When love and friendship conflict, how to deal with it?

It depends on which of you sees friendship or love as more important...

Actually, for me, I think the two are equally important. However, if I had to choose one, I would choose love. Because, love is the sublimation of friendship.

Often, love is formed on the basis of friendship. Therefore, in the element of love, there is also a slight element of friendship. It's equivalent to choosing both.

In fact, the important reason for choosing love is. Love can accompany you for a lifetime. Your lover will stay with you until you grow old.

Friendship, however, only exists in one's own life. When you are sick, it is your husband or wife who is by your side. When you are unhappy, it is also your husband or wife who chats with you in the bed until dawn.

When you encounter many troubles, it is also your husband or wife who can take the trouble to listen to you patiently. For you, you can give up your career, you can give up money, power, and your husband or wife. Usually, there are a lot of friends who will ask you questions like this.

However, they are all different. Because, this is also a matter of facts. It's not just because you have a problem like this, it just comes out.

It depends on what kind of love you call love. What kind of friendship you call is it? The importance of the two also depends on what you say.

Perhaps, you are now facing such a choice. In fact, you might as well talk about your current problem, the more detailed it is, the better others will be, and the better it will be to help you.

When love and friendship conflict, I choose love.

We still need friends in our lives, and love and friendship are not contradictory.

Love seems to have always been defined as possessive and irreplaceable, so most of the attitudes in front of love are absolutely private, and they will always unconsciously put love at a high level, imagining it as the only pure place in a long life.

It is precisely because of these thoughts that they decide to keep their distance from their friends of the opposite sex, which is called "avoiding suspicion". But they ignore one point, friendship is also the only one in a long life, in ancient times, "death and life are broad, and Zicheng said; Holding the hand of the son, growing old with the oak" is meant to celebrate friendship, not the love of men and women.

For my part, I would choose to keep in touch with my friend of the opposite sex, because he has been present in my life for too long.

Our two families live very close to each other, we have known each other since childhood, and it was he who has been with me throughout my youth and youth. He never disliked me when I was full of pimples, patiently helped me answer my questions when I didn't do well in exams, accompanied me to skip class, accompanied me to chase boys, passed notes, and even accompanied me through the first relationship ...... my life

I'm glad I met him before I met true love, and for me, his company is as warm as family. In fact, the feelings that real friends of the opposite sex and their partners bring to you are completely different, in love, you will quarrel because of the disagreement with each other, and the three views between friends are not compatible, which just gives you an extra angle to look at the problem; Love will make you get carried away and want to do something crazy for each other, while friends will always be dull, and cherish it; Love is sweet first and then bitter, while friendship is bitter and then sweet; There will be a lot of demanding requirements in love, and friendship is about mutual tolerance.

Therefore, the existence of a true friend of the opposite sex will only make your world more complete.

Love him well, and then, also live well, and what keeps a person is never humble, but living well and independently. "So, you don't have to give up your friends of the opposite sex because you love him, you just need to be yourself.

And the person who really loves you and knows how to appreciate you will not mind you because of the existence of your friends of the opposite sex.