Does loving too seriously hurt deeper?

Updated on society 2024-08-05
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    The more you love, the deeper the hurt, but how many times can you really love seriously?! There will be sadness, but as long as you really love him deeply, there is nothing to be sad about, it's just that he doesn't know how to cherish it, because only serious love is true love, and that kind of love is the most beautiful.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Maybe. But persistence is victory.

    Before you meet the best person for you.

    Isn't it nice to wait for blessings?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It is also a blessing to feel that if you love to be hurt at that time (but after forgetting him, or after being together).

    It's a sure thing to hurt Love is something that some people want to love and some people want to hurt right! ~

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    That's because you don't get what you're asking for. Love is giving, not giving, selfless, and unreciprocating.

    No matter what, if you plan for the worst, you won't have too much of a gap in your heart.

    Everyone has to experience emotional wounds, so that they can slowly mature, slowly understand what to live and how to look at life :)

    Look down, even if you are hurting now, it doesn't matter that it will be a scenery that you have experienced on the road of life, and when you think of these past events after time has slowly erased everything, it will be a string of beautiful notes outlining the trajectory of youth.

    It's easy to tell, but it's hard to do. Don't be discouraged, I recommend an old song to you to listen to "Beautiful Mood".

    Every relationship must learn to say thank you, thank you for being loved, once sweet, and thank you for the growth that these have brought to you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There is a reward for paying! It is likely that you don't feel it now, but in the end the pay is always proportional to the return, even if you can't get it, but please be tolerant, there is a saying like this: you pay may not be rewarded, but there will be no return if you don't pay!

    Do things with your heart, be a person with your heart! Finally, remember: you can't have the heart to harm others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people.

    Society makes people mature, but maturity also comes at a price. Please separate love from the rest!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think there is a saying that is very good: if you are serious, you will lose, and the mentality of reporting 8 points for everything, and leaving 2 points for yourself as a way out, so as not to have no way back. I don't know if these words will work for you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Love is like pulling a rubber band, and the party who always uses more force will get hurt....

    You can't live in this world too seriously

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Some friends are worth what you do, and some are not, in fact, it depends on how you treat them, don't be too sad, be optimistic, believe in those who betray you, and will be betrayed by others

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The deeper you fall, the more difficult it is to extricate yourself.

    Of course, you say don't take it too seriously, that's completely your own anger. How to say it, if you don't treat it sincerely, then what is it called? What love?

    If you treat it, you might expect the same reward. But often for one reason or another, we are getting farther and farther away from that result, and we can be sad, but please don't give up on serious faith. There will always be someone waiting for you.

    Maybe not far, maybe far away. Await...

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Feelings should be serious ... Be attentive, so that you don't miss the real fate. Even if you have been hurt, it is only one step before true love comes.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    True to a certain extent. If you have such a feeling, it proves that you have a certain experience of love. This also shows to a certain extent that you are sincere in love, and I am happy for you.

    Love has a sweet part and a painful part. The sweetness lies in the fact that love is happy and selfless. The pain lies in the constant friction and contradictions between the two sides after a long time, and it is continuous.

    In the midst of sweetness and pain, sometimes I feel that there is more sweetness than pain, and sometimes I feel that pain is deeper than sweetness. But it doesn't affect your feelings, on the contrary, your feelings are deeper. If love is deep feelings, then deep feelings will be hated.

    Therefore, the value of love lies in overcoming all kinds of setbacks. As the saying goes, the longevity of love lies in patience and tolerance. But the more real the love, the deeper the hurt is, and it is not necessarily a pure law.

    It depends on the feelings of both parties. The first thing to affirm is that feelings must be pure, and feelings need to be rational. Don't act in an extreme way because of your feelings.

    The more real the love, the deeper the hurt, and we need to understand it correctly. Of course, the road of love will inevitably hurt again, but it is precisely because of this that we can grow up and mature. In dialectical terms, we also have to be thankful for harm and failure.

    The more real the love, the deeper the hurt is not that it will never become the truth, but the measure of love is the feelings and inner understanding of both parties.

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