What is it like to share the next person s life?

When my husband was here, I was earning my own money and spending it myself, and I asked others for help when I couldn't do it, I couldn't rely on him for anything, I just begged him not to mess with me and was satisfied, and now that he is gone, I don't know what life is like without him.

Anyone who has not met someone else who is really willing to start a family with you will inevitably experience such a "one" state.

No one really likes to live alone, people are social animals after all, but there is nothing to talk about, there is no way, so I have to live alone, which is a choice after weighing the pros and cons.

You have to be able to support yourself, and then you can be free to live your life as you like.

In fact, if you are used to it, you will feel that living alone is the best state in life.

You can do what you like to do, do what you are good at, regain the joy of success, regain lost confidence, and find the motivation and direction to move forward.

I didn't feel any loneliness or anxiety when I came alone these years, because I knew that this was how a person grows and perceives the world.

Earn your own money, spend your own money, and always feel safe. Don't worry about others or others, feed yourself and don't go hungry for the whole family.

Loneliness is the carnival of one person, and the carnival is the loneliness of a group of people.

In my opinion, living alone is the only way to adapt to the development of society, and living alone changes people's understanding of themselves and human intimacy, as well as the way people grow up and become adults.

Ever heard Ahsan's song "Leaves"? "Eat, travel, walk and stop alone, read books, write letters, and talk to each other by yourself."

Rediscover the meaning of life in the journey, re-understand yourself in every moment, and re-find yourself as a pillar growing while walking.

A person lives freely and uninhibitedly. You can "do whatever you want". But you must have strong self-care skills to live a relaxed and chic life.

Well, it's nice to live alone. On weekends, you can stay at home all day. I will also travel through the city to eat what I like, and if it is two people, it may not be the same taste. will also buy a high-speed rail ticket to a surrounding city, if it is two people may not have the same idea.

The biggest problem in a person's life is loneliness and fear, sometimes, seeing other people's lovers, what is the feeling of their hearts? Is it envy or jealousy? Do you want to fall in love very much, but you find that you can't find someone you love, so you can only talk about love.

Seeing that other people's marriages are very happy, do you also want to have a home, and you also want to have a perfect marriage? Affirming that the two of them have a deep relationship, is it a tear to say too much.

1. I am a man, a person in the field to work and rent a house to live, although not far from home, an hour and a half by train, but I do not have an acquaintance in this city, today my dad came to see me travel lead, in the afternoon and said goodbye to him after feeling very lost, sour nose, because I know that he is gone and I am alone. Especially the feeling that no one will say a word to you after work.

3. Have you tried to move alone, one person is packing things, one person is downstairs, and when you go to another place, you move up and arrange it yourself until late, and then take a bucket of instant noodles to solve dinner, all tears.

4. I used to think that a person was very good, but now I think it's ridiculous. If you want to go out for a walk, you don't know where to go, no one chats with you, listens to you, and you can't talk to your family, of course, more importantly, you don't have any money. I'm afraid I'll get sick if I continue like this!

A person's life, which shows that a person has the ability to be independent. You will encounter various things that you can solve by yourself. Qing banquet takes good care of himself alone.

In terms of life, he can cook, clean and touch Yinsheng. One person is outstanding. It is also more convenient to cook, and a person's life is more miserable.

So I didn't take care of myself. Interested in things not lonely.

In China, non-marriage and infertility have always been non-mainstream, and it is difficult to say that they may marry later and have children later, and vote with their feet on a large scale.

However, the notion of not marrying and having children will become mainstream.

Young people in first- and second-tier cities are roughly labeled as the following, and a careful analysis will find that each of them does not seem to have the need to get married and have children:

Either the economic pressure is high, and they can't even gain a foothold in the first and second-tier cities, and such people basically can't have children; Either the economy is acceptable, but such people often do not want to get married and have children, because it is likely to seriously affect their current living standards;

Either the economy is not a problem, but they are very concerned about their spiritual needs, and such people do not care about worldly things;

Either they are financially strong, but such people are afraid of economic disputes caused by marriage.

In life, we tend to look forward to many things, but there may be some risks and *** to try this thing, and when this risk and *** are big enough, we would rather not try new things, and shrink into our own small but warm little world.

This is the case with love and marriage.

Now there are actually two very mainstream values, one is to marry high and marry high, which reflects that we are not willing to suffer. In reality, you often encounter such an example: a girl of 150 likes a boy above 175, which means that a boy under 175 is not considered; But you ask 175 boys and they like girls over 160; And you ask girls over 160 who like 180 boys.

But 180 boys are a very small minority after all. So you will find that in the field of marriage and love, the Matthew effect is extremely obvious, regardless of men and women, everyone is actually only interested in those few people, if you can't find a few high-quality people, you would rather not find it.

Second, the vigilance is very heavy, and everyone's mutual trust is very low. Some people are worried about the other party's domestic violence, some people are worried that the other party has a bad temper, some people are worried that the other party's financial resources are not good, some people are worried about the other party's excessive beauty, some people are worried about meeting a bad mother-in-law, some people are worried about the sky-high bride price, and some people are worried about the property after marriage. And now the first- and second-tier cities are stranger mode, you know little about the other party, this kind of information asymmetry blind box model greatly affects everyone's yearning for marriage.

Therefore, people who get married are often either classmates, have an emotional foundation and have a certain understanding, or they have a reliable intermediary to match in a small range, which also leads to a very weak marketization of blind dates.

Therefore, the overall environment of first- and second-tier cities determines that everyone has a low marriage rate and a high divorce rate. If you are involved with children again, a series of bad things such as bringing children and cram schools will follow one after another, and for young people in the new era who care about their personal feelings, they will retreat.

Men alone,,It's very lonely,,, it doesn't matter if it's been a long time.,Women alone.,I really don't know.,In short,Don't be friends with bad people if you don't have friends.。。 Be yourself and everything will be fine. ，

There are many things in life that need someone to do with you. If you do it alone, you will feel empty. It can be very uncomfortable and lonely.

When you've been single for a long time, the easier it is to get used to being alone. I can do a lot of things on my own, and I even enjoy doing it on my own. 6 things to enjoy "loneliness", you can do more than 3 things, and you probably don't need to be in love!

Shopping alone is a very happy thing for girls. But the premise is with the person you like, or with your best friend, in short, you need to have someone to accompany you. For boys, they don't like to go shopping in the first place, and it is even more painful to let them go shopping by themselves.

It has to be said that now the development of the Internet has saved many people. Because I can help them solve the problem of shopping alone. Eating alone in a restaurant I remember that a certain hot pot restaurant was famous for its service, when you went to eat alone, the restaurant would take a doll and put it opposite to accompany them to eat.

Many people find this behavior funny, but in reality, very few people choose to eat out alone. When you're home alone, you can eat instant noodles on top of a meal. After all, going out to eat in a restaurant alone will always make people feel embarrassed.

Although I don't have much interaction with the people around me when I watch a movie alone, I basically don't choose to go to the movie alone. After all, most of the people who go to the movies are mostly couples. Watching a movie by yourself and feasting on dust can make people feel lonely.

If you come across a movie you like, but no one around you wants to watch it with you, you still resolutely choose to go. Explain that you can still accept loneliness. Enjoy living alone at homeSome people worry about being alone, but others enjoy living alone.

Except for school and work, I like to stay at home the rest of the time. Even if you live a simple life of two points and one line, you don't feel lonely at all. Instead of being outside, living a flowery life.

It's better to go home and live a simple and comfortable life. I don't like noisy days, even if I have a small social circle, I don't feel bothered at all, because I enjoy this kind of life very much. When you go to the doctor alone, you have to say that the hospital is a place that makes people feel nervous and scared.

Even if it's just a minor illness, when you need to go to the hospital, you always want someone to be with you. The person who accompanies you to the hospital can give you a lot of courage. Especially when you need to have surgery, you want someone to accompany you.

You can take care of yourselfWhen your financial ability is strong enough and your life skills are high enough, you can take good care of yourself, even if there is no one around, you don't care. Girls can change light bulbs, go to the toilet by themselves, and carry heavy loads ...... themselvesBoys can cook their own food, do their own laundry, clean the house by themselves...Brigade Mill....Even the small things in life that you are not good at can be handled in an orderly manner. Over time, you may not want to find your other half.

Living alone is very lonely and lonely, and no one collects the corpse when you are old.