I have a husband in the game, should I let my boyfriend know?

Don't worry, I'm the same as you, but I didn't hide it from him or tell him, but he still knew, so he often quarreled for me to play games, and even beat me, and now I am not allowed to play games, but I know that he loves me very much and cares about me so angry, so impulsive, so now I rarely play games, and we rarely quarrel.

Since you love your husband and he loves you very much, don't hurt him emotionally, don't let him know, because even if you tell him that you are only that person as your friend or brother, but he is still very jealous and uncomfortable, just like you said, you don't feel good when you see him playing games with other women, and I am the same, I am very angry when I see my husband and other women playing games. So don't let him know, it's best not to play games like us, or wait for your husband to find out and you say that you are afraid that he will be angry, so you don't say it, and you don't play anymore, anyway, don't quarrel with him, when he gets angry, you tease him and say Oh, big men are still jealous, I know you love me, see you are jealous for me, I am so happy, he just wants to quarrel and has no quarrel.

It doesn't matter if you know, because the network is virtual.

It's better not to know).

Tell him when he finds out, or don't play that game.

I used to have a husband in the game, and I told my boyfriend, and my boyfriend was about to blow up, and if it weren't for the fact that my husband was a woman, my boyfriend would have turned his face.

It's horrible. They always take it seriously.

Tell it! The Internet is not the same as reality! It's okay to say that.

<>I'm 30 years old, my child is three years old, a boy, and I got pregnant after quitting my job. My 28-year-old husband resigned due to the restructuring of his unit, and he felt helpless and resigned. That meant neither of us had a job.

What he does is play games. He slept until noon, then I cooked, he ate, after eating he played games in the corner of the couch, and I continued to cook until dinner. After he eats, regardless of the child, he continues to play the game, asking him for help, saying that he will finish the game.

In short, all the housework is mine, the children's diet, sleep is mine. He only eats, drinks and plays games. To be honest, as a woman, I felt very insecure, I secretly made up my mind that my children were in kindergarten and I worked to earn money.

I am not a material woman, my family conditions are average, and I am not a hypocritical person, but this marriage has made me a woman.

Regarding parenting, the child is three years old. I almost brought it up. My mother-in-law has a job and doesn't care about the children.

It's a contribution to the child. I feel helpless in this family and don't know what to do? Emotional Mentor's Answer:

In fact, after reading your description, we need to figure out why you would want to choose to go out and work on your own when you are in this kind of home environment and you don't feel safe. Because that in itself is a necessary responsibility for him as a man. When you say helpless, it's actually because the family doesn't have an income insecurity.

Another aspect is that there is actually nothing you can do to change your husband's current situation.

If your husband stays where he is, stay addicted. Even if you go out to look for work, you can maintain your family's regular income. But in that case, you may have to take care of your family and work at the same time.

Or you can think about how your husband handles housework and takes care of the children while he works? Based on the current situation, this is clearly impossible. That's when you put in your energy, and you'll find that your family life will become even more chaotic.

When your income is higher than your husband's, he can also feel very stressed, and you feel that you are already earning money to support your family and that he is not taking good care of your husband. Family. In this way, family conflicts will become more prominent.

So the best thing to do is to give your husband a plan so that he can start returning to a normal rhythm of life and work little by little.

You have to use reasonable methods to get him more involved in household work and spend less time playing games. Then slowly guide him out to find a job, and gradually return to the role of earning money and supporting his family. Actually, while I understand that you take on all the work in the family, it's hard, but on the other hand, your husband doesn't do anything.

Part of it is because of you. Because you didn't make him feel that he had this part of the responsibility and obligation in the family to do these things, and at the same time, when he didn't do anything, his family life could be maintained normally. So he is gone, taking on family responsibilities and work motivation.

If you want to live a normal and harmonious family life, you need to make changes in these areas.

If your husband plays games every day, no matter what, such a man is extremely irresponsible, since he has this attitude, you can either treat others in his own way, or give up this relationship.

I will divorce him, because his behavior like this means that he has no sense of responsibility, no responsibility, and it can even be said that he doesn't love me at all, can't see my dedication, is very cold-blooded, and lives with such a person, and is unhappy every day.

When I meet a husband who only knows how to play games and doesn't care about anything, I usually use the same way to deal with him and make him responsible, because men don't know how to be responsible, and the family can't be happy.

I will divorce him, because there is no difference between having such a husband and not having a husband, it is better to divorce and live on your own, and you don't have to worry about him, just do your best.

At this time, I will choose to communicate with the other party, but if the other party does not make a big change, then I will choose to divorce.

I will discuss with the other party, hoping that the other party can help me do something within my ability, after all, the two of us are married.

If this is the case, then I will definitely have a good talk with my husband, I can teach her if my husband can't do it, and I will also let my husband know how to feel sorry for me, so as to make the family happier.

will force him to help himself with the housework, let him know that he is not idle at home for a moment, and he should help himself with the housework.

I feel like we play the game, and it really doesn't matter who is on the other side. Playing games must be to win, why should you. You should feel his love in other things.

In fact, logically speaking, it shouldn't be that I don't love you, but playing games makes people have a strong sense of substitution, and it has been precipitated in the game, and when playing the game, his role may be a certain character in the game.

Maybe, if he cares about you, he should consider your feelings, knowing that you will be unhappy if you lose, he still has to fight for your life, if he really cares about you, he will let you let you win, because he wants to see you laugh.

Playing games is meant to be happy.,Why do you have to win?,The boy's character is the kind of character that has to win when playing games.,Don't finish with him.,Always let you and he doesn't have a good time.,It's good to be comfortable with each other.。

This doesn't prove that he doesn't love you, maybe he just has a low EQ, and he's a boy, and he's more serious in the game, so I didn't think to let you, you can talk to him very seriously.

Such boys will be a little competitive, but most boys will not be very delicate, and may not notice that you are emotionally dissatisfied, so let's talk about it and don't accumulate negative emotions.

This depends on the situation, it is possible that the boyfriend is more face-saving, so you must win, you can explain it to him, if it doesn't work, forget it, don't worry too much.

For such a thing, I feel that I don't have enough respect for you, and I don't have a tolerant mentality towards you, so in other words, it's about you.

The game is just a game, and boys are under a lot of pressure in all aspects, but it's okay to take care of you in life and work, games are the soul of boys, and sometimes they really won't give in.

People during the relationship,Generally willing to give their best side to each other,After all, playing games is not a serious thing.,And it's easy to indulge.,That's why I will hide something from you.,It's very normal.,It means that he cares about you more.,I wish you happiness.。

He conceals the fact that you play the game for the following reasons.

First: he just has time to play, not several times a day.

Second: He is afraid that you will be unhappy if you tell you that he plays a game.

Third: He is afraid to tell you that he plays the game, and you don't support him in playing the gameFourth: He wants to behave perfectly in front of you and doesn't want you to know his shortcomings and the game.

There are usually two reasons.

Create a perfect image, and don't want you to control him and cause unnecessary trouble. If you don't tell him to play the game, you won't care.

None of them are malicious.

But women are different, and women will feel that this is a kind of deception, a very serious matter.

Men like games, feel that he ignores you, you should communicate with him, I think this is not related to whether it is worth love, love is not worth it, and it is not worth it

If he likes the game more than you, forget it

I'm afraid that you misunderstand that he doesn't do his job or don't want you to say that you are important or the game is important, and he feels that the game is not important, so there is no need to tell you.

When you doubt your husband, you should think about why you suspect your husband, I think people who are married will suspect that there are women in the husband game, and wonder where it comes from, why you didn't suspect it before, and now you suspect it. Is it because he did something different from usual that you have to wonder, or because he is seriously suspicious? When there is a problem, you should think about whether you have changed and think about the reason.

So the problem is that people either don't doubt, once they doubt it, they will be out of control, even if they want to believe in their husbands, but once the seeds of doubt are planted, they will become rifts between husband and wife, which is unavoidable, this seed will remind you every day that your husband is not good, remind your husband to play games every day, regardless of you, remind you that the life of husband and wife has become ordinary and ordinary. Maybe, my husband has never changed to you, and he is just as good to you. But day by day, this seed reminds you that the world has changed.

Finally, one day you think about your husband's problems at work, and when you come home and see a game, you question it again, and you always think about it when you sleep. The seed germinates, the seed has been absorbing nutrients in the soil, has been suppressed, and the seed is so out of control that it is as tenacious as a weed after germination. The rift between husband and wife is slowly getting bigger, and you can't win the instinct if you want to maintain it, at this time you will find a lot of shortcomings that your husband didn't find before, and when you see him unhappy, let him slowly start to find fault with each other, and you will start to quarrel and start to hate each other.

If things don't work out, one day this sprout turns into a big tree. It could be the end of a marriage, or it could be the turning of two closest people into strangers.

In fact, suspicion is not terrible, as long as it is resolved earlier. Suspicion is like cancer at first, you don't pay attention to it, thinking it's nothing, but slowly when you realize the importance of the problem, you find that it has reached an advanced stage and there is no cure. But as long as you notice the changes in your life earlier, you can speak up earlier, solve the problem together, and make the doubt disappear, maybe at this time the doubt will become a happier life for your husband and wife, because this is also the ordeal you go through together, how to see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain.

Solving it is the spice of husband and wife life, making life vibrant.

Honesty between husband and wife is helpful for married life. It is also an important way to address suspicions. If you want to figure it out by yourself, it's okay to know what your husband plays, and it's okay to learn about your husband's game world, but I don't think it's the best way to solve the problem.

I think this question is either optimistic about your husband, or you should match him.

If you think about this issue carefully, I think there are many issues that should be reflected. First of all, if the husband and wife are in a harmonious relationship, even if the husband likes to play games, it should not be serious enough to suspect that he has a third party in the game; This situation generally occurs more often in couples who are not on good terms. As husband and wife who are not harmonious, there is a situation where the husband and wife play their own games and do not hinder each other.

But looking at the subject's description, it should belong to the worst kind: the relationship between the husband and wife is not harmonious, and the woman still wants to win back the man's heart, and she takes strict care of him. I think this kind of thing should really be the most embarrassing.

Then analyze the current situation of your couple. I think there are two ways to do it. First, the husband and wife sit down calmly and talk.

If the basis of affection is just a temporary fondness for playing games, then this is understandable, and most men cannot escape the confusion of games. In this case, it should be better to explain all the misunderstandings and suspicions in your heart clearly, and be open and honest is better for the stability of the family. And if your husband doesn't want to talk to you, I think it's more dangerous.

This basically falls into the second case I mentioned. Knowing that his wife is full of anxiety and nervousness about his relationship state but is unwilling to have a conversation to appease her, a real husband, I think it should be similar to your conjecture. Since this is the case, I don't think it's convenient for outsiders to say more, but it's up to you.

Consider the family, both parents, and whether or not they want to make do with it. In this case, it's up to you.