What to do if you love her? Is love really that realistic?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-09
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Don't hang your friends from a tree, don't give up everything for love, but actually calm down and think about it.

    I'm sometimes carried away by love, and then it's not that he betrays me.

    It's always good to start with, but the longer it goes, the more patience fails.

    That's when your true face will be revealed, so when you encounter something like this, just wait and see what happens, don't invest too much in it...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    You shouldn't run away from home in the first place, you should go for it. Explain how sincere your love is.

    I don't know what shortcomings she has that makes your family so opposed, can't you change it? A relationship that is blessed by your family is good, and if you are really not suitable, break up early. If it can be changed, you must continue to work hard to gain the understanding of your family.

    She's not trying to break up, she just doesn't want you to be embarrassed. Go home, get permission to be together again!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    The landlord's situation is the same as mine, very sympathetic, I had a dispute with her on August 23, just two months ago.

    First of all, I think the landlord's job is to calm down.

    Think about it, does she really still love you?

    For example, if you don't contact her for two or three days in a row, will she take the initiative to contact you? If there is, then she still loves you, if not, then she just doesn't care too much.

    Don't say break up easily, these two words will create an irreparable rift in people's hearts, but since you said it, you can only try to make up for it.

    From what she said later, it can be completely concluded that she doesn't care too much about you, "take one step at a time" is not love for you at all, if she really cares about you, will she behave so negatively towards you? On the other hand, if you treat someone yourself, if you love her, you will give it your all, and even though the world is changing, you will say to her without making any effort, I don't know if tomorrow will be with you, I don't know if we have a future like this?

    The landlord is just struggling with her now, and you have a lot of hopes, thinking that it is just that you have done something wrong before, and it will be good to apologize to her and confess your love, but the truth is no longer the case, her feelings for you have changed, and she doesn't love you so much as before.

    Love can't be easily let go, but when it's time to let go, it should be put down, if the landlord still wants to be with her, usually give her more surprises, be kind to her but keep a little distance, see if you can still find the previous feeling, whether she really loves you! If not, then let it go, in fact, there is nothing that can't be let go, be brave, there is nothing that can't be let go, but I hope the final answer is that she really loves you! Bless you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Let go early and take my word for it

    You don't know what love is.

    It's just that your current state makes you feel like love.

    Whoever you are in this state.

    In the future, you will also encounter the obsession of reason.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hey, I think it's a personal personality problem, she may be able to adapt well, a girl just went to a strange place, it stands to reason that she should hope that her former friends, especially her boyfriend, care more, so that people in a different place will not feel lonely.

    However, she is also sensible, and when she gets along with each other in a long way, no one can guarantee what will happen in the future. She's like this now, what do you think will happen in the future?

    Think about it, it's still too late.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    People change.

    It only shows that she is not a bad girl.

    It will also take into account your feelings.

    But I don't think she loves you anymore.

    I found that Nanjing is better than you.

    That's all she compromised. I also want to send you away. Go back, she's already told you. Hope you can let it go.

    I can't guarantee what will happen in the future, say I'm too naïve, to be realistic) I hope you can pick it up and put it down.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Love is a matter of two people If she still has you in her heart She doesn't need you to keep anything She will be by your side If she doesn't love you anymore It's futile how you keep it Let it be As long as you have a clear conscience It's okay When the time comes, you can not be ashamed to say It's not that I'm not talented It's that she is not serious about love And people who are not serious about love will not have a good life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You are very immature, you are too immature, even if you break up, you can only bless her, this is a sign of a man's maturity, you girlfriend, I read what you wrote, I know at a glance, there is no hope, absolutely no hope, she already hates you, if she loves you, it can't be so desperate, just make an illusion, make you think, you made a mistake, it was you who said to break up, she has a real reason to break up, understand no, do it yourself, women, there are many, why hang yourself on a tree, Men must first have their own careers before they are qualified to talk about love, love is based on material, and women like self-motivated men, work their own, and there will be a lot of girls who chase you upside down.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Love things we can't act on our feelings, we need to understand each other, understand whether they are suitable for each other, so blind love will only end badly, I hope you can stand in your own position, but also stand in the position of others to consider the problem, in the end can only say that love can not be reluctant, reluctant love is a time bomb, there is a possibility of ** at any time, I hope to treat my love rationally.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think in this case, you better give up You said that she is a person who is very afraid of things and annoyance, which proves that her feelings for you are still hesitant, if there is a better one than you, she will definitely choose someone else This is my personal opinion, not necessarily representing your girlfriend's wishes All decisions depend on you

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You're tall, white, and you like to look at shape. She is small and sexually indifferent. It seems that it will be very difficult.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    She'll turn off everything about you, and even if you sneeze she'll wonder if you have a cold. She may not say that she loves you in flowery words. But she will show it in everything she does for you. Talk about potatoes and she will always keep a trace for you to leave a look for you.

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