I really, very, very much hate my mom for always scolding me, making me very unconfident in doing th

This is a sign of lack of love, and I don't think this statement is unpleasant, because it is a lack of love in the first place. Some are born with a surplus family, some are born with a loving family, and some have neither. From your question, it can be seen that the reason for your lack of self-confidence is mainly because of your mother, of course, it is a good choice to reconcile with her, but in reality it is not that simple, otherwise you would have reconciled with him a long time ago, wouldn't you?

Of course, I mean reconciliation is the harmony of the relationship between two people. Although I know you know, I would like to remind you that hating her is only bad for yourself, and in the end, it will only end badly. College is not the only way to live a good life in the future, and family is not the only thing to love.

There's a method called self-hypnosis, and you can look into it. Sometimes you are the most reliable, as long as you can rely on it. Upstairs, I don't think you really understand the concept of 'every family is different'.

Before solving the problem, there is a kind of "wrong is wrong, what can you do to me!" (My mom always deliberately teased me.)

That's what I did. You can also think of it this way: "I can't do it well anyway, it's you who are uncomfortable!" ”

Mom's management method is very wrong, this kind of parent is often very impatient, I am in the same situation as you, I can only say that the farther away from her is to study hard, the better.

You're still in elementary school, but I think there's something wrong with you.

Maybe it's because you're still young, and the things you think about are relatively one-sided, I'm 24 years old this year, and I'm also a girl, and I'm also from your age, and my mother often scolds me, saying I'm lazy, I can't get into college A, and everyone says about me. Now that I've graduated from college and come out to work, a lot of things and a lot of perspectives have changed.

Parents want their children to be successful. Why don't you take the initiative to help your mom with the work? Have you ever thought about your mother's feelings? In fact, it is not easy for her. Every time my mom scolded me, I was angry, but every time I saw her tired, I felt so distressed.

I didn't put a lot of effort into studying when I was in school, but now that I'm working, I often think that if I could do it all over again, I would definitely study hard from the beginning and do my best.

You're young, not the very sensible kind. It's normal to think like that, but you also have to think more about your parents.

Oh naïve me too, my mom is simple, I definitely have to study hard to get to the edge of the sky.

Hate can't solve the problem, your mother is too grumpy, but sometimes you don't need to endure, but to understand her nagging, she lets you study hard is also for your good, if it is a strange child, she will not nag. Everyone cares differently, you can try to talk to her and talk to her. If you don't want to listen to what she says but keep putting up with it, sooner or later you will break out.

It's better to communicate with her, I'm sure she'll understand you somewhat. She is always nagging and tired, but she is still always nagging, and it is also for you. In short, I think you lack communication, and there will be an invisible barrier to your relationship in the long run, so talk to your mother more about what is in your heart.

My dad always beats me, but I love him very much now.

It shows that you have something wrong there, and she will scold you. Because my parents also scolded me for why I didn't die, you should die quickly. Although this is angry talk.

I'm supposed to be a sophomore, and this summer they always scolded me for a little thing, endlessly scolding, and every time we had a conflict, I kept silent, because there were indeed parents who couldn't communicate at all.

Whenever I didn't say a word and didn't want to pay attention to them, they would get even worse and scold me for being angry with them over a trivial matter! Call me a stingy person. This summer, they scolded me for being more and more indecent the more I went to school, so hurry up and go back to school!

They said they especially regretted letting me go to college. So I've decided to drop out. Go out to work, so that there are fewer and fewer conflicts with them.

Secondly, you can enjoy the care of your parents while not asking your parents to give you freedom at the same time. When you find that your parents are acting for you in some things, you have to learn to refuse, even if it can really help you a lot and will save you a lot of detours, you should also tell them that you want to do it yourself.

This gives them the opportunity to prove to them that you already have what you look like an adult, that you are contributing to the family, and that you are sharing the responsibilities. After all, they need to collect more reliable evidence before they can gradually accept you as they grow up, and learn to treat you like an adult, so that you can have more dignity at home.

Finally, it is recommended that you adjust your perspective and understand why your parents have their current outlook on employment from the characteristics of the era when they grew up. Once you understand this, you can understand that many times your parents' anxiety is not deliberately aimed at you, but is caused by the limitations of the era, so that you will be more tolerant of what they say.

You don't have to be sad, even my parents are like this, but my parents are all for our good, although my parents say that they don't like us and dislike us, but they still love us. Our parents just want us to be looked down upon, and we don't want to see us living as miserable as our parents used to be.

Although my parents are like this for our good, they don't take into account our feelings, children will think so much, most of the time they will only listen to the surface meaning, so there are so many depressed children, I really hope parents can realize this.

There's no way you can change your parents' minds. There are some things you have heard, don't dwell on them, you just do your own thing, you graduate, you work, you can naturally leave this house.

Prove yourself and find a way to make yourself better. That's how I came over, she used to say that girls are unproductive, it's useless to have daughters, and she beat and scolded me, and then I studied hard, and gradually, my grades stabilized in the top three in the class, from elementary school to high school, and she is now very good to me......

If you really go out to live, your mother will call you ** and let you go home in less than a week. I tried.

It's true that your mother didn't figure things out and then scolded you for his fault, I think, but the learning he cares about is also for your good, sometimes parents are like this, I think you have to communicate with him well.

Inertia dictates that the older you get, the harder it is to change. Try to communicate, avoid its edge, and debug your psychology.

Don't think so, how can any parent not love their children, but it feels like your mother pinned all her hopes on you, and once you don't do what she expected, you will say that your grades are not as good as others. Even if you do well in the exam, saying that you are not as good as anyone else, it may be that you hope that even if you do well in the exam, you will not be proud.

It may also be that she is not living well, so she will sprinkle her temper on you, or you can discuss with your mother to go to live in school, but you still have to study hard after living in school, after all, you will learn knowledge, and you will be yours in the future, and you can live a better life after learning knowledge. Hope it helps

Change the world, change yourself.

Don't have the idea of jumping off a building.

Believe in yourself, don't trust your mother.

Earn your breath, study hard, calm down and think about it, change yourself well, you know? There is a huge improvement in your grades, you don't want to be the first, you must have to endure hardship, because your foundation is weak, so you have to work harder than others. Come on.

Don't worry about him, study hard, do what you want to do, and have a specialty that you can get your hands on, so that you can have a different shining point.

Mother's scolding you should understand that the mother is hating iron and steel, and you think that the so-called mother's humiliation is of course the mother's "hope that the son will become a dragon, and the daughter will become a phoenix" psychology, in the final analysis, the mother is for your good! With all due respect, as long as you work hard and catch up with the results, everything will be solved! Savor the meaning of "pity the hearts of parents in the world" and you will understand.

Then you prove your strength to her!

You first have to consider whether you are biological or not.

Then live in school, out of sight and out of mind.

You can only study hard and far outperform others.

First of all, I was a little surprised to see your title, and I thought I would say something positive anyway; But I have to say that I was still scared after watching the whole process. I'm a left-behind kid like you, but I'm in college now. I was also very estranged from my parents since I was a child, and I even thought that my grandmother was my mother.

It's so much better now because we're all in one city.

I know you love your grandfather in your heart, and so do I. But a mother is a mother after all, and she was pregnant in October, whether she wanted to give birth to you or not, but she still did it.

I also want to say that your mother is unqualified in any way, but you don't have to overreact, it is a fact that she did not fulfill her responsibility to support you, then you don't have to support her, you live your own life, people are selfish, please think for yourself!

I think your mind should be on how to make yourself successful and get ahead, and then you don't have to go to your mother, she will come to you. Because you are developed, she feels that there is light on her face. You can give her a little more color when you get there.

What kind of hatred do you have with your mother, you should be glad that your mother didn't bring you up, otherwise you will learn badly. You were raised by your grandfather, which is why you are very kind and ambitious. But ambition is not made in such a place, and you have to ignore her.

Self-reliance and self-reliance. Taking a step back, if you kill her, won't you still go to jail? Your life is over, are you worthy of your grandfather?

If you do this, you will only make your dead grandfather sad, and you will have to pay for your future for it. As a college student, I think you should have the ability to support yourself, for such a long time, you can find a job to live, and it's a big deal to cut off all the people you don't like, as if this money bought out your blood and family. I just want to say that if you are highly educated, you should cherish your grandfather's hard work for you to study, and his hard work during his life is definitely not to put you on a road of no return.

Let go of hatred, start from scratch, live well, don't admit defeat, and you must live better than them!

Don't be impulsive, I hope you can do well!

Murder and suicide can't solve the problem, using death to solve the problem is the most cowardly approach, what you can do is to be self-reliant, work, save money, pay back, live better than everyone else, after getting ahead, your mother will regret not treating you well.

I won't say anything like this in the future, no matter what the parents are, as children, they can't talk about it behind their backs.

This is also filial piety in the traditional Chinese sense. Is there anything you can suggest to your parents? Don't be antagonistic.

Do you want to get sick! You hate people so much, especially your parents, that they get sick faster. When you find out, it's late.

Among the teachers who teach traditional culture, there are many people who are in a similar situation to you. You can look at their speeches, which will help you psychologically. This is the ** address to see it.

Whether your mother is right or wrong, you only have to pay and guide, which is what you should do as a junior.

It's hard to imagine the attitude of a graduate student looking at this kind of problem.

Your family is not rich, and your mother still let you study until now. Are you tired of her?

She has been persuading you not to study, it may be selfish, you are tired, she is even more tired. If you can come out to work earlier, her burden will be much lighter. But she's just saying that you're still in your graduate school.

Now, you're lazy, and here's the strange thing: you're putting all the blame on your mom!! Astonished.

You are an adult, you are a highly educated person. Your life is in your own hands. This is what you said yourself, so why are you lazy and say that it is caused by your mother.

I don't need to say anything big, you have a higher diploma than me, and you are even a little older than me. I'm just surprised to see this question, just say it, don't blame it!