When you get married, do you think the class reunion is meaningful?

The annual feast of pretending to be staged is grandly staged. A group of pretending criminals who look like dogs and have a pig's head and dog face appear on the stage and stage a human comedy together. The plot is similar, at the instigation of the good classmates who have returned from Beijing, Shanghai or abroad, the class leader is responsible for the organization, and several blind elements in the class of those years actively assist.

The diligent class leader beat the ** one by one, fooling the male and female classmates together. Some people are so excited to see their old friends that they can't sleep all night; Some people are afraid of seeing their first love and feel uneasy; Some of the well-mixed ones are in a hurry; Some of them are mixed poorly, such as mourning and ......Anyway, each has its own ghosts. In the big box of the hotel, the first to arrive is generally the class leader and some classmates who were mixed up in the box, greeting in the box, although these people are also pretending to be forced, but after all, they are still ordinary people, and they can't pretend to be any tricks, and the boys are at most talking about cars, **, housing market, and politics; The girl recently did some beauty and nail art, and her husband bought LV, Chanel and ......Although it is harmful to people, it is also harmless to humans and animals.

From elementary school to college, there are more than 100 classmates, but because of work, marriage, and other things, there are really not many class reunions, but there are three rules for our class reunions, first, don't bring your family, husband, and children. How many classmates' husbands or daughters-in-law divorced because they fell in love with their classmates at the party. Second, no matter how much money is spent, everyone will get together and not let one person take it all, this is a friendship banquet, not a charity meal, and no one should pretend to be a big-tailed wolf.

The third, don't inquire about other people's jobs and income, just ask if you are doing well, parents are short, as the saying goes, three years of cold windows, siblings are connected, classmates can have no feelings in a few years, they are all brothers and sisters, and Lala's family is also human nature.

One is that the classmates may meet a few classmates who were originally good, and they don't have any desire to participate. The second is that there are no old lovers, and the class reunion can look at the landscape, put on favors, and be lively. The third is that when you get married, you need connections, and classmates are a kind of resource group.

Fourth, it is developed, and you need to have a class reunion and raise a few identity people, and you may be one of them. Fifth, there are old classmates and lovers, and they will meet for a while, the purpose is not clear, and they can look back. Sixth, middle-aged, nostalgic young people, reminiscing about the future.

Seven, fifty or sixty, lonely and lonely, with the burden of life, looking at a year, one year less, the class reunion is missing a few, and I cherish each other. ......

When I'm in my fifties or sixties, I'll consider going to a class reunion. In this materialistic age, coupled with being in this turbulent age. It's better not to participate.

I don't want to go to class reunions after graduation, and I think it's basically people who don't mix well or have successful careers. They are usually divided into the following situations:

, excessively inflammatory

Very realistic, This is the so-called class reunion, before I went, I thought about it very well, went to chat with old classmates, and recalled the past. But memories are memories, but people only remember with people who mix well. People who don't mix well are like strangers, and no one wants to deal with them at all.

This scene seems to be just a play, but the play is like life, this is the most real society, this scene is those snobbish people at the satirical meetingWhat if you have money or not, people can still give you money if they have money.

, meal payment issues

Let me tell you about my experience, I am a girl, I remember last year when I went to the class reunion, at the beginning of the payment of 300 yuan per person, after I went, many boys shouted to drinkAt that time, I ordered some more expensive winesLater, the money we brought together was not enough, and we said that no one would pay more than 200 yuan. None of us girls drank, but the boys still wanted us to pay the money, and in the end it was very embarrassing, and the squad leader took the money privately.

The main thing is that our squad leader is still a womanI felt ashamed to be able to make such a classmate, and I never went to any class reunion againFinish.

, people who have a successful career

There is a group of people who are really busy, they either become the elite of the work unit, busy with things every day, or they have started their own business and become managers, and have a busier schedule. These two kinds of people tend to have successful careers, but they have money but no leisureTime is money" is the phrase "in them, and it is very vividThey can't even live a slow-paced life, let alone expect them to go to class reunions.

When a person is getting better and better, he will see through many things that others can't see through temporarily, and once the level between people is opened, the relationship will naturally become unfamiliar.

For those who have a successful careerIt's already busy,There's no need to engage in such useless socializing.

And for people who don't mix well,People whose lives are not so smooth are gradually reluctant to go to class reunions anymore, and life has become so ruthlessI don't want to go to class reunions anymore to add to myself.

Of course it makes sense, you can understand the dynamics of these people.