Why can t love and bread have both?

Dear landlord.

Glad for your question.

Here's my own.

To tell the truth, heartache can only be healed with heart, you can only let yourself hide in the corner and use time to heal slowly, return to nature to heal the wound of the soul, wait for the wound to heal, love the pain has passed, it is not easy to completely forget, how many people can really forget, it may be absolutely impossible, but also to lie to yourself, some memories can only be buried deep in the heart forever, just use time to slowly forget, learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.

When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden.

Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.

The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

It's not wrong to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person

You can hold bread and find love.

Because no one is perfect.

Love and bread are two of the most important aspects of life, and they are indispensable. Love without material foundation is unhappy, "poor and lowly couples mourn everything". With abundant material things, marriage is not necessarily happy.

Love and bread are two different things, and at its best, it's both. If I had to choose, I would prefer bread to address my physiological needs and ensure my survival.

Life is precious, but love is even more valuable. A beautiful love is something that everyone wants to pursue. Bread can solve the problem of food and clothing for people, and material needs are people's first needs. Love and bread are important for everyone and want both.

According to Maslow's theory, human needs are divided into five levels, which are physiological needs, safety needs, social needs, respect needs, and self-actualization needs. In order for people to survive in the world, the first thing they must solve is the problem of food and clothing, otherwise, they will starve to death and freeze to death, and their lives will not be saved. If you can't save your life, what kind of love are you talking about.

Bread can solve people's food and clothing, in the face of hunger, many people will choose bread instead of love.

Bread here is broadly defined and can be understood as material, money, economic, etc. The economic base determines the superstructure. I think people must first have a certain economic foundation before talking about love.

If you don't have a certain economic foundation, what will you do to support your family and raise your children when you get married in the future? Women must also have independent economic ability, otherwise, they will live without dignity, be looked down upon, have no confidence to speak in front of their husbands, and will be disliked by their in-laws.

The best state of life is love and bread at the same time. The rolling finger bag is on the material level, love is on the spiritual level, the material is the foundation, and the spirit is sublimation. It's best to have both.

Between love and life, I think we should choose bread first, here is not to discuss the issue of dedication for lofty ideals, just the choice of love and bread, I think under this condition, life is the last word! There is a famous saying, "Stay in the green mountains, don't be afraid of no firewood", live first, and then have the opportunity to plot your true love.

I think that if the main judge is because the current love is not stable enough, it is normal for love to become so cheap nowadays, and most people have no way to give everything to a person.

This is because many people are afraid of hardship, they feel that they only have feelings and no material foundation, and they will also have a miserable life in the future.

Because in the face of real life, bread is more important, because to survive, so love is particularly cheap.

This is because many people are very realistic now, more concerned about reality, and feel that love is unreliable, so it will lead to such a phenomenon.