What are the key moments of life that must be faced alone?

In the summer of 13, my father, who was as strong as a cow, suddenly lost weight and was diagnosed with advanced colon cancer. My mother, who was 2,350 kilometers away, lost her claim in an instant, and I hurried back to be forced to take up the decision-making power of family matters that usually seemed unrelated to me.

My father was relieved after battling the illness for two years and half a season under the care of my mother. When he finally left, he had tears in his eyes, but he didn't make it to the moment his son returned.

In the following week, the mother's body also showed abnormal manifestations due to long-term consumption and mental stress. After going to the hospital for examination, the result was that stomach cancer was advanced and had spread throughout the body. And he went with him eight months after his father's death.

At that time, I had not yet started a family, and I had to face what I should not have faced but what I should not have faced, and no one could give me an additional option that was even unsatisfactory.

In fact, it doesn't matter whether the key is or not, many things always have to be adapted to face by themselves.

Some of them seem to be crucial, but in fact, when you look back, you can only turn up the corners of your mouth or shrug your shoulders.

Some seemingly ordinary decisions are actually the butterfly effect in your later life, but there is no chance to remedy them for fear or regret.

Isn't all the decisions you make have to be faced by yourself, someone can help you make the decision, and the help of others is just to help you achieve your goals after you have made the decision.

When you invest in value;When you want to rely on anyone;Or, when there's only one person.

You can learn from the senior brothers and sisters who have already taken the postgraduate entrance examination.

In fact, life, feelings, family affection, and friendship all need to be faced by one person!

Life, only when you really enter the society and get rid of your parents, will you truly experience the hardships and sadness of life!Life will temper people to maturity and stability, and temper self-confidence!

Feelings, really can only be faced by oneself alone, you must grasp it well, cherish what you have, cherish the people in front of you, pursue it well, and impress your lover with sincerity!Others can't help you, it's your own heart that gets close to the other person's heart!

Friendship and family affection may make you feel more dependent, but in the face of life and death, parting, making choices, and facing betrayal, these are things that you face alone, and only when you face everything will you really grow up!

That's a must, and you have to make your own decisions about your own life. I think that no matter what it is, you have to make your own decisions, and others can only give you advice. Only if you choose yourself, you will not regret it.

At the critical moment of life, many times it can only be borne alone and will not be accompanied by others, but it is also inevitable to face.

I've also had a time when I was faced with a critical moment in my life, and as you said, when I chose university, it was the same way, and I thought about it for a long time before choosing my major. It's the same when looking for a job, unless your parents have a relationship to "escort" the job. If we are looking for a job on our own, we all face a choice, and we will face it alone.

In the face of the boss's reprimand and difficulty, he can only face it himself and bear it silently. There is nothing wrong with facing important choices on your own, people always have to leave their parents, live independently, and rely too much on others, but it has a negative effect on going into society in the future. When you leave your parents, can you still deal with the problem well and choose the right way to deal with it?

There are many key moments in life that must be faced alone, and there are many critical moments in the movie when a pregnant woman has a difficult birth, and the doctor will ask whether to protect the child or the adult. And when you are saving people, the other party has held two people hostage, and you can only be alone, you have to face a major choice by yourself. Maybe these are just the plots in the movie, but in real life, there may not be similar situations.

This is more likely to happen when you are away from your parents. For example, if you are accidentally deceived by a scumbag, when you are sad, you can only face the pain by yourself. If you have an unplanned pregnancy, you have to deal with it alone.

There are many important turning points in life, and you have to face them and choose them by yourself.

There are several, almost all of them are turning points in life. The first one, your choice after graduating from the college entrance examination. First, if you get into college.

You need to think about which university to choose after the college entrance examination and what major to choose in college. This one is really super important. Because this almost determines the direction of your future employment, which circles of people are in your relationships, and even what kind of life your life will be in the next few decades.

Second, if you don't get into university, do you need to choose whether to repeat your studies? Or do you just give up and enter society? Or maybe you go to a junior college?

The difference in these choices may have a super impact on your future life. So at this critical point, I think parents and relatives can only give opinions and suggestions, and you must be the one who makes the decision.

The second, your future marriage partner, is the choice of your future life partner. It's really, really important, and it's almost a crucial decision in your life. The choice of who you marry means what kind of person you will spend the next few decades with.

It means that on the road of your future life, when you encounter difficulties, dangers and good things, who will you face and share together. Let's go and enjoy life together. If you find the right person, then your future days will be full of laughter, even if your work is not going well, even if you encounter super difficulties in your life journey, you will encourage each other and support each other to go on.

If you choose the wrong person, then you may not feel the warmth of family in the days to come, and you may be replaced by endless quarrels every day. In this way, it is two people who end up hurting, or even two big families and that little family of yours.

The key points of life are very important, we must think about it carefully, and never make a wrong step.

In your life, there are always things that you need to face alone.

When I was a child, our parents helped us with everything. But as we get older, we have to learn to deal with it ourselves.

Let's start with the college entrance examination. This is something that everyone has to go through, unless you don't want to go to college. The college entrance examination is a selective exam, some people are happy and some are worried, and if you don't work hard, you will be ruthlessly eliminated. Of course, it has something to do with luck.

I still remember that on the day of the college entrance examination, it rained a lot, and I was very nervous when I walked into the examination room. Although my parents and I told me a lot the night before, it was still difficult for me to control my mood. My grades weren't good, they weren't bad.

In fact, this is exactly what I am worried about, I am afraid that I will fail myself and my family if I do not do well in the exam. I had to bite the bullet and finish that exam.

There is also job hunting, you can't find a job that you are satisfied with immediately after graduation, and your parents can only provide you with some references. Your first job will be crucial for your entire career.

If you are looking for a job, you must have an interview, and whether you perform well or not is directly related to whether you can be hired. Do you have to face all of this alone? In the past, you may have been a very shy and timid little girl, but this is definitely not possible during the interview, you have to change the things that the interviewer does not like.

There is also falling in love, which will be related to your happiness in the second half of your life. Now is not the time for the words of the matchmaker of your parents, and what kind of person you choose can only be seen by yourself. When you get married, some people choose what they love, and some people choose to love themselves, and you don't know what your choice is.

Different choices mean different results.

After the baptism of time, may we all become what we imagined.