My boyfriend loves to lie, and I found out that I couldn t do anything about it

See what he lies, forgive him if it's for your own good, and then persuade him not to lie all the time

If it's a harmless lie, but he doesn't think it matters much anyway, that is, he doesn't realize the seriousness, then you can also warn him.

If it is deliberately deceiving you, warn him seriously, and break up directly if you find it a few times next time, obviously there is a problem with your character.

Then break up. There's no other choice for this kind of thing, don't say you can't give up anything, and to continue is to give yourself trouble.

There should be no controversy about this matter, as for the reason for the breakup, there is no trust !

The key is whether you want to continue or not. Lying proves that he still cares about you, can he change it when he goes to the night club to see if he can change it, the key is your relationship, do you think there is still a need to continue, don't force yourself, and don't let yourself regret it.

If you can't accept him going to the night club, talk to him, and break up if you can't talk.

Once you accept it, don't limit his freedom, you can tell him what to do and what not to do.

You forced him to lie because he didn't want to be restricted. How can you ask people to do everything according to your values?

It's nothing to go to the night club, the key depends on what night club he goes to and what he does. I go there even if I'm a girl, but I don't go often. If you don't touch the bottom line, don't interfere too much with boys...

You show him a "night show" at home! ~

Not necessarily. This depends on how much panic there is, and there is. Here's advice to tell him not to lie.

He lied and didn't steal your snacks and told him to pay for it.

If you lie and don't mess with the relationship between men and women, you should divide it as soon as possible. (Evidence should be emphasized, not just speculation.) Words that often arise between couples in a false situation. Over time, it was the story of "The Wolf Comes".

Tears can also be used as ** occasionally, ask him if he doesn't love you if he lied to you, and it is most useful to ask with tears. Take the opportunity to get him to promise not to lie. (If you want something sad and can't cry, it is recommended to cut onions and drop eye drops.) ）

A person who is accustomed to lying has to use many, many lies to fulfill his lies, and the reason why a lie is called a lie is because it will be exposed.

If you think too much, you'll be in a bad mood. If you're in a bad mood, eat a candy that you love to eat I wish you a happy life and good luck

Since it is well-intentioned, there should be no harm, but a risk!

Risk: After knowing the truth, the person you lie to may turn your face without appreciating it, affecting your relationship!

The person you lie to may lose trust in you after knowing the truth, and some things may have to be considered before deciding whether to tell you or not!

The person you lie to is very likely to feel deceived and fooled after knowing the truth, and is extremely angry, even if he is well-intentioned, when he knows the truth, the pain of being deceived will be more painful by the truth!!

It's possible that you need to expand n lies because of this white lie to cooperate with this white lie!

Personal opinion: Since it is a lie, it will not be good, whether it is good or malicious, it is always a lie, what is better than knowing the truth, clearer and more clear? The reason why white lies exist is because they question the other party's courage to face reality (for fear that the other party will not accept it) and their ability to persuade themselves (for fear that they will not be able to comfort the other party), so they ......

Use ...... sparingly

Not really. Sometimes I don't want to make you uncomfortable.

1. Help him.

You are a couple, if you find that he has such bad habits, they all say that couples are a process of helping each other and growing each other, and of course there are many mutual ...Find a suitable time to do it with each other, talk about it thoroughly, and tell him about some unpleasant feelings or emotions that have a negative impact on you when he lies, so as to play a guiding role, and a good partner can change some bad habits of the other party.

Two, forgive him.

Maybe when many people hear or see the word lying, some people choose to be unforgivable, it is true that lying is a bad habit, for a person who has been lying for a long time, whether intentionally or unintentionally, he has slowly lost the subconscious that he should not lie! As his girlfriend, you should choose to forgive him for the lies he told you before, give him a chance, and give yourself a chance. But you have to tell him very clearly that you can ignore the past, and if you still haven't changed after forgiveness, then there will be no chance.

Third, if there is no lie in principle, you can still try to go on together, he has shortcomings but must also have advantages that you like, and do your best to get rid of those bad habits together. It is not easy for two people to walk together, there are many uncertain factors to walk together, it is too necessary to understand and tolerate each other, there must be an excellent woman behind an excellent man, I hope you are that excellent woman.

You should talk to your boyfriend face to face, ask why the other party is lying, and make sure the other party makes it clear, otherwise there will be a gap between the two people after a long time.

You should talk to your boyfriend and sit down and talk. If your boyfriend is always lying, it means that he doesn't care about you, lying is also a sign of dishonesty, and if he goes too far, you should keep your distance from him.

You can have a good talk with your boyfriend to see what kind of mental burden he has, or pay attention to his behavior and see what changes.

I think the reason why your boyfriend loves to lie is probably because he has something to hide from you and doesn't want you to know, usually a lie requires a lot of lies to complete, so I think you should find out about it.

Recently, I found that my boyfriend is very fond of lying, and I personally feel that in the face of this dishonest behavior, I should talk to him about it, if he continues to do this, then there is no need to go on.

Check his phone to see if there's anything else hiding from you. Check out where he's located and see where he's been.