My ex wife is seriously ill and I transfer 100,000 yuan, and my wife knows that I am divorcing, what

In this matter, I think it is your fault, because first of all, when you took this money out, you did not have your wife's consent, and this money is the joint property between you, and she has the right to know and decide where the money goes, so if you don't want to divorce your wife, you should talk to her properly.

Explain clearly to your wife that you only transferred money to your ex-wife out of sympathy, not affection for your ex-wife.

I think you should communicate this matter with your wife, you are indeed at fault first, I think you should be able to ask your wife for forgiveness if you tell your own reasons.

You have to explain it to your wife, after all, she is sick, and she transfers 100,000 yuan by herself, which is to save her life, not for anything else, you explain it clearly, and your wife can understand it.

In fact, you did something wrong, and you have to apologize to your wife, and if you really can't, you have to get the money back.

Letter from netizens: Hello master, I have encountered a trouble, I really don't know what to do, so I want to ask you for advice, I don't know if I can get a reply, thank you here.

Last year, a friend of mine borrowed 100,000 yuan from me because he needed capital turnover for business, and wrote an IOU and pressed his fingerprint, promising to repay me with interest before July. To be honest, I borrowed it from my wife at the beginning, because I am a very affectionate person, plus my friend who borrowed money, he is more honest and reliable, and he has borrowed money from him before, and he has repaid the principal and interest according to the agreement, and he has invited me to eat many meals.

Yesterday I went to his house, there was no one at home, just about to leave, I met his mother, and later learned that this friend has liver cancer and is currently receiving ** in the hospital, and the people in his family are raising money for him everywhere for treatment.

Of course, I didn't tell his mother about him borrowing me 100,000 yuan, but just asked him about being hospitalized in **, and then I bought some fruit to visit him.

After my friend saw me, tears kept rolling in his eyes, saying that he was very sorry for me, and that he would not be able to pay the money in his life. To be honest, I felt very bad at the time, and my compassion began to overflow, and I gave him a thousand yuan, hoping that he could overcome the disease as soon as possible, but in fact, I knew in my heart that his time was running out, because it was an advanced stage of liver cancer, and the whole person had lost weight to the point of getting out of hail.

After I got home, my wife kept asking me if the 100,000 yuan was coming back, so I told her everything I saw and heard, but I didn't expect her to be angry immediately, yelling and insulting at me, and threatening to warn me that if the money didn't come back, then go to the Civil Affairs Bureau for a divorce.

Master of the Heart Knot: But it is natural to repay debts, although your friend is terminally ill and will die soon, but he does not still have family members and family property, in fact, these can be obtained through legal channels, after all, you have an IOU in hand, and it is useless for your friend's family to deny it, the key depends on whether you are ruthless.

All in all, you'd better communicate with your wife a little more, she may have been angry at the time, and if you could take her to the hospital to see your friend, maybe she wouldn't be so strong.

Whenever any problem occurs, don't lose yourself, let alone panic, you must stay rational and find the right way to prescribe the right medicine, this is a truly mature man.

Summary. Dear, I'm glad to answer for you: repay as soon as possible. The other party can sue. After the divorce, the ex-husband can ask for the money borrowed from you.

Dear, I'm glad to answer for you: repay as soon as possible. The other party can sue. After the divorce, the ex-husband can ask for the money borrowed from you.

Legal basis: Article 394 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Where the debtor or a third party does not transfer possession of the property and mortgages the property to the creditor in order to guarantee the performance of the debt, the creditor shall have the right to be repaid in priority for the property if the debtor fails to perform the due debt or the mortgage is realized as agreed by the parties. The debtor or third party provided for in the preceding paragraph is the mortgagor, the creditor is the mortgagee, and the property provided for by the guarantee is the mortgaged property.

Article 395:The following property that the debtor or a third party has the right to dispose of may be mortgaged: (1) buildings and other land attachments; (B) the right to use construction land; (3) the right to use maritime space; (4) Production equipment, raw materials, semi-finished products and products; (5) Buildings, ships, and aircraft under construction; (6) means of transportation; (7) Where laws and administrative regulations do not prohibit the mortgage of such property. The mortgagor may mortgage the property listed in the preceding paragraph.

I think what you're doing is really wrong, because your ex-husband has nothing to do with you anymore, and you're jealous of being a husband like this.

My ex-husband was sick and I gave 100,000 yuan, but my husband wanted to divorce me because of this matter, and the reason for this is because your husband felt that you didn't discuss with him before you gave the money, thinking that you and your ex-husband still have feelings.

Of course, this approach is very excessive and unreasonable, since he has chosen Brother Ling to divorce, he should not take another 100,000 yuan to tease his husband, so he is not respectful to his current husband, but also has a special price drop, so he has to bear the consequences if he makes a mistake.

You shouldn't accept that she left knowing you had cancer, and she couldn't share the ups and downs, and she came back after you got well just to get a profit from you.

If it were me, I wouldn't have accepted it, because this person left me at my most difficult time, and when I was re-embracing a new life, she was coming to stop me, and of course I would not be satisfied with her.

I don't think it's acceptable, because your ex-wife left you when you needed care the most, and when you were there, there was no shortage of people around you to take care of, and such people are not worth cherishing.

I think it shouldn't be accepted, because the other party obviously doesn't really love him, and there's no need to be together.