What s the most distressing way to break up?

He chases me, and he abandons me.

I said about the breakup, two years ago, seeing the couple show affection and sting my old scars. I miss you, but I won't take the initiative anymore, and I'm tired after taking the initiative for a long time. I didn't know myself anymore, I used to be sad, and in the end I didn't have any tears.

Forget you, forget memories, forget your name, your everything. Let me go, I can't let go of you I don't know what to do, always thinking back to the past.

I was the one who said I broke up, but I was the one who suffered the most! Together for more than a year, I have been looking forward to the scene of our engagement for a long time, but you always sent me away in a few words, what economic foundation is not enough, I think I am not suitable, if a man really wants to marry you, any resistance is not a problem, and if you don't want to, you will think of so many excuses and reasons.

Not loving is not the most heart-wrenching reason, feelings are originally a matter of two people, and wishful thinking can't withstand it after all. The most heart-wrenching thing is that he still loves you, but he can leave you behind.

It may be that two people can't see the future together, and there is no future. I want to go on but there's no reason to keep going, this is me. Of course, I have also seen the people around him because the girl used all his good to turn him from a naïve and arrogant boy to a mature and stable man, but he didn't know how to cherish it, and finally the boy realized the importance of the girl when the two broke up, but at this time the girl was disappointed.

Love is accumulated, and so is no love. When the disappointment accumulates to a certain extent, there is no confidence to continue the business. She never thought of teaching you how to cherish by leaving.

As long as it is a breakup, it will be heartbroken, and the two people who obviously liked each other at the time may not have any contact for the rest of their lives after the breakup. The deeper I once loved, the more my heart hurts.

My ex-girlfriend suddenly broke up with me, not because she didn't love her, but because she felt that she had lost the ability to love someone, and then refused to have any communication with me, and then began to find all kinds of boys to prove to me that she would not love anyone anymore, and then she would tell me when she met someone and confessed to her, and then refused, and then stopped talking to me, and it is still like this.

I don't know if I broke up, but he hasn't been heard from in four months. The last conversation was,Because I couldn't find him for a week,Send him WeChat and don't reply,Don't answer,In short, all kinds of contacts can't be reached.,It's hard to reply to WeChat.,But it's,Don't bother me.,Thank you.。 Seeing this, I don't think it can be resurrected.

Then I deleted him, and after that, I couldn't contact him, and that's it, he died, and it should be. I don't think I've experienced one of the worst things I've ever experienced at the moment.

It turned out to be with her ex-boyfriend, and her heart was dead. The next day, she thought about it for a day, and there was only one sentence, I'm embarrassed to use you as a spare tire, I don't love you anymore. It's as bloody as a TV series.

1.has been together for two years, he has never shown affection in the circle of friends, you are angry and propose to break up, only to find that he and another girl quickly put on a couple outfit to show affection.

2.In a different place, he said good night to you, and you thought he was asleep. After ending the long place, I found that the messages on his mobile phone after saying goodnight to you were sent to another girl.

3.I had an abortion for him, I quarreled countless times, during my father's serious illness, he called ** to borrow money from me, I said that my father was sick and needed money, and he said that your father was sick and died, what does it matter to me! At that moment, I was completely dead.

4.picked up his ex-girlfriend ** and said that there was no one next to him, obviously I was next to me.

5.The first time I cleared him up, he didn't leave a red, he didn't believe it, and broke up with me, so I proposed to break up.

6.After five years together, I wanted to get married, and he said he had no money. I saved enough money to give him a beating, and he said wait. Then, I never waited for his ** again.

7."I've always thought of you as my girlfriend, but I've always loved her."

8.After we separated, I made a breakup list, asked me to pay back the money, and said that if I didn't pay it back, he would beat me to death.

Breaking up is a heart-wrenching thing. Whoever proposes to break up cannot avoid the pain that accompanies ending the relationship. In the process, we may engage in some regrettable and unsettling behaviors, the most unscrupulous of which is undoubtedly "revenge".

Understandably, when we are deeply hurt, emotions inevitably explode. There may be people who want to take revenge to alleviate the level of pain or to feel better. However, the benefits of this behavior are short-lived and will cause more damage to both sides.

The act of retaliation can vary from person to person. Some people will choose to make public accusations against their ex on social **, some will create fake news to affect their ex's reputation, and some will use all means to pursue revenge. But in any case, this kind of behavior is for the purpose of attacking others, and it cannot be spared from being criticized by others.

To make matters worse, we can also easily ruin our relationships with others in such situations. Whether the person is someone we love or a former friend of ours, retaliatory behavior can destroy trust and friendship between the parties. And, once we engage in this behavior, we are labeled as "revenge", which is likely to affect our interactions with others and the development of our own networking.

In fact, the right thing to do is to learn to release our emotions and self-** in the process of forgetting the past. We can choose to participate in classes or groups for self-growth, or to share our pain with friends and family. A further step is to adopt a positive attitude to change your life for the better after a breakup.

In addition to this, there are many other ways to help us grow and **, but the most important thing is that we should try to avoid doing anything that will hurt others or ourselves.

All in all, breaking up is a difficult thing to do, but we can't choose to hurt others for the sake of our own healing, which is not only an irresponsible act, but also something that a respectable person does. We should always remember that nothing is worth losing our good relationships with others, and the best thing we can do is to help ourselves and the other person get out of the shadow of the breakup as soon as possible.