Talk about whether borrowing money will spoil your friendship?

If it's really a friend, then my money is your money, and if it's useful if you lack money, I'll borrow it, and it's okay if you don't pay it back.

To be honest, I think it's easy to have problems, because it's normal that you think he'll be grateful, but when he doesn't, he will have a knot.

I think real friends will think about each other, and the question of borrowing money or not will not affect the relationship.

From my own point of view, if I don't lend me a hand when I need it most, I'm not a friend.

No, because it's borrowing money and not scamming money. When a friend is in trouble, it is normal to lend him money, why does it deteriorate.

After really agreeing to borrow money, if the money lent to you by a friend is not the amount you expect, you will definitely feel that you are not a friend enough.

I don't usually borrow money when a friend asks me to borrow money, and if he cares, there's a good chance we'll no longer be friends.

I don't easily ask someone else to take money, because I think once there is a problem with borrowing money between friends, it is not far away.

If you borrow money and say that you want to repay it later, you will have all kinds of problems if you keep urging it, and you will not be able to become friends in the end.

I think he was originally a friend, and at this time he was in trouble, and I should help him, there is nothing wrong with it.

When you are willing to help, you feel that he is in difficulty, but when you find that he is not in trouble, you will feel cheated.

There is no connection between friendship and money, if a friend borrows money from you, and you happen to have no money to lend him, he will feel embarrassed, and you will feel embarrassed, and the friendship will inevitably be discounted. If you lend money to a friend and he doesn't pay it back on time, and you are too embarrassed to urge it, and you end up hinting a few times before paying it back. You may think, so untrustworthy, it seems that you can't trust him in the future.

In this way, the friendship turns sour. What's more, if you don't pay back the money you borrow, you will finally meet in court and never become friends again.

If the other party is a friend and has to have a relationship with the money, then the person who borrowed the money from the friend must do everything possible to return it as promised; And the person who lends money to a friend must have the intention of not getting the money back, because the friend must have a hard time. It's even better if both parties open up and solve problems together, and don't let money ruin the friendship.

If he doesn't pay you back, if you ask for money, the relationship will not be good.

If your friend doesn't pay back, you're not happy. Ask a friend for money, and the friend is not happy. You see, both of them are not happy, how good is it?

Not only am I disgusted, but I will even cut off my association with such people.

We have always adhered to the principle of "helping the emergency but not the poor", and it is very suitable for borrowing money even in the face of relatives or friends. Of course you can turn down anyone who borrows money from you, but we probably can't.

As you say: "begging friendship" Is this a real friend? Or does he just use you as an ATM?

Because it doesn't matter if it's a man or a womanSelf-esteem, unless it is absolutely necessary, the word borrowed money will never be spoken. This is a kind of denial of ability and a failure of economic status for oneself.

But now in life, friends or colleagues slowly ask you to borrow a dozen or twenty yuan, and the money is not much, so many of us don't, or even know how to refuse.

If you're not convinced, I'll give you an example of a colleague I worked with before. He is the typical "begging" type of borrowing money, every time he asks you, he borrows a few dollars, a dozen dollars. It's just a reason to buy a pack of cigarettes, a bottle of water, or even a breakfast.

I borrowed everyone in our department.

But what you also need to know is that the salary is thousands of dollars a month, and the family has a house and a car. It's not a child from a poor background, but it's very annoying that he never pays back the money he borrowed, because of more than a dozen yuan, and we are all embarrassed to ask him to pay it back. I always feel like I'm losing face and even embarrassed.

That's what we think, but what about him? It's still my own way, as long as my colleagues and friends I know have borrowed it in this way. even left a lot of accounts in the small store downstairs.

In the end, he was sued by someone to the company, found the boss, and the boss found his father and asked his father to repay the money.

I resigned and left, and then we didn't ask for the money, so we could only give it to him. So a lot of our friends and colleagues slapped their thighs and regretted it. also saw the true face of such a person clearly, and stayed away from it from then on.

So now, when I borrow money from friends or colleagues, I have to inquire about his character, credit, etc., and measure whether to borrow money in combination with my own money.

Of course, if it is a "begging to borrow money" friend, I will directly block and break off the relationship.

The kind of friend who has deep feelings and pays it back on time will not be disgusted, and the most disgusted is the kind of person who doesn't pay it back on time, and when he asks for money, he is a grandson, and he usually doesn't look for himself, and when he finds himself, he is the kind of friend who borrows money, and he is the most disgusted with this kind of person.

In fact, there are such friends, I will just leave and cut off relations with them, because I feel that I often ask me to borrow money, and they may treat me as an ATM, which has no meaning to me.

I can't get used to him asking his friends for money! I'm also going to tell him why he doesn't lend money anymore! Help plan your monthly living expenses!

You can't expect to borrow money to get by!

I will be disgusted, I will feel that the relationship between two people is based on money, and the other party will take advantage of my embarrassing weakness to borrow money repeatedly, which will make me feel very bad. I can't accept such a friendship.

I don't have such friends around me, if there is, I should be particularly disgusted, once in a while I will do a favor, if the amount is too large, I will choose to refuse, after all, before I understand the character, I will not easily borrow money.

If this friend often borrows money from me and doesn't pay it back on time, I will be very disgusted and even cut off contact with him.

I won't borrow, because I don't want to lose my friends, borrowing money is spending money to buy enemies, human beings have the gene of selfishness and greed, I know everything about the existence of this gene, when you lend money to others, maybe he will be grateful to you, thinking that the money will pay you back, but: once he spends the money he borrowed from you, he doesn't want to pay you back when you ask him to pay back, he doesn't want to return the money he earned to you, because: the existence of selfish and greedy genes determines a person's nature, and this nature is condemned to death. Some people rely on acquired education and good mental quality genes to control greed.

I will take the initiative to repay you, but it is difficult to find such a high-quality person, and ten such people out of ten thousand people are very good, so: I would rather invite a friend to dinner and drink than lend him money unless I don't want the money to give it to him. And don't lend it to him, for I understand the nature of man

If I don't have any money, don't keep borrowing it, so I don't think many people will like it, let alone take it for granted that others lend you, you have to have a degree in your heart.

It depends on how his 'borrowing' is, if he doesn't borrow much every time, it can be returned on time, it doesn't matter, after all, no one is perfect, he may have this habit! But if you don't pay it back if you borrow it, then I'm sorry, I'm not a local tyrant, and I don't want to get used to bad habits like you!

If my friend often borrows money from me, I will definitely refuse, because my family does not run a bank, he has been borrowing money and not paying it back, and I don't have that much money.

Of course I'm disgusted!

If there is really a difficulty, it is understandable to take a hand on your own, but if you think of yourself as a bank, I will never allow it, and of course I don't have that strength.

<> in our daily life, we often encounter some relatives, friends or colleagues who borrow money from you, when they borrow money from you, they will always worry about what to do if the money is lent out and not returned, the family itself is not rich, but if you don't borrow, you are afraid of hurting the feelings between relatives and friends or colleagues, and it is very tangled.

Today's article will help you analyze whether your money should be lent out, so that you will no longer be entangled in borrowing or borrowing after reading it.

Regarding whether to borrow or not, we only need to judge from three aspects, namely the purpose, the relationship with you, and the ability to repay.

1. Purpose? First of all, you must distinguish the purpose of the other party to borrow money from you, as the saying goes, borrowing is not borrowing poor.

What is urgent, that is, there is an emergency and you need to use money urgently, such as sudden illness, paying hospitalization fees, or urgent matters such as the need to repay the mortgage and credit card in time.

What is poverty, simply put, is no money, and not doing a proper job, rough and sleepy, lazy to do, use money to consume in advance or for non-serious purposes, such as borrowing money to buy a car, borrowing money to buy a high-end mobile phone, borrowing money to gamble, etc.

Second, how is the relationship with you?

If we have a very good relationship with you and meet the conditions for urgent money, then we can help and borrow if we can.

But there are two premises, one is not to affect your own normal life, don't affect the family because of borrowing money, after all, you are not living on your own now, you still have a wife, children, parents, they are the first.

Second, if it is a large amount of money, it must be an IOU. Don't be embarrassed to let the other party make an IOU, as the saying goes, brothers settle accounts, let's first villain and then gentleman, it is better than first gentleman and then villain (how many people are empty of money because they don't pay IOUs, and in the end the money is gone, and the friendship between friends is broken).

If the other party is really a good friend of yours, he will naturally consider the problem from your point of view, understand you, and will definitely cooperate with you to make an IOU.

If an IOU can affect your relationship, what kind of friends are you? This is not a friend at all, let alone lend him money.

Third, the other party's ability to repay. The ability to repay is also an important criterion, after all, even if the relationship is good, if you don't get the money you lent back, then it will be in vain, or that sentence, you are not living alone now, you still have a wife, children, parents, you have the responsibility and obligation to make their lives better. Remember, take care of yourself when you have the ability and help others when you have the resources.

If the above three points are not satisfied, then you can directly refuse, teach you a set of rejection formulas, so that you can refuse without hurting feelings, without offending people, and can get the other party's gratitude.

This is a puzzle that anyone may encounter, that is, a friend asks you to borrow money, whether you borrow or not. The borrowing here is, of course, no interest, no IOU, and only free borrowing by friendship. The kind of borrowing that writes IOUs, signs contracts, and collects interest needs to be a different matter.

Lend money to a friend, what you are most afraid of encountering. If you don't pay it back, you won't get it back. Not only did you lose money, but you also lost a friend, which is undoubtedly the worst thing about borrowing money from a friend. Before borrowing money from a friend, this situation needs to be thought through.

If you borrow money from a friend, you may not want to come back, and there is a high probability that this situation will occur, so when a friend asks you to borrow money, will you borrow it? This question, in everyone's heart, has its own answer. What I want to say is that you can't be too concerned about gains and losses, you can't take money too seriously, and in front of human favors, you still have to borrow the money you should borrow, even if you can't get it back.

Even if people owe you money, you can't owe favors to others.

If you are poor, you will be good alone, and if you are good, you will help the world. Kind people are rewarded, and it is a great blessing in life to help those in need within their ability.

In life, who doesn't have a difficult time. If a friend around me is in trouble and needs money to solve it, and comes to me to borrow money, and I have the ability to help, I will consider borrowing money, I think friendship is more important than money.

The sea is inclusive, and there is tolerance. Be a big heart, and never be selfish. When we help others, we help ourselves, when others are in trouble, we help others, and when we encounter difficulties, others will also reach out to help us.

People will compare hearts to hearts, and your kindness will be rewarded. If you help others regularly, there will always be people who will be grateful to you if you have received help, and if you encounter misfortune, they will certainly not stand idly by.