I found out that why are women who really marry well a little stupid ?

Maybe it's because stupid people have stupid blessings, some girls are actually pretending to be confused, and they often don't live too seriously.

Because such a woman is easy to be satisfied and is not easy to hurt herself in a relationship, she marries well.

Because such a woman knows how to pretend to be stupid and will turn a blind eye, she will live a happy life.

Because of the good women who are married, they generally look at people more accurately and know when to pretend to be stupid.

Because if they can get married, many of their situations cannot be controlled by themselves.

1.The in-laws are difficult to get along with, such as the in-laws are inferior to men and women, and despise women.

For women, they all hope to meet a reasonable, open-minded and cheerful in-laws, this kind of in-laws will attach importance to women, can treat women as "daughters", and actively do a good job with women "between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law".

On the contrary, if the in-laws are difficult to get along with, they are often disrespectful to the old, often worry about some trivial things and women, unscrupulously interfere in women's affairs, do not learn to respect women, often impose their own views on women, and even, men are inferior to women, often look down on women, like to chew the root of their tongue behind their backs, women marry into this kind of "in-law's family", mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be very nervous, and women will live unhappy.

2.The relationship between the in-laws' family is complicated, they always quarrel, and there is no family discord at all.

For women, she often looks forward to marrying into the happy family of her in-laws, she hopes that the mother-in-law family can be reasonable, the main members of the larger family can live together in friendship and harmony, all the main members of the family are harmonious, go on a blind date, take care of each other, women marry into this kind of in-laws, often live very happy, because he will be accepted and supported by the big family, and women will often be very successful in doing things.

A shrewd woman, before the relationship, will carefully investigate the boy's family atmosphere, if the man's family is not harmonious, she will be especially cautious, and will not easily marry into such a family.

3.The knowledge literacy of the in-laws is "not too high", and the boy is also a mother.

For women, if you can meet the three views are very positive, the comprehensive cultivation is relatively high in-laws, it is often a kind of good luck, this kind of in-laws are more virtuous, very reasonable, you can empathize with it, pay attention to women, women after marriage life will often live a very comfortable life.

On the contrary, if a woman encounters an in-law with incorrect views, who is particularly self-centered, and has a relatively low comprehensive "quality", a woman will often be very tired after marriage, because he cannot get the recognition of her in-laws, and it is difficult for a woman to bear some of the behaviors of her in-laws, especially when her husband is also a mother-in-law, and the woman will feel tired from the heart.

A shrewd woman, before getting married, will carefully investigate the character and principles of her in-laws, if the in-laws have a wrong outlook, have a bad heart, and are self-centered, for this kind of in-law, most women are not easy to marry.

A smart woman will not marry, she is very poor, her family atmosphere is not good, her family relationship is not good, and she has no strength to go to a family.

It should be that you will not marry into a family that is not in harmony with your feelings, or that hits you. Because such a family will only bring more physical pain to themselves.

I will not marry someone whose family relationship is particularly disharmonious, who is relatively poor in the economy, whose parents are disabled, and whose man is unproductive.

She has outstanding appearance, good-looking and beautiful, accompany her out, have a lot of face, you must remember that she is good-looking and better-looking, in public places, it is easier to highlight the quality of men. Don't say it, a woman with outstanding looks and good looks can attract the attention of outstanding men. In the eyes of outstanding men, they all think so, they will think that he is already so good, why did he wronged himself and find an ordinary woman to live.

If that's the case, it's a very angry thing for yourself, and it's a serious disadvantage to yourself.

Therefore, these excellent men, the women around them, are usually women with outstanding appearance and good looks. This is not to blame why the appearance is outstanding, good-looking women can marry well, all of this is because this is also a must for excellent men, in the eyes of outstanding men, it is necessary and necessary to find a woman with outstanding appearance.

She's really good, I can't imagine that in some places, she is so technical and professional, and she can be with her, and she has gained a lot. I still remember someone said, "If you want to marry well, you must have strengths, and only in this way can you attract the attention of outstanding men." In response to this statement, he raised his hands in agreement.

Looking back, a woman has something special about her in a certain industry or in a certain aspect, and her performance will make men look at him differently and treat him differently. And like her, it is easier to find a like-minded man with her, and work together to win the future. These excellent men, too, don't want their women to be a big vase, used as a place for no other purpose.

They all hope that their women will have strengths and outstanding areas that can help them.

This woman, she has a skill, he has an area that men admire, and she must not worry about marrying not very well. This is also because his level has long been there, and an excellent man just happens to be the kind of woman you want, so that two people hit it off and tied the knot, which is a natural thing for the two of them.

Love family, love life, etc., a woman who loves a family can marry a good man, and a woman who loves life can marry a woman who loves love.

It is because these women have very good personalities, are very optimistic, very confident, and have a very clear plan for themselves, so they can marry well.

In most of their cognition, they may think that it is probably the kind of girl who has a poor family background, is not good-looking, or has no education, and does not have a good job to marry. But when you take a closer look around you, you'll see that it's not like that at all. At most, the conditions are good, and the probability of marrying well will be high, but playing a good hand with a good hand is very bad and people abound.

Where will those who marry not very well be defeated in the end? I've always felt that talking about someone is the same as looking for a job, when you want to find a job, you want to be an administrative clerk easily, if you want to be rich, you want to do development and design, if you want to be stable, you can take the exam, and if you want to test, you can run a business.

You can't be an administrative clerk and want a high-paying position, a development and design job and want to rest, and a marketing and sales job and want to be relaxed. It's the same with the person you talk to, you can't want everything, you have to be handsome and rich, you have to be humorous and funny and can coax girls, and you need to put everything first. Looking for such a perfect person in this world?

You have to know what you want most to be called. A reader once helped me write a letter and said: My husband, he loves his family and has a good temper, but he will be slow to do things, and sometimes I am in a hurry to die, and he is like no one.

So can I blame him, no, since I'm trying to have a good temper, so I have to hold my breath. I've always felt that learning to make trade-offs is the wiser thing in marriage. I chose someone who was free to accompany me, but I didn't look down on others who were unmotivated and wouldn't make money.

I chose one that would make money, and I blamed others for not caring about the family and being strict. I chose a long handsome one, and I was always sensitive and suspicious of other women. You look at the strengths of the other side, but you can't accept its weaknesses.

That's right, and I very much agree with the reader's idea. I have to admit that the beauty and the scumbag are in your thoughts. And the good or bad of married life also lies in whether this person is a beauty or a scumbag in your eyes!

Many sisters have not understood the difference between active and upside down, and there is a misunderstanding that it is not easy to cherish the lack of active girls and men. I really want to improve everyone, it's the women and men who don't know how to cherish it. So what's the difference between active and upside down?

Positivity means that you take the initiative to show yourself in front of the eyes of the boy you like, and you will also take the initiative to express your opinions and experiences. To put it bluntly, if you like it, you chase it.

Everyone's instinctive reaction is to be attracted to better conditions than themselves, so the more positive they are, the more they are able to find a satisfactory goal. Upside down is that in order to make a man feel ruined by you, you invest your time, time, energy, and money without a bottom line. You can do whatever the other party wants you to do, and you lack self-esteem in the relationship.

Many sisters don't want to behave when they see a boy with good conditions, and they always want to wait for others to come to you. You have to remember that fate is in your own hands, which girl doesn't like a single man and a woman, there are more people who look at it, and you are not active, so you can only choose others to pick the leftovers.

Women who have a bad marriage generally have a bad complexion, dare not put forward their own opinions and opinions, and are timid in the world.

often complains about life, has no goals, does not dare to take the initiative, and women who do not marry well generally have these characteristics.