Is it true to marry or not to marry if you are pregnant, should you marry or not?

Updated on society 2024-06-12
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you are pregnant, the boy ignores you, and treats you badly and does not let you spend a penny on him and also picks the door, is a dime a dime, although such a person is pregnant, it is better not to marry, because it is too far away from his mother's home, and it is not good for him to be angry and to himself, so that every day should not be called the earth and the earth is not spiritual, and it is oneself who suffers, In general, it is up to you to marry or not to marry!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You're pregnant now, so it's supposed to be married. It's just that you don't have a good relationship with your boyfriend now, if it's not too good, I feel like you still don't want to get married, if your boyfriend treats you well. As long as your boyfriend sees you as his only one, you can still marry, and as long as you live a happy and happy life, it is good to marry far away, and now that the transportation is particularly developed, it should be no problem to marry **.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It depends on the other party's character and the family's acceptance of you, if the person is good to you, knows how to feel sorry for you and protects you, then there is no problem in marrying, the biggest hope of parents is that their children are happy, you live happily, and they will not say anything. If you think that people are bad, then think carefully, after all, it is a lifelong thing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's a bit late to think about this problem when you're pregnant, it's not too far to marry and have nothing to do with pregnancy, it has something to do with whether the other party is worth it, if the other party is not worth marrying, then you don't want to marry, if the other party is worth it, no matter how far away it is, it's not a distance.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you are pregnant, marry far away or not, it is very bad not to be able to marry out at home, it should be married farther, and if you don't add a child, whose surname is counted.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Pregnant, marry far away or not marry?

    Marrying or not marrying someone actually has nothing to do with whether you are pregnant or not? How is this person? Do you know what kind of burden is it like at home?

    What will life be like in the future? You have to have a number in your heart, pregnancy, it's just a condition, others are very good, worth marrying, that's the best, don't lower the consideration of these issues because you are pregnant, I wish you to marry a good person and be happy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Pregnancy is not a reason to marry or not to marry, the reason for marriage is because of love, if you really love this person, this person is responsible and responsible, then distance is not a problem.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you are pregnant with the child of the man who marries far away, is it possible that you will not marry? Since you are pregnant with someone else's child, it is the two of you who live together for love, not playing family games. Be responsible for yourself and your children, and even more so for a happy future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on how much your boyfriend loves you, if he loves you very much, and you love him, then get married, far from a problem, as long as you really love each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, long-distance marriage is the biggest disadvantage of girls, in case there is something that their mother's family can't take care of, can't help, it's also very troublesome to go home for the New Year's holiday, and it depends on how the two people get along for a long time to see that people now say that they will change, anyway, they don't support long-distance marriage!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm also married far away, do you think your boyfriend is really worth your TOEFL for a lifetime? You have to think about this problem seriously, because after marrying far away, it means that your own relatives and friends will slowly get farther and farther away from you, the relationship will become weaker and weaker, and the life circle around you will be completely renewed.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Whether you marry or not depends on the relationship between you. The main thing depends on whether he is really good to you. It seems that he really cares about you, takes care of you, understands you, and tolerates you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What can I do if I am already pregnant? If you love him, marry him, no matter how far you go. If you don't love it, you will give birth to it yourself and bring it yourself, and the child is innocent.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, you have to know if this man is worthy of your marriage, if it is worth marrying, then you will marry it, if it is not worth it, then don't marry.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First of all, you have to see whether this man is worth your luck, if he is really good to you, if his character is not good, take measures quickly, because this is a lifelong thing.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Whether to marry or not depends on whether the other person is worth marrying, as well as your determination.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    How so? Marriage is like a gamble, it depends on whether you have the eyes of Sun Wukong, see if this lover loves you and loves you, you can only polish your eyes, and others can't help you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, what people are most afraid of is not that they work hard and have no results, but that they choose to give up before they try. Think about it a thousand times, it's better to do it once, if you don't push yourself, how will you know how good you are. Instead of complaining, change.

    If you don't grow, who will be strong for you? Good morning, encouragement!!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's a bit late to think about this when you're pregnant.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Whether you should do this or not, the suggestions and statements of others are all from others, and you are at most just learning from them, rather than disturbing yourself by mediocrities, because the person who knows the situation best has to be yourself.

    Because of the topic of distant marriage, there are many people who have come over, and they have also given a lot of very meaningful things, so you might as well take a look, maybe their words can really give a wake-up call.

    Ms. A, married for 5 years.

    In fact, it is not that a woman cannot marry far away, but it depends on what kind of man you marry. I myself am married far away, so I know deeply that if a woman wants to marry far away, what kind of risks she needs to take and what kind of things she will encounter, so for the matter of marrying far away, women still have to be cautious and must take a good look at this man, because a woman who marries far away can only rely on this man in addition to herself, if this man is left alone, then a woman who marries far away is destined to die hard.

    A man who is worthy of you marrying far away must be a man who loves you deeply, has a sense of responsibility, and can give you enough security, because most women who marry far away actually lack a sense of security the most, so when a man can't give you enough security, then you can't marry, because even if you marry, your marriage will not be happy.

    Ms. B, married for 9 years.

    The standard for whether a woman can marry far away is whether the woman can support herself and be independent on her own, because a woman who marries far away, if she can't be independent, then she will encounter all kinds of problems, and after a long time, the man will dislike you for being useless, and the in-laws will blame you for being lazy, don't think I'm alarmist, because most women who are not independent from marrying are almost like this. And such a woman will also suffer from gains and losses, always suspicious, and have no sense of security at all, so marriage is destined to be difficult to be happy.

    Therefore, a woman who cannot be independent and cannot support herself by herself is best not to choose to marry far away, because this may be doomed to a hard life.

    Ms. C, married for 11 years.

    In fact, whether a woman can marry far away, the most important criterion is not to live with her mother-in-law's family, because many unfortunate women who marry far away are actually because they live under the same roof with their mother-in-law, you must know that even if the mother-in-law is good, it is difficult to get along with her daughter-in-law for a long time, because over time, the gap between the lives and thoughts of the two generations will definitely cause all kinds of problems, and then the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will naturally not be good.

    Therefore, it is okay for a woman to marry far away, but you must stay away from your mother-in-law's house, and you must not live under the same roof with your mother-in-law, because this is the most important point of a happy marriage.

    I agree with the words of the three of them very much, because this is indeed the case, if a woman can't do these things, then it will be difficult to be happy after marrying far away, because this is the case.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you can, it's best to find a local boy to marry, unless you're ready to quit your job and leave your parents, relatives and friends to start over in a strange place.

    However, marrying away is not as scary as you think, if you marry in a more developed city than the city where you live, for example, if you marry from a third- or fourth-tier city to a first-tier city, that's okay.

    But the premise is that you have to have a house and a hukou in a first-tier city, so that your children can develop better.

    Then there is the question of whether you can get along well with your parents-in-law.

    If you're meeting a strong and evil mother-in-law, then I advise you to give up.

    When one day you are wronged in a foreign land and have nowhere to go, maybe you will regret it.

    Don't get carried away by love before marriage, the bride price must be required, and the house must be named.

    And it's best to buy your own house before marriage, and don't waste any of the rights and interests you should fight for.

    When you go to a strange city, you have to work hard to improve yourself.

    Even if you can't go out to work because your children can't go out, you must find ways to earn money and improve yourself at home.

    In fact, there are happiness in marrying far away, we must be prepared to live a good life without anyone, and we must also have the confidence to accompany our husbands for a lifetime.

    There are countless possibilities in life, and as long as we don't give up on ourselves, life won't be too bad!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    After reading your description and analyzing it thoroughly, I think that you don't put love first, and the first person who occupies the first place is still the right person, with a house and a car, so it seems that you had better reject him, lest he be hurt more!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You know you need to think about it, and that's right. I believe that through your consideration, you will have an informed decision. Outsiders can't just say anything about you. And now the transportation is very convenient. Distance shouldn't be an issue.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If your father and brother are in good health, your boyfriend takes good care of you and can marry far away, but he doesn't see how much he loves you, if you marry in the past, you can't guarantee that you will be happy, and you won't be very down-to-earth when you leave your father and brother, and you will often miss them, so it's better to find someone in the city, which can take care of the family without affecting your career.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Judging from what you said, it is better that you should not marry far away, because your family needs you to take care of it, because your family is now sick of old and old diseases, you are the pillar of your family, if you marry far away, who will take care of the people in your family? If your boyfriend loves you very much, he shouldn't leave you and go back to his hometown, and the other is that you say that his mother doesn't like you very much, and thinks that you kidnapped his son, then this kind of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship will be difficult to get along with in the future, so if your boyfriend really loves you, let him come to your city, if he doesn't want to, it means that he only cares about his family, and doesn't care about your actual difficulties.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If your mother-in-law now has a certain opinion on you, and your husband is a bit of a mother-in-law, it is not recommended that you marry far away. It's about a happy life for the rest of your life.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There are many girls who will choose to marry far away without hesitation for the sake of love, regardless of the opposition of their parents, to defend the so-called sacred love. When you are far away and really live a life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, when you encounter something unpleasant, when you don't have a close relative around you, that feeling can only be experienced by yourself.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Most people who marry far away regret it, once the love is not there and there are no relatives around, it is themselves who regret it at that time.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The meaning of the phrase "parents don't travel far" means that when your parents are old and need to be taken care of, don't leave and take care of them.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think it's best for girls not to marry far away, in real life, most girls who marry far away regret it, too far away from home, their parents can't take care of it, and many girls to be married are only children, and the old people will worry that they will miss their children if they don't see them all year round, so marrying far away is like a big gamble, no matter whether they win or lose, they will have regrets, so they don't approve of girls marrying far away.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Should I marry far away, my parents are not far away, I think, be closer to my mother's home, such parents will take care of them when they are old, and besides, there are bouncing ones, well, closer to my mother's home, and then there is someone to support you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    There are many examples. Often the person who marries far away pays the side. You won't get much in return.

    Believe in love with everything in the chair? will get damage. This is indeed something that needs to be carefully considered.

    After all, getting married once is enough for the harm of a second marriage. Far from being a child. So talk to your boyfriend about it.

    This situation of yours, the matter of your parents to the two of you. Parents don't allow it, but the financial conditions are it. It's all about looking at your boyfriend through that you don't understand.

    If he is a form of machismo. I don't think there's any need to talk about it anymore. Two people in **?

    It is not necessary to go to the south, nor does it have to go to the woman, there must be a common development, a prerequisite. Select a city. Go to life and work hard.

    Tell your boyfriend about your predicament. You wait for his reply. Understand you and tolerate you.

    And respect you. You might still consider talking to him. You know what I mean?

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