Is it really bad to marry far away?

Relatively speaking, in a girl's life, there is one more opportunity to change her destiny than a boy, that is, getting married, which can change regional differences and grasp the opportunity to grasp the future and destiny again, but if you don't grasp it well, it will also backfire. There are advantages and disadvantages for girls to marry away from home: the advantage is that if the husband and wife have a conflict, dispute, or quarrel, the parents cannot see or hear it, and it will not make the parents sad and sad; The disadvantage is that you can't always do your filial piety by your parents' side, and there is also a lot of cost to go home once.

There are pros and cons, to the point that there is no question of being stupid or not, as long as the two are happy and the two hearts are in harmony.

Sweetness of love is the greatest happiness.

Is it good to marry far away? I have collected a lot of topics and articles about distant marriage on the Internet, some of which are good and bad, but more than 99% of people who are encouraged not to marry far away, most of these people have experienced some views of distant marriage and parents, I believe that this problem has been plaguing couples in sweet love, today I will analyze this problem in my personal opinion!

First: Does the man really love you, be good to you, this is based on your own feelings, don't listen to other people's words, and then you have no opinions, calm down at night and ask your heart, recall the days with him are more laughter, or tears!

Second: The man's family, the man's parents and siblings are not good to you, some people say that they are good to themselves when they are not married, and they are not good to themselves when they are married, I am very puzzled by what these people say, why is it not good for you after marriage, have you ever reviewed yourself? Is there something wrong with you?

Even if the other parent's behavior is wrong, as a child, we must learn to tolerate, and when the parents are old, we must treat them like children, and then we can communicate with our husbands and solve problems. No matter where you marry, this problem may arise! There is a difference between being a daughter-in-law and being a daughter, the roles have changed, and the responsibilities have also changed.

So this is not a necessary factor to prevent distant marriages.

Third: It is inconvenient to see your parents far away from home! Less frequent homecoming!

I think this question is the most fundamental question! Let me analyze and analyze, suppose you find a close family to marry, do you go to work? If you go to a first-tier city to develop, what is the difference between marrying far away, you can go home whenever you want?

If you say that you are developing in your county or city, I believe that every company has its own regulations, and the company is not opened by your family! You can go to work if you want to, you can go home if you want to, it's not realistic! Today's young people who don't want to go to big cities to see the world, go on vacation to travel, go to farther places or abroad to see; Even if you're far away!

Now the traffic is so developed, it only takes about 5 hours to fly from Heilongjiang to Yunnan (don't say that you don't have money, you can decide whether you have money or not).

To put it another way, does your husband always stay with his parents? No, he also goes outside to earn money to support his family, and some can't go back home once a year, so according to your ideas, he can not go outside and work hard, and find a job close to home, so that he can accompany him.