The family background is not good, and my girlfriend s family suddenly asked for a 50,000 dowry, is

Whether it's reliable or not depends on how well you know her:

1.What kind of person your girlfriend is, outsiders definitely don't know, you should know. You should know whether her character is good or bad. The quality of her character can also tell what her family education is like.

2.You should also have some contact with the woman's parents, and you should be able to judge one or two, whether their attitude towards you is friendly or unfriendly, you should be able to feel it in your heart.

3.When it comes to bride price, it varies from place to place. You have to weigh whether the 50,000 yuan is more or less in your local area, is it taking care of your family's poor situation?

Considering many factors, this matter is not reliable. After all, marriage is not child's play, it needs to be carefully pondered.

I think this is quite reliable, and it's not too much for this kind of family, the bride price of 50,000 yuan is really suitable, you don't want any of it, it's unrealistic for someone to raise a daughter for nothing, not from the north.

This is not very reliable, the family background is not good, and it is even more uncomfortable to take tens of thousands of dowries. Knowledgeable families don't talk about the bride price, just have a wedding.

In today's era, the bride price of 50,000 yuan is not high at all, and now the bride price in some places is really outrageously high, and some of them cost hundreds of thousands and 200,000 yuan, I'm afraid you haven't seen it, you just said such a thing, you should also stand in the position of your parents to think about it, people work so hard to raise their daughters, in fact, they also see that your family conditions are not very good, so they only ask you for a bride price of 50,000 yuan, if you don't even have this sincerity, then you are not worthy of marrying their daughters, I'm telling the truth, too.

I can't say whether this matter is reliable or not, in fact, if I have a conscience, my girlfriend is willing to leave her home to marry you and accompany you for the rest of your life, and it is not much to ask for a bride price of 50,000 yuan, but your family is not good and feels heavy, it is not your girlfriend's fault, it can be discussed, and you should not complain.

The bride price is a must! There is no such thing as reliable and unreliable, if you love her, you will find a way to solve it, and if you don't love her, you will only feel that money is more important than people. Do you love her or love money, think clearly, and she may be the woman you are destined to be, if she marries someone else because of money, you will regret it for a lifetime, and 50,000 is not much, people should have a garage, but other people's parents only need a bride price, you are tired, I really think it is not worth it for her, how can she be with such a stingy man as you!

Nothing bad! Many women's families ask for a bride price! Just to save face for the girl!

When you get married, you will take it away from your daughter! And the money taken away is much more than the bride price! The money that parents bring to their daughters is to fight for their daughter's status in her in-law's house!

In short, pity the hearts of parents all over the world!

50,000, really not much. Ten years ago, there were more than 80,000 people in rural Hebei. Now higher.

In addition, let me tell you about my situation, I met one on a blind date, and she actually told me that she wanted a bride price of 580,000 yuan. It has a house worth millions. So this matter is still different from person to person.

In addition, if you are willing to work hard, it is still very good to earn 5-60,000 yuan a year. A year's salary is changed for a daughter-in-law. It's very suitable.

50,000 bride price is really not much, the family background is not good, you can save money by working hard, your girlfriend's family is not embarrassing for you, you want to see if you have the responsibility to marry her daughter, 50,000 bride price normally does not take long.

If your family is not good, you have to work hard to make money, don't be afraid of hard work, you have at least a few thousand yuan a month to work, save some money and earn enough bride price money in two years, the woman's parents want 50,000 bride price and do not require you to be very high, it is the minimum requirement, and you are not required to have a house, a car and a deposit, as long as you have tens of thousands of bride price money.

If the family is not good, don't give a bride price if you marry a daughter-in-law? This money is not much, but also respect for the woman, although the woman wants a bride price, generally when getting married, the parents are allowed to take it as a dowry, and it is also spent by the two of you. It's pretty reliable.

Now it is not much to ask for a bride price of 50,000 yuan. The family background is not good, and the 50,000 bride price is because I want my daughter to live a more stable life after she gets married, which is understandable.

It's true that your family background is not good, but you need to recognize your own conditions, and don't say that your family background is not good as soon as you talk about the bride price. If you have love for each other, you won't think about whether it's reliable or not, and think about how to bring two people closer.

Even if your family background is not good, 50,000 bride price In my opinion, your girlfriend's family has been very considerate of you, and now there is no place for such a low bride price.

I don't know how much bride price you give over there, and what customs you have. Let's talk about it here, a small county in the northeast, our part, now the bride price is more than that, let's multiply it several times. Your family is not good, you can't let the girl's requirements be lowered, besides, in our opinion, this is already very little, which can be regarded as taking into account the man's poor family background.

You should treat others well in the future.

My girlfriend's family proposed a bride price of 50,000 yuan, which I think is very little, which is quite reliable.

Now the society is here, no matter whether the bride price is the woman or not, it is not easy for the parents to raise their daughters, and the man should comfort the woman's parents, otherwise what can I do to appease the hearts of their two elders at this time, who can experience the reluctance when leaving the mother.

50,000 bride price is not much, your family is not good, it doesn't mean that the woman's family can't ask for a penny, think about it!

50,000 is not too much for the real society, within the normal range.

50,000 bride price is not a lot at all.

can't even take out 50,000 yuan, so what kind of marriage is there, what wife to marry and what baby to have.

In the endless cotton fields, 55-year-old Li Xiangdong is like an insignificant grain in a sand painting. When he was young, he was the top farmer in the village, but because he had been absent from the battle for a long time, he could no longer adapt to high-intensity labor.

You can communicate with the woman to see if you can reduce the bride price, or you can show the woman how much she can accept, if the woman still resolutely disagrees, then she has to give up.

You should choose to communicate with your girlfriend, and you also need to explain the important situation of your family to your girlfriend, and the two of you choose an appropriate bride price.

Faced with such a situation, you should have a chat with the other family, and you should also have your parents come forward to solve the matter, and have some negotiations with the other family, so that the problem can be resolved.

In the face of a high bride price, the man should consider the actual ability of his family. Although it is not easy to marry a daughter-in-law now, you can't desperately borrow money in the face of a high bride price. When you get married, you will face a life full of debts, and this kind of life is actually "gray".

I believe that most parents will consider the actual situation of their children. The man can tell the actual situation, and if the two people really believe it, the bride price can be discussed. If the woman doesn't say a word and passes directly, then the bride price is useless to negotiate, and from another point of view, this girl is not loved.

There is such a sentence, as long as you are motivated, it doesn't matter if you start to be bitter, there will be bread love.

In the face of such a high bride price, if you can come up with some money, you can go to your girlfriend's house to behave well, prove that you love her with actions, and let them see your heart. What the woman's parents want to see most is that you don't care about their daughter.

Reasons for high bride price:

Marriage customs are different in different places, and a place has a local bride price standard, how is this standard determined? In most cases, there is an occasional family who marries a girl and receives more bride price than the previous standard in the region, and everyone will think, why should my daughter be no worse than his, why should the bride price be less than his. As a result, everyone wants so much bride price, and the new bride price standard in the region comes out.

If there is a higher one in the future, the standard will be raised.

The man's family has money and is broad. There are some relatively wealthy men's families, who think that such a major life event as marriage is once in a lifetime, and I have so much money in my family, why do I have to do it. It is to spend money to do it luxuriously and lively, so that others will know that I have a wedding, and I can have more face.

In addition, give more bride price to the girl's family, occupy the initiative in marriage, and put the girl and her family in a low position in the future married life.

Some of the woman's family members deliberately ask for more bride price to enhance their financial strength. Under the influence of traditional patriarchal attitudes, some families will continue to have children until there is a boy after a few girls are left in a row. In the case of a large number of children, the family's financial situation is more difficult, and it is not difficult to understand that in order to provide better financial support for the boy, it is not difficult to ask the girl's in-laws for more bride price.

I haven't been in such a situation with my partner, and if that happens, the best thing to do is to communicate and learn to get along.

First, obtain the consent and support of both parents.

The marriage of a man and a woman is not only a matter of the two of you, but also of the two families. If you don't get the support and consent of your parents, you may embarrass the other party in the bride price.

Second, contact each other's parents more before marriage.

Visit each other's homes more often during holidays, so that they have some understanding and trust in you, and the probability of offering a sky-high bride price will be relatively reduced.

Third, the woman's communication with her family is very important.

Sometimes parents may raise the bride price because of face, as a daughter, on the one hand, to communicate with their parents gently, explain their relationship with the man, Xiaochen on the other hand, but also to negotiate with the man how to deal with it better, rather than giving the man an order to accept.

Fourth, as a man, don't misunderstand the woman's parents.

Because when you look at the people in the woman's family with a contemptuous attitude, you will bury the bad family relationship.

If you really can't afford it, you need to explain your difficulties, be more sincere and considerate in the relationship, and let the woman's parents feel at ease that they will hand over their daughter to you.

Fifth, the woman insisted that the bride price should not produce a frontal conflict.

Because this is the moment to test true love, the woman should wait. Men should actively coordinate, and when parents see that they truly love each other, but they can't bear to go against their elders, they will gradually relent.

In this kind of depressed nuclear limb condition, it is indeed difficult to deal with. But first, the first one you have to get your girlfriend's approval. Then, he discussed with his girlfriend and persuaded his parents.

Let them focus on your love and your family, and look at the bride price with all their hearts.

In this case, you will be able to gradually convince their parents to agree to your marriage.

Your girlfriend's family wants a bride price too high, Duan Xiaoxiao can directly refuse the woman's family's request for no handshake draft, and your dry friend can also accept the request of the woman's parents, so if you feel that you can't afford it, you can break up directly.

It can be discussed, after all, the amount of the bride price must be based on your own situation, and you can't open your mouth!

I don't know what your family thinks, if it is my family, if the man's father deceives people too much, he will directly oppose this marriage, and how much bride price to give is opposed, because some things cannot be solved by money.

Generally speaking, when it comes to talking about marriage, there are often problems! In fact, your family is not a question of how much the bride price is at all! The point is not to get the respect that his father deserves!

It is suggested that we should start from the big picture, look at the distance from a distance, and deal rationally with such contradictions and disputes. It is best to find a sensible and more prestigious middleman to connect the two families, take a step back, and do good things.

60,000 bride price is not much on our side, now most of them are more than 100,000, some are more than 200,000, and they also have cars and houses. Since there are fewer marriageable women than marriageable men, girls are worth more and more.

It depends on your own economic strength, it is fate for two people to come together, within a reasonable range, everyone accepts it, don't get married for the sake of getting married.

In fact, it doesn't matter how much the bride price is, the main thing is that the other party's parents are really good, and they will give you the bride price.

Nowadays, rural marriages have become a heavy burden on the villagers, and this burden comes from two aspects, on the one hand, the expensive bride price, and on the other hand, the prominent "wife shortage". With the acceleration of urbanization, the rural population is gradually concentrated in urban areas, and girls are the group that is the least willing to return to the countryside.

Look at who you compare with, if you compare it with poor households, it's too much, if you compare it with billionaires, it's too little.

Not much, in our hundreds of thousands, his father is not unwilling, but he doesn't like you.

Not much now, but it depends on the individual's family situation.

It's not enough love at all, if you really love each other, the bride price is not a problem, and your parents' opposition is not a problem, you can solve these together, not a breakup, and a breakup can only prove that you don't love him at all.

Hehe, you don't have to be so tired together! We're all 200,000! It's not that they don't! I just don't take you seriously.