Why do many people get divorced soon after getting married?

Because after getting married, I found two people, many things are very incompatible, and there will be a lot of problems in the relationship, so they will divorce quickly.

Because they didn't get along for a long time before they got married, they got married very quickly, so after they got married, they lived together, and all kinds of contradictions were highlighted, so they divorced quickly.

Because many people regard marriage as child's play, many people only find out the problem after getting married, and then they can't continue their marriage.

Before getting married, all they saw was each other's strengths, and living together after marriage would expose the shortcomings and shortcomings of both parties, and they couldn't run in with each other and chose to divorce.

Because for them, marriage is just a whim, and they don't think about whether two people are really suitable for marriage at all? Whether they can accommodate each other no matter what happens, they are not ready for this, and they enter the palace of marriage under the guise of love, so if they don't divorce, who will divorce?

Getting married is not a simple matter, and you have to think about your future. The days of life are very long, and if two people have no topics to talk about, they will seem very estranged, and their feelings will become weaker and weaker, and if there is a distance in their hearts, the marriage should end.

01 Everyone has a desire for love, and the ultimate purpose of love is to find someone who can give them a happy marriage. Getting married is not as simple as falling in love, and if you want to get married, you have to consider both the feelings of two people and whether they are suitable or not. You can't ignore the happiness in front of you because of the future, and marriage is related to the rest of your life.

There are great differences in attitudes towards marriage, and it is often said that "marriage is the grave of love, and after marriage, it is necessary to prevent oneself from moving one's own grave and to prevent others from robbing the grave." Therefore, many people are afraid of getting married, worried about being unhappy after marriage; But there are also people who believe that marriage is a continuation of love and the beginning of a happy life. 02 In fact, no matter what others think of marriage, it has nothing to do with your marriage, just like the truth of "pony crossing the river", marriage needs to be experienced by yourself to understand.

Of course, you can learn from the experiences and lessons of others, which will allow you to avoid detours. When the relationship between two people reaches the consummation, it is natural that there will be plans to get married. However, there are many factors to consider when getting married, and you can't blindly choose to get married on impulse.

If you don't want your marriage to become a "grave of love", you must consider these issues in advance to avoid marital misfortune. Considering the personality factors of two people, the relationship needs to be run-in before two people start to fall in love, they will naturally feel that each other is good at everything, and they will have the idea of wanting to be together. Especially sometimes what he does for you will move you, and you will regard him as your ideal partner as soon as your brain is hot.

The first requirement of the relationship is that each other's personalities are suitable, and if the personalities don't get along, he may tolerate you at first, but after a long time, his true attitude will be exposed. Your married life is prone to conflicts and quarrels, and it is difficult to maintain the sweetness of your relationship. Whether you have common interests or hobbies, and the topic of getting married is not a simple matter, you must think about your future.

The days of life are very long, and if two people have no topics to talk about, they will seem very estranged, and their feelings will become weaker and weaker, and if there is a distance in their hearts, the marriage should end. With someone who has the same hobbies as you, you can do things you like together, and you can talk together, even if two people sit there quietly, you won't feel embarrassed and can get along happily.

Because there are many problems to face after marriage, and these problems will lead to their divorce, we must treat these problems rationally after marriage.

When you are in love, you are mainly based on spiritual enjoyment, supplemented by material, and after marriage, it is mainly based on material and supplemented by spirit, because life is compelled, so you can only choose divorce.

Because if you don't get married, you don't have to go through a divorce.

For contemporary young people, they generally have regrets after getting married, mainly because their consciousness after marriage is completely different from that before marriage. Before getting married, I thought that two people came together because of love, but after marriage, it will not make the relationship between two people better because of their simple love. It is common for women to gradually lose confidence in marriage because of family trivialities.

If there is a real opportunity to choose again, it is likely that the vast majority of women will not consider getting married again.

The harm of marriage to children.

Even for today's women, divorce can be considered when they choose to get married, but because it is inevitable that the harm to children will be considered when considering divorce. continued to live in a stalemate because of the children, and it was clear that the two of them had a difficult sense of marriage, but they had to choose to be together. No one's marriage can be smoothly together, mainly because two people run in at different times together, and they will also show the worst side of two people in the eyes of each other.

Two people get along.

Regardless of whether you get married or not, there will be both kinds of things, and when people don't want to, most people think of getting married mainly to be able to find a mutually supportive partner for themselves in old age. When I was young, I didn't realize the importance of young couples and old companions, and I only really stepped into old age. To be able to realize that marriage is just about wanting to talk in old age, to be able to find someone to accompany you.

I regret that I was too young and got married too quickly.

An older sister who used to work together has a sweet appearance and a good figure. But after three months of dating, I married a man who we all didn't think was very good. But after getting married, the man actually messed around outside, and the two had children.

The girl and her in-laws are constantly rubbing in the process of taking care of the child. Men don't adjust either. We all thought that this sister was going to get divorced.

But later, she actually gave birth to a second child. We asked her, "Don't you regret it?" I want to continue to live with him".

She just said, "I was too young to get married without thinking about it, but I got married and had children." That's all there is to it. ”

Regret losing your freedom ever since.

After getting married, you will find that there are many restrictions on the free life you used to have. Especially after having children, there is basically no time and life for yourself. Every day, I am running around at work, raising a baby, dealing with family problems, and dealing with various emergencies.

If your spouse keeps you blocked, it's hard not to regret it.

In fact, regret is because everyone is always full of hope for a successful marriage, but the reality is often imperfect. Not only marriage, but also work and life will inevitably not achieve their expected goals. That's what life is all about.

So don't regret it. Because every choice is a decision you make, and every decision has a good side and a bad side at the same time.

So no matter what choice you make, there is always the possibility of imperfection. Regret doesn't change anything. We can only live hard and make our marriage better.