerns, and let him still be full of safe feelings. In the end, through hard work, the cousin got custody of the child as she wished. Adult divorce, children are not guilty.

From the moment he was born, he should take responsibility and make the child understand that divorce is not what parents want, but divorce will not lack love for him. In this way, the harm to the child can be reduced, and the child can grow up healthily.

2.Don't die of old age, don't let the other party not see the child.

After the divorce, it is not uncommon for divorced couples to avoid seeing their children, such as Crystal, which was once all the rage, after divorcing her husband, she has been on the hot search for children several times. Frequent abuse of each other, and the use of children as a guise, the audience who was originally biased towards Crystal's side gradually became no longer interested in the daily life of the couple, because the couple who took their children out to resist are no longer normal parents, and they do not deserve anyone's sympathy. An outsider can know what kind of harm the child's parents will do, but as a party, the child's parents ignore the shouting and gesture to explain the child, and it is not a sympathetic practice to involve the child.

3.It's best not to be too impulsive in divorce and communicate well with your family and parents.

In divorce, perhaps the last person who wants to see such an ending is the other party's parents. Every parent wants their child's life to be less turbulent and bumpy. It's hard not to feel sorry for their children when they get divorced.

Therefore, before divorcing, it is best for women to communicate with their parents and talk about the status of their marriage. They've been there before. If the marriage has not broken down, they will also give advice on how to keep it.

If you have to divorce, at least give them a psychological buffer, so that when they finally hear the news, they can't accept it.

4.If you really want to separate, then break up peacefully, because you are already in love, and there is no need to hurt each other anymore.

Many marriages come to the first step of breaking up, and there is resentment in their hearts. After all, the result is very different from when they first got married. Women always have a feeling of being let down, they will hate each other, resent each other, and never get along.

Some men can be extreme. Why bother? I used to be the closest person to me.

Since there is no way to be together, let's get together and disperse. Break up peacefully, bless each other, and hold fewer resentments. Life will be more sunny.

I'm divorced, so there's no need to trap myself in the negativity of divorce and torture each other.

First of all, before the divorce, you should have an in-depth communication with your husband, and before the divorce, you must have a stable job and communicate with the children correctly, express love to the children, and then divide the property of the husband and wife before the divorce.

Plan the property of both parties in advance, determine the custody of the child, effectively soothe the baby's emotions, and have the financial ability to be independent and burning, and effectively sign the relevant divorce agreement.

The issue of the distribution of property between the two people should be resolved, and the custody of the child has a way to go first, and it is necessary to communicate with your partner first.

If you regret the divorce, you can remarry, and if you regret the division of property, you can file a lawsuit within one year after the divorce to revoke or change the property division agreement;

Where, after trial, the people's court does not discover that there was fraud or coercion at the time of entering into the property division agreement, it shall reject the parties' litigation claims in accordance with law.

Where one of the spouses conceals, transfers, sells, destroys, or squanders the joint property of the husband and wife, or falsifies the joint debts of the husband and wife in an attempt to encroach on the property of the other party, the other party may receive a small or no share of the joint property of the husband and wife when the divorce divides the joint property of the husband and wife.

After the divorce, if the other party discovers that he or she has committed any of the above-mentioned acts, he or she may file a lawsuit with the people's court to request that the joint property of the husband and wife be divided again.

Legal basis] Article 1083 of the Civil Code, after divorce, if a man and a woman voluntarily resume their marriage relationship, they shall go to the marriage registration authority to re-register the marriage.

First, don't show up in court easily.

When you get divorced, don't feel that if you don't appear in court, the other party can't do anything to you. If you don't appear in court at a court hearing, it will have a detrimental effect on you. Since you don't appear in court, the court will unilaterally listen to the other party, and what the other party says is what it is.

Finally, the court will rule in absentia and grant a divorce judgment against you.

Second, don't blindly fight for custody of your children.

When divorcing, you must be cool-headed and do not blindly fight for custody of your children. Especially for the woman, if after the divorce, when you meet a suitable person who wants to remarry, the child may become an obstacle to your remarriage. In addition, you should also consider your own ability to raise children, if even your own survival is a problem, your children will also suffer with you.

Third, don't choose to leave the house easily.

Some people choose to leave the house in order to let the other party agree to the divorce as soon as possible, and you must consider it carefully at this time. Because once you choose to leave the house, the party who leaves the house afterwards regrets it, it is too late.

Some people may think, I can remarry, and the property divided in this way will become the joint property of the husband and wife, and half of the property will be mine. In fact, after you remarry, the property becomes pre-marital property in law, and the pre-marital property belongs to the other party's personal property, not the joint property of the husband and wife, and has nothing to do with you.

Therefore, when divorcing, don't easily not appear in court, don't blindly fight for the custody of the child, and don't choose to leave the house easily.