What happens when two negative people are together? are all pessimistic, fragile,

Updated on psychology 2024-08-05
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    To put it simply, the negative is bad, the negative, there is no good, only the bad effect, while the positive is good, positive, good, and plays a good role. This is our traditional view.

    For too pessimistic statements, it is negative and goes further. It is an abyss of negativity, and one that we avoid avoiding.

    In fact, we don't have so much sadness and negative thoughts in our lives, as long as we have a good attitude and our standard of understanding a thing, we can be said to be very comfortable with things. I also met a lot of friends with the same problem as the landlord, I got along with them, and came to a basic conclusion: their personalities are basically extroverted, (including they have a strong desire to express, even if their personalities are strictly introverted) is because of this natural character, when they encounter things to let themselves fall to the bottom, they do not take the way to say, how to prevent this kind of thing from happening next time methods and measures, but solve it on the spot, Chatting with friends or sleeping boringly is a forced way to decompress and is not advisable.

    Maybe you may be confused why chatting is not good, because in this case, it should be the first thing to adjust your mindset first, and that's the point! And chatting with others is easy to get caught up in other people's conversations, and your emotions will not be well expressed, which will make you more depressed.

    Therefore, please consider it deeply, that is, don't stick to these trivial things, treat them as a reef in time, and laugh it off, which is very beneficial to yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    He has difficulties, understands him, and his understanding is weak to comfort him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I always feel that I should be stronger in my heart, come to a life, live again, how can there be so many empathy in this world I will learn to be responsible for myself when I live, and it won't be good if my heart is stronger, isn't it?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I really have to rely on myself for this, I have a friend like this around me, and when I figure it out, I am happy, and if I can't figure it out, I sink again.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Usually people with this phenomenon have a certain amount of depression.

    Then we must start with cheerful activities, just saying that it is useless to change through some specific actions, such as going out more to see the vastness of the sea, the calmness of the mountains, etc., in order to be well guided.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Are you negative and pessimistic yourself? Or do you want to enlighten your friends?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The negative one is even better, you see the positive emotion thing he doesn't have, you have. But negativity, he has it, in fact, you have it, but it is smaller than him, and no matter how positive a person is, he will be brought down by negativity.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Look at who is stronger inside, emotions are a contagious thing, if the negative and pessimistic person is too strong in the heart and is good at inciting emotions, the positive and sunny person will slowly change. The reverse is the same.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No! Two pessimistic people can't get along together.

    Days are to be managed. Imagine that neither of them thinks about the good and cries for a day. It's been a long time. People will go bad.

    At least one person has to be positive for the road to go on.

    Maybe you feel that you can't let go of your feelings now, but the road ahead is very long, and people still need an optimistic spirit to think twice.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    At the beginning, it is not good to influence each other negatively. But after falling in love, as long as one party becomes positive, it can also affect the other party to become positive.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Will two pessimistic people be happy together--- won't be happy.

    --You will not be happy until you find a way to change yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Can two pessimistic people be happy together? If you can explain each other, you can do it. I only know two people who are not sociable, people who are not valued much by others, and they have something to say together and be happy.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you love each other, will you still be pessimistic?

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't worry about the romance of love and many ways of love, everyone has a different way of love, don't be dissatisfied, too greedy, you will lose rare true love, some people say that love will not last long, I think it is wrong, love has a long time, because it is not done to protect true love, it will lead to love is short-lived, think that love will not last long.

    Love someone: trust each other, love someone to understand each other.

    Love someone: Be tolerant with more heart, love someone with a big heart, love someone with a big heart: respect each other's thoughts and opinions.

    Love someone: support him (her) more behind your back, instead of preventing you from loving someone: when he (she) can't accompany you, don't complain, and say to him (her) with a smile that I'm good and happy.

    Love someone: to hide the fragility and grievances in your heart, don't let him (her) know to love someone too much love, maybe it is difficult to do it, in fact, the most important point is that love should be selfless and unrepentant, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him (her), when you fall in love, let him (her) be happy, as long as he (she) is happy, is the most important thing!!

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Neither optimism nor pessimism is bai

    He was born with du.

    They might. Zhi is optimistic about something.

    DAO people have become pessimistic.

    I think he has the right.

    As long as we truly love each other, we can be together.

    Two people may feel uncomfortable at first, but after a little time, this unaccustomed will disappear, because they are always influencing each other. Thank you

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    As long as there is love, it will be fine. And love will change you and bring you into balance.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    For example, when he looks at the bright sunshine, he will feel so dazzling, cool and breezy, will not feel cool, will feel depressed, bustling city, he feels noisy, quiet, lonely, in short, he is worried about the sky, he feels that the relationship is not smooth, he is good to him or her, but he can't get the same love, he always feels targeted in his career, he feels that he has few friends, or he has many friends, but he has no real friends, he has no confidant, he feels that he has no talent, he feels that he is not ladylike, all the good things are obscured, all the darkness is infinitely magnified, he does not pray for change, he sinks alone, he always feels that everyone in the world is drunk, and I wake up alone I always feel that there is no point in living, there is no goal, there is no pursuit, I want to vent, I feel regret when I end venting, I want to regret but I don't have that kind of medicine, loneliness, loneliness, helplessness, hesitation, confusion, and all other negative things surround him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Robert Sculler draws a hundred lines between the optimist and the pessimist, who says, "I will only believe when I see," and the optimist who says, "If I believe I will see and ask."

    The optimist acts, the pessimist stands still, the optimist sees half a glass of water and says it's half full, and the pessimist sees the same half of the glass and says it's half empty. The reason is simple: allow the optimist to pour water into the cup, and the pessimist to take water from the cup.

    For example, looking at the bright sunshine, he will feel that zhidao is so dazzling, cool and refreshing, will not feel cool, will feel depressed, bustling city, he feels noisy, quiet, feel lonely, in short, worry, feel uncomfortable emotionally, he is good to him or her, but he can't get the same love, always feel targeted in his career, feel that he has few friends, or many friends, but no real friends, no confidant, feel that he is not met, he feels that he is not ladylike, all the good things are covered up, all the dark are infinitely magnified, do not pray for change, and sink alone I always feel that everyone in the world is drunk, I wake up alone, I always feel that there is no point in living, there is no goal, there is no pursuit, I want to vent, I feel regret when I am done, I want to regret but I don't have that kind of medicine, loneliness, loneliness, helplessness, hesitation, confusion, answer, and all other negative things surround him.

    Yes, but you have to be brave.

    Yes, the attitude towards people and things mainly depends on your psychological state, when Gao Baixing, everything will be beautiful and pleasant, when sad and frustrated, no matter how beautiful the scenery in front of you will be extremely bad, optimistic people look at people and things from an optimistic point of view, abandon disappointing answers, pay attention to give people hope, negative people are the opposite.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes, the attitude towards people and things mainly depends on your psychological state, when you are happy, everything you see will be beautiful and pleasant, when you are sad and frustrated, no matter how beautiful the scenery in front of you will be extremely bad, optimistic people look at people and things from an optimistic point of view, abandon the disappointing, pay attention to give people hope, negative people are the opposite.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes, but you have to be brave.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    To put it simply, the way is to become cold, reduce your true temperament, be cold when you encounter problems, and treat each other coldly except for your true friends and relatives.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Self-cultivation, tea ceremony Tai Chi slowly regulates itself.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think positive people will be more determined, and they should be more positive before. But if the decadent man is hopeless, just when I didn't say it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you like a decadent person, you will definitely be affected and gradually slide into decadence, you can't underestimate the huge negative energy that overshadows your positivity, and when you can't pull it, you will definitely slide into decadence.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It depends on who has the more patience! The weak one will be assimilated!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It depends on how you treat him, but it has a little bit of an impact, and if you love him, you have to be brave enough to accept him.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The so-called enthusiasm is just not the same as expected, if both parties have a good impression of each other, why not take the initiative!

    In love, there is no rule about who must pursue whom, men and women are equal, if you like it, go and take the initiative, it's not a shame.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Waiting to be negative enough to be negative, it will naturally adjust.

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