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Nowadays more and more people are addicted to games because games are really fun, if your boyfriend also likes to play games, but you want him to quit gaming. Then I hope you can understand why he plays games, you can have a proper communication with him, and after knowing why he plays games, you can go and solve the problem of why he plays games at the root, if you can't get him to quit games in a short time. And you can set a time for the game with him, and slowly, he will quit the game.
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Communicate with him as much as possible about the time to play the game, and then slowly let him quit the game, first of all, if you want to communicate with him about a specific time, such as what time to play, when not to play, gradually you can let him reduce the game time, slowly he will not play, I used this method at the time, it is still very useful, now he doesn't play games much, it can be said that he has given up playing games,
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If you want your husband to give up playing games, you should do something meaningful and interesting together, and this can also make the two of you have a lot of good memories in the future.
When I first got together with my boyfriend, my boyfriend would play games excessively every day, and I would always tell him that playing games too much would hurt my body, so I would always go out with him to go on trips, so that the two of us could relax better and make him give up the game.
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The best way to get your husband to give up playing games is to get his attention and then turn his attention in other directions, so that he can get out of the game and do more.
That's how I got my husband out of the game, and played more games with me, which made me feel very happy, and it was also a very suitable way, if you also want to get rid of the game buddy, I recommend using this way.
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This problem is very common for many young girls, because their boyfriend likes to play games, and his boyfriend ignores his feelings.
I think if you want your boyfriend to stop playing games, don't choose to make trouble, because it will make your boyfriend more disgusted, or you can add some entertainment to your boyfriend in some way to divert his attention.
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Nowadays, the development of the game network has become a habit that many boys can't let go, and my husband is a person who likes to play video games very much, and every time I play video games, I seem to have become a stranger to him.
So in order to prevent him from playing video games, in order to get him to give up playing video games, I took some very coercive measures, I sold all his passwords, and then he couldn't play games anymore.
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For those who are married, they don't want their husbands to play games, and they want to have a lot of time to spend with themselves, so that they can have a better sense of happiness in life.
After I got married, I didn't like my husband playing games the most, and sometimes I would use the necessary means to make him give up playing games, I remember once letting him finish brushing and dropping his phone.
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To be honest, I personally don't like boys who are addicted to playing games, although I can understand that boys like to play games, and I won't stop them from playing games, but I think they should also be conscious, games can be used as a tool for entertainment, but definitely not addictive. Especially after falling in love and getting married, even if you don't think about yourself, you should also consider the feelings of your other half. <>
Just like your husband, who plays games every night until the second half of the night, not to mention that his behavior will bring great harm to his body, every night is like this, people's energy is limited, he plays games at night, and he definitely doesn't have the energy to go to work hard during the day. Now that the two are married, the boy is the pillar of the family, don't you really think about it for your family? But I also know that for those boys who are addicted to playing games, it is impossible to get them to give up the game completely.
Next, I'm going to talk about what you can do to make him change a little bit. <>
Because the relationship between two people is now married, this is not like when they are in love, they can be said to break up and break up. If you already have a family, you must understand that you are no longer alone, you are a family person, and you can't just consider your own feelings when doing something. If my husband is like this, I will find a suitable opportunity to talk to him about it, I will not quarrel with him, but I want him to understand that it is not right to do so.
And I'm not not going to let him play games, as long as he controls the time. <>
And when I talk to him, I make sure he realizes that he is responsible. Staying up late is very harmful to the body, and playing games is easier to get excited, and it's okay to stay up late once or twice to play games once or twice, but if it's like this every day, the body will definitely be unbearable after a long time. Not to mention that he has to shoulder the responsibility of taking care of the family, at least he doesn't hold back our family, I think as long as he can realize the seriousness of this problem, he will make a difference.
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First communicate well with your husband and tell him that playing games will affect your sleep quality and be bad for his health, so that he can realize the dangers of playing games late at night. Make rules with him, what kind of punishment he will receive if he exceeds this point, and help him quit the game together.
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Be sure to communicate with your husband, be sure to let each other have a particularly clear concept of time and sleep, usually two people should watch movies together, read books together, and play games together.
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The more you care about him playing games, the more depressed you will be, don't take it seriously, dress yourself up beautifully, shop, study, travel, socialize.
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In such a situation, I think you should communicate with the other party, and then you should also ask the other party to make changes, otherwise you should break up with the other party.
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You should talk to your husband about such a problem, and you should let him know that he will feel particularly disgusted by playing games every day, which will make you disappointed in him and your marriage.
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You have to communicate with him, because after all, this is your husband, and if you can't communicate with him, then you have to change him with practical actions.
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To keep your husband from playing games, you can try the following wild ant methods:
1.Communicate with him: First, communicate with him honestly about why he likes to play games and what his games mean to him. At the same time, express your concerns and grievances so that he understands your thoughts and feelings.
2.Make rules: Discuss rules with your husband, such as not playing games for a certain period of time, or allowing him to play games for a while after completing some chores.
This will allow him to gradually realize that the game cannot take up all his time, and it will also allow him to learn to balance time and responsibility.
3.Provide other recreational activities: Some other recreational activities can be provided, such as watching movies, doing sports, reading books, etc. This allows him to try new forms of entertainment, while also reducing the amount of time he spends playing games.
4.Establish family rules: You can establish rules in your family, such as not playing games during periods when children are studying, when the family is resting, or when you are not playing games in specific rooms.
This will make him aware of the impact of the game on other family members and will also allow him to be more attentive to the needs of the family and his family.
5.Seek professional help: If none of the above methods can get your husband to stop playing games, consider seeking professional help, such as psychological counseling or family**.
In short, to make her husband play games, it takes the joint efforts and communication of both parties. By setting rules, providing other entertainment creatures to keep moving, and establishing family rules, you can gradually reduce the amount of time he spends playing games and make him pay more attention to the needs of his family and his family.
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1. Discover other potential hobbies that your husband may haveMost people play games to have fun and release the pressure from reality during the day. So why just indulge in games? The main reason is that I don't know what I like except for games, and I don't find that I have other hobbies, which is a good entry point for female friends to indulge in games.
When you spend time with him, explore other hobbies that he might enjoy.
2. Analyze the harm of playing games to the body.
This approach works best for people who value their bodies. Analyze the pros and cons of hurting eyesight and affecting daily life, staying up late to play games and affecting endocrine, and then affecting appearance, figure, and liver damage.
3. Make excuses for him to take the child.
This is the most effective way to deal with a responsible husband. Sometimes it's just that the female friends work too hard, so that the husband has no room to play his own function. Then start from getting off work this weekend, find an excuse for yourself to take a vacation, let your husband get along with the child more, give him some tasks tactfully, increase the interaction with the child and cultivate feelings, which will also awaken the husband's sense of guilt and make him realize that he has neglected his family for a long time, so as to quit indulging in games.
4. The method of disobedience and disobedience to advice.
If your own words don't work, then find someone who can control it. This kind of "husband" usually has a childlike heart, or has no sense of responsibility when he is pampered by his parents, which is not something that the majority of female friends can manage by themselves, so what is an effective way to treat him at this moment? Go to a loved one who speaks strongly.
For example, father-in-law, mother-in-law, and then friends who have a good relationship with him, or other friends who often come and go, and who are closer to him, of course, pay attention to proportion, don't damage your husband's interpersonal relationships, and distinguish between inside and outside.
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I'm a girl, and my husband makes an appointment with a friend to play Dota every weekend. When playing high, the sound of commanding teammates to operate is so loud that it can almost tear down the roof. And I'm like a little white rabbit, doing my own thing on the side, no matter how excited he is, no matter how excited he is, no matter how excited he is, no matter how enthusiastic he is, I haven't come out to stop it.
Don't I think it's noisy? Not. I'm a quiet person, and I even choose to walk around the street when it's bustling.
The reason why I didn't stop my husband's enthusiasm was because I deeply understood what kind of experience the game brought him. It was not only an opportunity for several good brothers to get together and connect with each other, but also an interactive feeling of everyone entering a virtual space at the same time to fight side by side. They recognize the worldview setting, character attributes, and game rules in this space, and then achieve the goal of team victory through role playing, tactical distribution, and communication.
Such games often have brain-moving parts - such as tactical considerations, and operational parts - such as command and positioning, plus several people inevitably have to support and cooperate with each other in the process of the game, which deepens the "comradeship" between brothers and creates many common memories. From this point of view, what boys are addicted to is not games, but what can be brought to them in real life under this huge structure, such as Niu B's character skills, hot-blooded combat team, and whimsical ideas in the process of defeating each other--this is the reason for boys to immerse themselves, not just the escape from reality and the yearning for the unreal.
Of course, this is only a partial point out, and it is not excluded that some boys play games for the sake of indulgence. Because my husband is benign and relaxes with the help of games, so when he rarely has such an opportunity, I am not willing to break the magical world built in his heart as a big boy, just as every girl will have a dreamy fairy tale world in her heart that needs to be carefully cared for.
Speaking of which, I can't help but think of the scene when I first watched the Hokage. I was already in college at the time, and I just said that this is an anime that boys love to watch. By chance, I got to know the legendary crane tail (the actual second generation of officials) - Naruto Uzumaki, and since then I have been out of control, and I just feel that I hate to meet late-isn't this the anime that I have always longed for to watch for adults like a TV series?
When I was a child, I liked to watch animations like Sailor Moon and robot cats, but when I grew up, I always felt a little regretful in my heart, thinking that although the animation was good, it was inevitably a little young, and I couldn't grow up with me. But after coming into contact with the Hokage, I realized that anime can also be so core, spiritual, faithful, and bonded, and it is rare that the world view and character image are so full, so follow the footsteps of our growth, but I didn't really get in touch until I was in college, which is a pity.
Through this incident, I also have another interpretation of the boy's perspective. It turns out that the anime and games they love are not what we usually think.
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