Why are many people reluctant to associate with former colleagues after retirement?

Retirement means the beginning of a new life, and a new beginning of life requires saying goodbye to many people and many things in the past, whether it is the previous unit or colleagues in the previous unit. The past can only be divided into two kinds, one is only able to reminisce, the other is unbearable, if you still use practical actions to remember the past, it means that you are living in the past. In order to achieve the old and welcome the new, the past place can not go to the place, the past people can not contact without contact, only in this way will the present be relaxed, the future road can be brisk, do not contact the former colleagues is to show the attitude, the previous grievances and grievances will be written off, the two do not see each other means that the two do not owe each other.

Getting off at the same time or getting off the bus successively will go their separate ways, and there will be no intersection for the rest of your life.

Hello! The workplace is like a battlefield, and many people have conflicts with their colleagues at work. But I didn't show it, and after I retired, I was relieved, and I didn't have to be angry with those people anymore.

Because once you retire, everything is no longer the same as before, and the relationship with your colleagues is only because of work, and there is not much emotion, so you don't want to socialize.

It is because after retirement, their lives return to peace, and they do not have a lot of interpersonal interactions, and their lives are also very comfortable and stable.

It's not that they don't want to socialize, but after retirement, they each have their own circles, and there is no need to only associate with colleagues.

Hobbies and interests are different, circles are different, and if I don't go to work anymore, there will be fewer contacts.

After retirement, I will no longer be involved in any company affairs, and I will not have a common language with my colleagues, so I will not want to continue to associate with them.

It shows that the relationship with my former colleagues is not very good, and the relationship is average, so there is no contact after retirement.

Personally, I think the reason why I don't want to associate with my former colleagues after retirement is because my life has changed a lot since retirement, and I feel a little sad when I think about it.

Maybe they've been estranged before and don't want to contact each other anymore.

It's not that I don't want to come and go, but I prefer to enjoy quiet solitude.

Because a colleague is a colleague who can't be a friend, and he finally retires, why should he torture himself by contacting his former colleagues?

Why are many people reluctant to associate with their old colleagues after retirement?

Since he is about to retire, it means that he has entered the ranks of the elderly, and both physical strength and energy are declining, which is an irresistible natural law.

As leaders and colleagues of the unit, they should be given appropriate care in terms of the weight and quantity of their work, and try their best to withdraw from the front line of their own hands, give full play to their experienced specialties, and become staff officers. Preferential treatment for the elderly who are about to retire is not only a manifestation of the Chinese nation.

The fine tradition of respecting the elderly is also an affirmation of the lifelong work of the elderly who are about to retire, which not only reflects the good atmosphere of a unit, but also reflects the normal friendship between colleagues, which is not only conducive to carrying forward and inheriting traditional virtues, but also warms the hearts of colleagues who are about to retire and are working.

We should respect the colleague who is about to retire, he has worked hard in this position all his life and made his own contribution to the cause of the unit. As a unit and his colleagues, his contribution should be respected. In the process of daily interaction and verbal communication, at least maintain the usual and consistent respect.

What he wants to do, the relevant departments and individuals should give priority to dealing with it in accordance with the regulations, and the leader in charge should talk to him alone on behalf of the organization, whether it is a business-like style, or a heart-to-heart conversation, or an in-depth ** style, giving the elderly a chance to spit out their hearts.

For those who are about to retire in the company, especially a few months before retirement, there may be some psychological problems for the prospective retiree because of some trivial things.

As a unit, we should conscientiously observe, carefully do a good job in relevant ideological and political work, care for and respect personality in work, and let retirees retire happily; this is the touchstone for testing a unit's humanistic care, and at the same time, it is also a basic action necessary for a unit and its staff. The road of life retirement has come to an end, completely freed from the work of social practice activities, and the life process of going home to become a pensioner has been experienced, and the uninhibited and indulgent emotions of this life are gone, and the mature mentality of seeing the world is not willing to take the initiative to contact anyone and things, and wants to fully enjoy the lonely and lonely time.

I think you should get along with each other with a normal heart, don't care too much, and don't fall into the trap; I don't think so, and you can keep in touch with him after retirement and share interesting things about your work with him.

Respect each other, most of them have nothing to do with each other after retirement, and they may go out to play together in the future.

It is important to adopt the right attitude towards these colleagues, not that these colleagues will not have any intersection after retirement.

I think there are three main reasons!

The first is that there are grudges against each other when they are on the job:

Everyone knows that colleagues are not friends, let alone classmates, but are actually acquaintances at work, so their relationship is wonderful. Due to various reasons, everyone will encounter this and that problem in their careers, of course, some are due to different personalities, some people are due to different purposes, but more because of work tasks, advanced job titles, welfare benefits and other aspects of professional involvement, will produce some grievances and grievances in the workplace, because it is inevitable that more than ten years, so that decades together, it is inevitable that this phenomenon will appear. So once separated, I really don't want to savor those boring things anymore.

The second is that I am afraid of hurting my colleagues in contact

Why? Since a person is separated from the work unit, he dares to stop commenting on some guidance of the unit or some phenomena that he is not accustomed to, so if this person is always talking about the affairs of the unit with his colleagues, it is inevitable that some words will be easily passed on to the guidance, and the guidance will not make the retired personnel what they do? However, he must have thoughts about his colleagues on the job, so that he may misunderstand and cause his colleagues to be hurt, which is equal to the gain and loss.

So this is one of the reasons why retired people are reluctant to keep in touch with their old colleagues.

When people are not retired, they are crawling in the workplace and have high morale. And once you retire, your thoughts will be different, and if you have your own preferences, you will devote yourself more and more to it when you have time; Those who don't have preferences have to find some preferences to pass the time, and basically have no free time, and they are going to deal with the trivial things of the unit, of course, they also don't want to recall the grievances and grievances of the unit. In order to prevent me from being unhappy, I am reluctant to socialize with my colleagues, and would rather find classmates, comrades-in-arms, and hair children than colleagues.

Of course, a very small number of good colleagues can also be promoted to friends, and the relationship is still close, which is another matter.

To sum up, the subject asks why people are reluctant to contact their former colleagues after retirement. I think there are many reasons, but there are three main points: first, colleagues are competitors, and there have been grievances in the workplace; Second, contact with colleagues is easy to hurt him, especially some colleagues on the job, once they say some complaints, it is easy to touch the unit or guidance, which will cause unnecessary troubles and entanglements; The third is that I am disgusted with the atmosphere of intrigue in the workplace, and I am even more reluctant to fall into it after retirement.

In other words, my preferences are too busy and I don't have that free time.

Therefore, except for the special promotion of a few colleagues to friends, most people are really reluctant to contact their former colleagues after retirement.

Because colleagues often have no real feelings between them, they just work together, and the suspicion between public colleagues is actually supported by work, and there is no need to maintain these behaviors without work, and the communication between colleagues is not sincere, just because of work.

Because the two of them were only some interests before, now that they have retired and have no interests, they don't want to contact each other anymore.

Personally, I think that it is not that there is no connection, but that the lives of two people do not intersect, and there is naturally less contact.

Because everyone has their own things, and the relationship is very dull when they are at work, and the two families are very far away after retirement, and they don't see each other much.

The two of them are no longer working in the same place, and they have retired, and they feel that there is no need to contact their colleagues, indicating that the two people do not have a real relationship when they are working.

Because the relationship with colleagues was not very good when I was in the unit, and I had my own life after retirement, there was no need to contact my former colleagues.

<> why don't people want to keep in touch with their colleagues after they retire? In real life, there are many people who still keep in touch with their colleagues after retirement, but some people don't want to keep in touch with their colleagues anymore, why is that? Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and when you retire, you quit your original job.

As for the contact with colleagues, it is possible to keep in touch with individual people, and most people who are general acquaintances do not need to be in contact. As for the people who "don't deal with" in the first place, they naturally stay away, what is the reason? Different living environments do not have the same context; After retirement, I left my old work environment, what do I talk about with other people?

Current political news? Annihilation of the ideal of life? Parents are short?

Isn't that? Rather than being tired of chatting about Shuang's fortune, it's better not to talk. It would be good to have a few polite words when you meet, which shows that both parties are still polite and respectful.

I don't want to see others flaunt their sense of accomplishment and superiority.

In fact, everyone understands that there will be a day when they will retire. However, many people show a sense of superiority to retirees, after all, there is a big difference between the various benefits of in-service and retirement, and for ordinary retirees, the content of life and the quality of life are bland, and it is inevitable to have an inferiority complex. psychological gap; This phenomenon is manifested in the fact that before retirement, leading cadres, when they are on the job, work and life are smooth, not only how much better the material life is than after retirement, but also the spiritual self-feeling is good, when they are in office, they enjoy the respect of the subordinates and the masses, whether it is true or false, most of the people they see are smiling faces, how can it still be the case after retirement?

You quietly thinks that people who are not optimistic about them also get ahead, and the psychological gap is more obvious, so they simply can't see it and don't worry about it. As for the colleagues who have a bad relationship at work, they can't wait to hide far away, isn't it unpleasant to contact them? The feelings that are supported by work will inevitably end with the end of work.

After retirement, everyone's lifestyle is not the same, the Tao is different, the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, there is no feast in the world, just live happily and casually, and there is no need to ask for troubles.

People and friends fight to take the tea cool, this is very understandable, before retirement, people in their position, surrounded by many stakeholders, with their own purposes to approach you, for their own interests, but the Chang can flatter, find a way to have a good relationship with you, once retired, not in the position, these people will naturally disperse. The humane ones will greet you, and the impersonal ones may even ignore you and completely change into a cold face.

Because after retirement, I want to live my life in the past years, and I can't get used to my colleagues when I was working, and I feel that my colleagues are very annoying.

Because they want to start a new life, they don't want to connect with their former friends anymore, after all, it will make them think of their previous lives.

Why do many people retire and stop keeping in touch with their old colleagues? It stands to reason that when you retire, you will have a lot of free time. In order to pass the time, you should drink tea and chat with old colleagues more, so it is reasonable, why don't you stop contacting old colleagues after retirement?

In fact, it is nothing more than such a few reasons, first, people take tea and cool. In the past, when I was on the job, I was still valuable to the company and to other colleagues. Now that I am retired, this value will naturally not exist, and others will no longer respect me.

In the past, when I was working, my colleagues would come over to say hello very warmly when they saw me, because others had something to ask for them, so they would always have a good relationship with themselves.

But now that I'm retired, it's useless for others, and others don't need to ask for their help. So many people understand this truth, and naturally they won't be bored.

Now that you're retired, you're still in touch with your old colleagues, and you're of no use to others, so who cares about you? Therefore, many people are very knowledgeable, understand the truth that people go to tea and cool, and they no longer contact their old colleagues after retirement.

After retirement, I don't want to contact my colleagues in front of me, because the contact of my colleagues is only related to work, and now I don't work, so there is no need to contact.

These people have been in the company all their lives, and there will definitely be some contradictions when they get along for a long time, and this is also a relief for them after retirement, so they will not contact their colleagues. They don't feel the need to contact them anymore after they leave, and they don't want to put too much pressure on themselves.