Should a girl be on the strong side in a marriage?

Generally speaking, people with strong personalities are more independent, she will control her own destiny, and will not be submissive, at the mercy of others and wronged herself. Of course, being too strong will also cause the other party to be very tired, and not getting along well will lead to conflicts. It's hard to grasp this degree.

I'm a completely traditional concept myself.,The character is relatively weak.,But blindly tolerating will only make others worse.,In the end, once you want to rebel, all your good becomes zero.。 So it's better to feel stronger.

Shouldn't. My neighbor's nurse is very strong, bullying that grandfather all his life, grandpa earns money that grandma picked up, and scolded grandpa, anyway, he is very strong, he has an eldest son, it is because of the strong reason that his eldest son is very mother-in-law, and listens to everything fucking, because of this, his son often quarrels with his daughter-in-law. I feel weak.

I think it's not good, and it will have a bad impact on the child's psychology.

A strong woman is better with an easy-going or cowardly man. Women with strong personalities have a very low probability of happiness. Looking at some cases of marital disputes, nine out of ten are because the woman is too strong, which causes the man to be too repressed, and finally erupts, leading to the dissolution of the marriage.

In marriage, it is not good for a woman to be too strong, which affects the healthy growth of children, and even affects the marital value orientation of children.

It depends. It's better for women with stronger abilities, but it's not good for people with poor abilities, because you don't have capital! Strong women generally live harder.

Of course, there are also benefits to being a powerful woman, such as being the master of the house and grasping the economy with one hand. But I don't have women with poor slapping ability, and they all say that crying children have candy to eat! Overall, each has its advantages!

The marital status is generally not very good, because cultural traditions and gender factors determine that the man should be the dominant party in the family, and the woman should be the soft and cooperative party. If a man's authority is always unsatisfied, then he will keep this dissatisfaction suppressed, and sooner or later there will always be an outburst.

It is necessary to look at that aspect and analyze the specific problems in detail. There are good and bad, long and short. Men mostly prefer gentle, considerate women.

A woman's concern makes a man feel the warmth of home. Imagine a seven-foot man who can only be a vassal, follower, and retinue of a strong woman, who is restrained and controlled every day. Can you not have negative thoughts in your mind?

Don't you feel aggrieved? Can you be willing to be a woman's vase and green leaves for a lifetime? I think this is the reason why most successful women like Dong Mingzhu are unhappy in their family life.

We support women being strong, but we oppose women being strong. Strong, means extraordinary thought and ability, strong, means the stench of temper! We can communicate with a strong person, but a strong person only wants to be the master! Powerful, respectable, powerful, contemptible!

Should you be a strong woman in marriage? Listen to what people have to say.

Marriage requires two people to work together. Not as casual as a children's playhouse. Instead, you need to use your own feelings and some "little tricks" to make your marriage relationship more harmonious.

For example, there is one thing in marriage that should not be avoided, that is, women should not be too strong, which will make men feel that they have lost the initiative and taste of love in marriage. So, if a woman is strong in these areas, her life is often unsatisfactory.

Financially, the economic base.

Decide on the superstructure.

This is what many people describe as the place of money in marriage. Finances do have a big impact on marriage, but some women value money too much and tend to keep their mouths shut. Insecurity.

is greedy for money in his heart, in short, he just doesn't want to give men a chance, even if most of the money is earned by men. In this way, men do not have much financial ability to cultivate interests or expand their social circles, which will also make men depressed.

And the man can't raise an objection, otherwise there will be a dispute right away, and the family will jump around. Under this contradiction, men will slowly alienate women, or secretly build their own small coffers.

In any case, it is inevitable that the relationship between husband and wife will be hurt. Too strong for a man's family, emotionally, if a woman is too strong for the man's family, the man can't help but want to stay away from you. If you want your relationship to be long-lasting, you must not only be good to a man, but also learn to be good to his parents and family.

If you lack the minimum respect and understanding for the man's family, are too aggressive to his parents and family, and never make any concessions to his parents and family, then he may want to stay away from you.

If you don't like a man's family, don't want to put in the effort to please his family, and don't want to waste time with his family, then a man may feel that you don't really love him, and he may want to end the relationship. If you have any grievances or complaints about the man's parents and family, you can find a suitable time to communicate with the man in person. Still, you'd better not criticize his family in front of a man.

Even if you don't look at the monk's face, you have to look at the Buddha's face. You should save some face for this person more or less. If you can't be kind to his family, if you are too aggressive or rude to his family, then the man will only stay away from you.

Yes, if the woman is too strong, the man will become particularly inferior, and the pressure is also very high, and slowly he will have some conflicts with the other party, and finally lead to the breakdown of the relationship.

I think it still depends on the personality of the two people, some of them are strong and one is weak, and some of them are strong, then it will be easy to argue and quarrel, and the marriage will not last long!

I think so. Because the woman is particularly strong, it is easy to cause emotional problems, and the family will not be harmonious.

Women are in a weak position in marriage, especially after having children, all the congratulatory centers are on the children and the family, and there is no time to take care of other things, as long as they can get by in terms of divorce, they will not consider it, there are always people in a family who make money, and there are always people with children, and women are indeed soft-hearted parties, reluctant to have children, and it is indeed impossible to make money by taking care of children.

People who are domestic violence and refuse to divorce have a common characteristic, that is, they shirk their responsibility for the suffering, and they lack the internal drive to change after shirking. These persons should be considered accomplices rather than victims of domestic violence. People who really have self-esteem, self-confidence, and principles will never allow even one domestic violence.

If there is a first time, there must be a second and third time, and the more you are beaten, the threshold will continue to increase.

In the final analysis, these people who have been subjected to domestic violence and refuse to divorce are afraid of change, saying that everything is an excuse to deceive people for the sake of their children, and the real reason is that they are afraid that they will not be able to live after leaving each other, so they would rather be beaten again and again and choose to endure desperately, after all, change is painful. They believe that the pain of change is even more unacceptable than the pain of being beaten. Because the pain of being beaten is sent by the pure brigade, the pain of change is active.

Just like many people, they would rather do a hard, tiring and low-paying job all their lives, but they are not willing to endure some hardship, learn some skills, and find a good job. They are immersed in the timely enjoyment of the moment, and with a little free time, they would rather play on their phones and watch TV than postpone their gratification and learn something for the future.

No, they are all equal in marriage, and only when they are strong can they be truly equal and not be bullied, so in my opinion, being strong is more useful than showing weakness.

I think this is very useful, once a woman shows weakness, it will really make the other party very new, and a woman can really promote the relationship between two people, make the whole marriage happier, and make love sweeter.

Wrong, because a woman who is too strong will make the other party feel that she has no freedom, or even facelessness, and is too depressed to enjoy the kind of little love between husband and wife.

In fact, everything has a scale, and exceeding this scale will have the opposite effect, but if there is no scale, it will make the other party not care about you, so in marriage, what should a woman do to maintain a long-term happy marriage?

1. Confusion over trivial matters.

A woman who is too calculating will make men think that you are narrow-minded and calculating, so when things do not affect your own interests or other harmless, don't fight to win or lose, just turn a blind eye.

2.Husband and wife discuss major events

When encountering family events, you must discuss with the man, which will make the other party feel that he has a certain status and is needed, so that the man has a sense of superiority.

3.Everything has to be measured

In fact, whether it is a man or a woman, you must have a ruler and a degree, don't be a hands-off shopkeeper, and let the other party call the shots in everything, which will make the other party develop the habit of ignoring their own opinions.

4.Respect the opinions of your in-laws.

No matter what the identity of the in-laws is, when the family encounters a major event, you must ask for the opinions of the elders Even if you don't agree with it in your heart, but the surface work still has to be done, and the old man only wants that respect, not necessarily that you must take his way and method.

And if a woman is too weak, she will not respect her own opinions, despise herself, and gradually she will not discuss anything with you, and in the long run you will become a puppet of this family. Therefore, when a woman encounters something angry, she must express her emotions in time and cannot bear it.

Husband and wife life is mutual, if you want each other to respect yourself, you must first respect each other, only in this way will the other party think that you have a certain position in his heart, don't fight for anything to win or lose, take into account the feelings of the other party, only in this way can a woman's marriage be happy for a long time.

It's not wrong to be too strong, every man wants his woman to be a bird. Gentle as water. Like a woman who is too strong, it will make men resistant. This leads to frequent conflicts in the course of daily interactions, which makes the marriage unhappy.

It is wrong for a woman to be too strong in marriage, and a woman should bow her head to each other appropriately and become gentle in order to gain the love of a man.

I feel that it is wrong, because men like gentleer women, and it is not good to be too strong.

It's wrong, most women who are too strong are unhappy in their marriages, and many men can't stand this kind of character, which makes men feel very undignified, and it's not good for women to be too strong.

It is easy for a man who lacks tremor to lose his self-esteem and marital incompatibility, and men will have a rebellious mentality, which is most likely to make him feel tired and tired, and be disappointed in the wedding dress.

Maybe these two sentences will sound a little unpleasant at first glance, and even many women will jump out to oppose it. But why is everyone's happiness getting lower and lower in marriage, and there are more and more conflicts between husband and wife?