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It is indeed complicated, and the girls in front are clearly for money, betraying their love. also betrayed himself, and finally ran back to find the boy when he was bruised and regretted. I don't think it's necessary for the boy to break off his new life and live the old one, not to mention that it is a love full of stains.

It's hard to tolerate and forget now, not to mention that in the future, if you want to be together, bury the past forever, and then live well, and never separate. It can be said that love is reunited, but it is definitely not as good as before, and it can never go back to the past. If you are new here, love well, and don't play with feelings if you don't love.

If you can afford to play, you have to be able to afford it.

Position yourself first.

You just say, "The girl and I got it, and there's no good in hiding it now."

The girl's past is indeed a bit bumpy.

You can also think about what girls would do to you if you were with them.

The girl's experience has determined some of her personality, will she still look up to you, will she start with some tiring work, if there is no material basis for it, it is useless to say anything.

But on the other hand, if a girl really loves you and is willing to change herself for you, then she is a good girl, who has made mistakes in the past, can change them if she can, and is willing to change for you.

It's up to you to see if you're willing to accept it.

It's really useless to ask us this question.

Just ask yourself, yes or no.

You know yourself best.

Either both of them forget the past and start from the heart, or separate!

A word of advice to you, you are not suitable now, your thinking is still immature, short-term impulses will bring more pain, the times are not the same, there is no one who can not be separated from, no woman is only for you, women are fickle, even if you really want to be with her, then now you should devote yourself to your career, men should focus on their careers, and only with careers can they have the capital to love others, this is the reality, so you now think that these are manifestations of immaturity, think about it yourself, But remember that a man decides and don't regret it, no matter what your choice is, as long as you don't regret it!

According to your narrative, you fell in love with a married woman, you liked her, so you were heartbroken, expectant, and annoyed, and he had some love for you, but he betrayed you, married someone else, and had children, do you want to continue to be nostalgic?

You love her, this is your fate, and it is not her fault that she betrayed you to marry someone else, since you have so many troubles and uncertainties (1. In the future, the problems of children need to be faced by themselves!) 2. How to face others after becoming a successful person! 3. How she faces her past and has no confidence in her feelings for herself!

4. How to face her children! There is also a more troublesome problem of her divorce in the future, why don't you take a step back and let go, there is grass everywhere in the world.

Let it be, I don't think there seems to be a marriage between you, so let's shake up your spirit and find your own true fate.

Different lives have different troubles.

There is a saying, 'Life is a problem on top of a problem', and it makes a lot of sense.

There are a lot of problems that are not predictable.

Problems always arise slowly after our choices.

No matter what we choose, we must first be mentally prepared to face the problems that come with it.

In today's society, to have love is happiness, whether it is to love others or to be loved by others. These are so rare, because this society is so fake.

Many times, I don't know whether I should trust my feelings, and often after making a choice, I will feel that I have made a wrong choice and regret it.

However, if you don't choose this way, will it be good? Will you be happy?

I think the question is not the choice, but how we face the choice.

In fact. She sees you like this. She shouldn't be at ease now.

I don't know where you're going. But in fact, the choice is up to you.

Fate, in fact, is still in your own hands, right?

It's just that none of us can say regret it. Don't say regrets.

If a woman loves you, then there is pity in his eyes.

If there is no love, then there is only pity.

Life. It's about constantly facing some sad things. Until I know the vicissitudes of the world.

I think people should learn to be less greedy. With six hundred thousand. Don't always think about 60 million.

There was an overnight approach. Don't always think about it.

Look at what LZ said, I don't think this woman is worth LZ's consideration, some people may say that most of the women nowadays are like this, but I think that if you really love someone, you should not accompany him after he succeeds, true love should be reflected in the most difficult time for men, maybe some people say that I am outdated, but I still think so, it is your real lover who stands behind you and gives you a smile when a man is working hard

It is enough for you to love her for one reason, and if you don't love her, you will find a thousand reasons to reject her.

It's clear that you want to be a negative person, but you make up so many reasons and excuses for yourself to break up with her, in order to get the self-condemnation of your conscience, in order to let yourself accept the abandonment of her with peace of mind without being tortured and guilty by conscience.

Despise people like you.

People who have love are always vulnerable!

A woman's true love has nothing to do with your success!

People's lives are very short, and it is not easy to find someone you love who loves you.

Since you love her, you have to be tolerant of everything, and if love is not interesting, then be a gentleman and hurt each other less.

Remember, she is the one who gives you the motivation to succeed!

Please remember: Zhao Benshan said to Xiao Shenyang: Even if you become famous, don't divorce easily!

That's what bothers you when you don't succeed.

And when you succeed, I think you're going to abandon her.

Human.

A woman can really like you when you have nothing!!

Your essay is well written at the beginning of the ranking ratio that is worth learning.

Ask someone if you might as well give yourself a vacation, think clearly, and then do it.

Hehe, you can choose to be with her.

Any difficulty can be faced together.

Did you know ?

Do you like the new and hate the old?

In fact, you know the answer, don't deceive yourself anymore, you just don't want to feel with the girl, you know it's impossible but want to be together again, the result is definitely not good, you know the answer yourself, you just don't want to accept it. I advise you to break up early, because it will not end well for you or her! Besides, your ex-wife, you were originally husband and wife, and you have children, for the sake of the children, I think her mother wants to get back together with you, as a father, don't think about anything else for your children, in fact, divorce is good for a family, and the most pitiful thing is the children.

The reason why you hesitate to get back together with your ex-wife or not, most likely because the appearance of that girl makes you reluctant to leave, I dare to say that if there is no girl, you must be willing to get back together, think about it in the future, be practical, be good for other girls, and for your children, do good deeds. I guess you should be a great father too!

Strongly agree with chongdu123!

I very much disagree with the point of view of green green bean sprouts, people can't be too selfish in life, especially after having a family, that is, you have to bear your responsibility, yes, you said that you were divorced, but the fact that you were married is something you can never erase! If people are only thinking for themselves, then in fact, life is not interesting, there is a saying I don't know if you have heard: only those who have really paid will have a strong sense of happiness, and those who only rely on getting and not paying will never feel it!

If that girl really loves you deeply, I think you have to resist all difficulties and choose this girl, because it is very important, and it is also very precious, that girl obviously does not want to be with you for money or fame or anything, because you don't! So this is the most important thing.

And your ex-wife was sentenced to you because of your poor financial conditions. This can never be forgiven, at least I think. If your economy is still not optimistic, I think even if it comes together, it is still not happy.

And even if your child has a biological mother by his side, but this mother's soul I think can be described as distorted, then it is conceivable that he will not be happy there.

Let's talk about that girl, you talk about her: just a little can't accept his children and can't fit into his family. I don't think it's a big problem, the point is that the relationship between the two of you has to be based on stability. If you can fall in love with someone, you can accommodate everything about him.

It's just my opinion, just for the obstetric test!

I'm sorry, I've always used the term "you", so I'll just try to talk about it!

But now, I don't feel anything. That's it, time can dilute everything. Trust your feelings.

Don't remarry, and don't force yourself to be with a girl. Since you don't love your ex-wife anymore, after remarrying, you keep quarreling, is it good for your children? Your life is also life, for the sake of your children, is it great to ruin your life?

A girl has a girl's idea, if she thinks that love is the most important, then your relationship is a bargaining chip, if she thinks that the conditions are economic, then even if you win it, the same result will happen in the future as your ex-wife. You should not be small, and your life should be almost halfway through, and everyone wants to have happiness, which cannot be forced. You have to live, you are the protagonist, don't live with anyone.

What I want to say is, you don't have the qualities of a good man, first, indecisive, second, you don't know yourself, and third, you don't know what you're asking for? Well, let me ask you: what do you want to get?

Once you've set your goals, you know what you're going to do. There are some things that more people ask will make you more confused, you are just yourself, others can't replace you, life, how wonderful! Don't be confused, I know, you already have the answer, asking people is just trying to find some interface, do what you want, at least you won't regret it.

There will be a pimple in the heart, we must first recognize the reality, things are already like this, the sequelae must exist, furthermore, there must be a better solution, if you choose one of your options, I think objectively you should choose your ex-wife, of course, it is not necessary to choose, I think the ex-wife may not make you satisfied, it depends on the situation, I think the girl's parents are enough for you to eat a pot, your pressure is too great, the only thing you are sure of now is to work hard to make an example, so that the future is better, It's king.

Answer (1) First of all, I never analyze the problem from the perspective of human nature, and I will not think about you, but can only analyze it objectively for you.

2) The first thing to know is 1: The man and his wife have been divorced for 5 years. 2: It is impossible for a man and a girl to come together.

3) Analysis 1: According to the information, the wife was ready to come back, and the man was reluctant to give up the current girl. Analysis 2: Men can't give girls a happy life and don't know whether they should leave.

Essentially, these are the two questions.

Answer: All men have to do is be realistic, and men who love fantasy are usually tormented by the cruel reality. In the case that the man can't give the girl a happy life, and can't get the consent of the woman's parents, the best way to leave, because the man can't give it, if it's just because both parties love each other, the man can't give the girl a happy life, in essence, it is to delay time, until finally the woman's family comes to the person, the girl gets older, delaying the girl's life, in the long run, it is obviously not good, if the man is willing to drag it all the time, it is a selfish idea.

I absolutely don't agree with the so-called fight for love, sometimes as long as the woman you love has a good life in the future, it's actually ......That's enough.

Even if there is no affection between a man and his wife, he can transfer the so-called affection to the child, and he does not agree to only know that he only thinks about his own love without considering the child's feelings.

So my point of view is: if you can't give it, give it up, it's enough to wish the girl a happy life in the future, and now life is with your wife, even if it's for the sake of the children, and the relationship can be re-cultivated, time is the best antidote.

As an unruly woman, my ex-wife is officially divorced, so I don't think I should think about it.

The current girl made this man see despair, but his deep feelings made him unable to let go of her completely.

The following is just my personal opinion: as a man, since I came into this world, I have already carried a sense of responsibility. As a responsibility to the second girl, I will try to make money, it doesn't matter if I am poor, but I want to be poor and ambitious.

I'll try to live up to his family's standards, that's all a prerequisite. The girl is older, and I am not up to the standard of his family, I will go away silently with tears, I will love her, but I will not marry her, and I will not regret all this effort even if it is in vain.

But I don't know what kind of person the male protagonist in this story is, but I think he will think about it too, because the second girl he loves is better than his ex-wife.

So let's start with the simplest, work hard to make money, and give her everything you have.