Married life is so boring, are you too?

Landlord, don't think like this, thinking like this is very dangerous to your marriage, you can think about it from another angle, think about it every day you can wash clothes for your little baby, cook, watch the little guy eat the food you cooked, don't you have a kind of satisfaction from the heart? And your husband, you should try to get to know him, you can talk about what he is interested in when the two of you get along, you can make him a cup of tea when he gets off work, I think people are emotional animals, he will not be indifferent to you, in short, if you still want to continue this marriage, you have to save yourself! Change this current negative thinking!

You should have your own life.

It's hard to take care of children, I don't know how old your children are?

Children can go to school, kindergarten, etc., and housework can cultivate the joy of doing housework together.

Do what you like and cultivate your own interests.

Dizzy, it seems that I am about the same as your husband.

It seems that I should also think about this issue.

Don't let my husband think the same as you in the future.

Why don't you go and participate in more social activities?

Marriage is the most important facility in the heaven that a person sets up for himself in the world, and if he does not want to achieve the goal of eternity, there is no need to do anything to talk about marriage. Marriage will also lead mankind to barbarism from now on. Marriage needs the careful care of two people at the beginning, so that when they are old, they can support each other and get through difficulties together, which is often referred to as young couples and old companions.

Of course, marriage also requires both parties to study hard and work hard when they are young, and it is necessary to learn more knowledge to bring some fun to the life of marriage in order to ensure that love and marriage do not fail. If you blindly insist on your own ideas and opinions, you will not only be indifferent and tasteless, but also have an incompatible ending, as the landlord said.

Your husband is both unreasonable and unreasonable on this issue. He is a man, and he should be in charge of the outside affairs, not a woman.

If he says you can't do it, you can tell him to find a competent woman and you can give way.

Generally, there are no issues of principle, do not divorce easily, and if you really can't bear it, you can also choose to divorce.

The pedagogue Makarenko said a classic phrase: "Everything for the child, sacrificing everything, even sacrificing one's own happiness, is the most terrible gift that parents give to their children." ”

In fact, the impact of divorce on the children is limited. Daddy is still Dad, Mom is still Mommy. The reason why many children in single-parent families have problems is mainly because of the lack of love, high-quality love!

Therefore, as long as your care and love for your children remains the same, you can improve the quality of your love even more. I'm sure your current spouse won't be denied love for their children just because they're divorced. If he really doesn't care about the children anymore, it's not because of the divorce, it's because he has a problem in the first place.

For children, the living environment is the most important thing. A family with a bad relationship between husband and wife can have a great negative impact on the child, who will think that the marriage is painful. How much damage will an environment of frequent quarrels, violence, and cold violence have to the child's young mind, it is better to divorce and let the child have a peaceful environment.

You can let your child know that we can be brave enough to say no to an intolerable state of life. We can reject pain and choose our own happiness.