What is the psychology of people who like to speak ill of others?

<> Wang Ou (Angelwang), born on October 28 in Nanning City, Guangxi, Chinese mainland female artist.

He has won the most photogenic award in the national finals of the 4th CCTV Model TV Contest.

With the TV series "The Pretender" being broadcast on Hunan Satellite TV, Wang Ou, the actor of Wang Manchun, has also attracted much attention!

Her role as "Zhuo Ran" left a very deep impression on the audience, and attracted a large number of "Zhuo Ran" fans, becoming a hot topic of discussion.

After experiencing many TV series such as "Heart Ring" and "The Way Out", Wang Ou successfully transformed from a model to an actor.

You are always worried about others saying bad things about you, like this situation is a little suspicious and sensitive, the main thing is that you care too much about other people's evaluation, which may have something to do with your growth experience and personal personality, you look for medicine to eat, these are common phenomena, everyone will encounter them, don't care what others say, because the mouth grows on others and what they want to say is their business, listen to ourselves or not, we can't live in other people's language, and don't let others control their emotions, control their emotions well, Be the master of your emotions. If necessary, you can go to a mental health center to have a doctor treat the symptoms according to the situation**. There is an inferiority complex spreading in my heart, I am always not confident enough in myself, and I always care too much about the evaluation of others.

Everyone in real life is constantly moving forward on the path of life they have chosen. In the process of moving forward, some people care a lot about what others think, while others always face life with confidence. The former actually has some inferiority complex in his heart and doesn't believe that he can do something well.

When a person is not confident in his heart, he will always worry that he will make things worse.

When I first entered the social work after school, I was very unconfident in myself, and I was worried that I would do something wrong and that I would bring losses to the company every time I did anything in the company.

At that time, I was always accustomed to asking the leader for advice, habitually asking the old employees for advice, I was afraid that I would do something wrong, I was afraid that I would be criticized by the leader after I did something wrong, and I was afraid of being ridiculed by the old employees. Anyway, I always have too much on my mind, which makes me feel psychologically burdened to do everything.

For people who are not confident enough, most of them will have such a psychological burden, often before things have been done, they are worried that there will be changes, and they are worried that the consequences will not be able to bear.

This is a kind of unself-confidence, and at the same time, it is an immoral and extreme social psychology. This kind of person is often not confident in himself, showing his superiority by depicting and describing the bad things of others, not confident enough in himself, not trusting enough, so he is very afraid of himself, in the eyes of others is a bad impression, a fear of others saying about himself.

I like to say bad things about others to be afraid of others saying about themselves, I think it's a kind of self-centered psychology, this kind of person is self-centered in everything, thinking that everything is wrong for others and everything is right for him, and there are more such people who get along with others.

This shows that this person is very jealous and lonely, so this psychology arises.

Everyone doesn't like others to say bad things about themselves behind their backs, even people who like to reverse right and wrong don't want others to talk about him, which is a very normal psychology. So sometimes it's better not to talk about others behind your back, when you talk about others, maybe others are also talking about you.

That means that you are actually very fragile in your heart, and you may prefer to express your feelings in this way, or you can't accept what others say about you in your heart.

If you like to speak ill of others, but you are afraid of others saying about yourself, it shows that this is a very selfish person who doesn't want others to hurt you, but she always hurts others and doesn't care about other people's feelings.

It's inferiority. Constantly speaking ill of others seems to relieve your inner turmoil. And once others talk about themselves, it will only exacerbate their panic and fear.

It is a kind of pathological psychology of lack of self-confidence, and likes to chew the root of other people's tongues behind it to reflect their sense of existence and value, and they feel that they are amazing, but they are quite inferior in their bones, and often they are afraid that others will discuss themselves like this in discussions that they have not participated in.

Because you also know in your heart that it is not good to speak ill of others, and your heart is weak, so you are nervous when you say it, afraid of being heard by the other party, and a little afraid. This shows that you still have shame, which is normal.

I like to say bad things about others, this is a very bad habit, aren't you afraid that bad words will let others know and bring trouble to yourself. He is afraid that others will talk about him, which means that he has no friends, and if people who behave like this do not correct themselves, they will have no friends.

It can only show that you have a weak heart, after all, you like to say bad things about others, and you also know that it is not good to say bad things about others, so you will be afraid that others will also say bad things about you. If you don't speak ill of others, I believe that you will not be afraid of what others will say about you, and I think this is a sign of your weak heart.

Others are easy to say about others, and it is easy to wait until it is their turn, and they definitely don't like others to say bad things about themselves, and they are afraid that they will have any bad effects, but don't do to others what you don't want, or don't say bad things about others.

Maybe I am insecure, and my interpersonal relationships are also very poor, and I am very demanding of others, so I will always speak ill of others and feel that others are not good. My interpersonal relationships are very ordinary, and I am afraid that others will not be satisfied with me.

It shows that he is actually a relatively timid person, but he also has a gossip mentality, so when they say bad things about others, they pick up their roommates and worry that others will know.

This kind of person is very unconfident, so he will be afraid of what others will say about him. I don't have the guts, I can only slander others behind my back.

I like to say bad things about others, but I am afraid of others saying about myself, it should be a sick psychological phenomenon, and I don't want others to know if I do something wrong, it should be like this.

This kind of person is extremely selfish, extremely sensitive and fragile people, psychologically inferior, unable to see the good of others, but he is particularly incompetent and unable to do things that others recognize.

This kind of person lives in the hell of the soul, unable to extricate himself, and it is too painful.

This kind of psychology is that you say bad things about others, you destroy other people's reputation, but you don't want to be treated like this, just because you feel that when others treat you like this, your heart is very sad.

That kind of person is actually the mentality of a villain, who likes to talk about others, and is afraid that others will say that he always wants to do things that harm others and benefit himself, in fact, he is often harming others and not benefiting himself.

You may have done such a thing, but you are afraid that others will do it, because you know that this thing is very bad, so you will be very afraid that others will ruin your reputation.

It shows that this person is still relatively small-minded, he can't be like this, he is immature, he can't say bad things about others, and he can't be a person who is in front of him and behind his back.

In fact, your psychology is abnormal, you like to speak ill of others, you say bad things about others, what benefits can you get? So if you want to change this behavior, if you keep doing this, you will offend a lot of people, it will affect your normal life, and you will not have a few close friends to associate with.

This kind of person is sick and has serious psychological problems in his heart, so he must see a doctor, otherwise he will get depression after a long time.

Your mouth is too bad, so you like to say bad things about others, and you are afraid that others will say bad things about you, you are unbalanced in your heart, and you can't do anything alone.

A person who likes to speak ill of others, but is afraid of others speaking ill of himself, is such a person a selfish person? He talks about others, but he thinks he's okay, and this kind of problem is the practice of a narrow-minded person.