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First love is innocent and beautiful, but it also contains too many assumptions, and what you love is more out of imagination than understanding. So one of the pieces of advice that someone gives to their children is not to get married to their first love, and not to marry the person they first loved, which is very reasonable. The reason why you have waited for three years is because you have always kept an imaginary perfect image in your heart.

There is a big gap between her in reality and what you imagine she is, because she feels it, so she leaves you. If you're together, your imagination will be shattered by the real "she", and you'll both suffer as a result. So, she won't come back, and you don't have to wait for her to come back, which is good for both of you.

As the saying goes: I don't understand love when I fall in love for the first time, and one of the reasons is that although the other party gets along day and night, they often turn a blind eye to the reality of the situation, but they will add a lot of imagination. I hope you can really understand the opposite sex in contact with the opposite sex, so that you can be truly happy in your later life.

If you have a good relationship with her for the first time, you will be very happy Girls are usually soft-hearted If you have always been good to her, she may be tempted But pay attention to grasp the difference between friends and lovers Don't go too far.

This friend, it depends on whether you are eye-to-eye and whether it is suitable, and if there is fate, you will definitely come back.

If that's what I'm saying, I think it's usually either that I've met a better person, or I'm just a little bit of a little use of you; It's really my true thoughts, not deliberately offending anyone, not angry, I'll tell you the truth.

— Le Shao.

She may have lost the love between men and women for you, otherwise she wouldn't have told you to concentrate on studying, and then you would have separated.

Concentrating on studying is just the interface for her to find you apart, and of course she doesn't want to delay, because she thinks in her heart that you won't be together.

Now that you are in touch, you have more contact with her to see if she has weakened, if not, then it is better to be an ordinary friend, so as not to not contact for another 3 years, after all, it still feels good now, at least a bosom friend.

Well. I'm a girl

Well. I have a friend who is in a similar situation to you.

They would love to be together.

But because she was afraid of delaying him, he thought that she really didn't want him and they were strangers to each other.

This happens all the time.

And I think it's better for you to come to a common understanding, to open up to each other, to communicate well, to talk about your ideas.

This may solve the problem between you.

Also, if you really want to fall in love, you have to study well first.

Otherwise, it can easily become an obstacle between two people, and the relationship is prone to cracks.

Won't be coming back. I feel like you're now dependent on each other.

But there must be a gap between you.

Go ask her.

Summary. Good evening, dear, and it is an honor to answer this question for you. My dear, I understand your mood at this time, you must be full of yearning for this relationship now, because it is a rare thing to continue the front edge after thirteen years, and at the same time, there will be a trace of worry about the future of the two people, after all, no one can know whether the two people are suitable now after being separated for thirteen years.

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Good evening, dear, and it is an honor to answer this question for you. My dear, I understand your mood at this time, you must be full of yearning for this relationship now, because it is a rare thing to renew the front edge after thirteen years, and at the same time, it will also hide a trace of worry about the future of the two people, after all, no one can know whether the two people are suitable for the two people who have been separated for thirteen years. <>

My dear, why did you break up thirteen years ago? My dear, you can refer to the ways to enhance your relationship that may help you to a certain extent

Summary. Because first love is the best love experience of a lifetime for most people. At that time, I was ignorant and ignorant, and it was my first love that taught me to be in love, how to express love, and how to accept the love of another person.

Many people's first love is the person they love deeply, and that kind of love is a feeling that does not need to think too much and does not need to consider material factors when they are old. It's so simple that I love you and you love me just because we like each other and nothing else. This is also why so many people think that the first love object is someone that most people can't forget for a lifetime, and the first love is also their best relationship, although it didn't work out in the end.

After many years of separation, why do you miss your first love more and more?

Hello. Because first love is the best love experience of a lifetime for most people. At that time, I was ignorant and ignorant, and it was my first love that taught me to be in love, how to express love, and how to accept the love of another person.

Many people's first love is the person they love deeply, and that kind of love is a feeling that does not need to think too much and does not need to consider material factors when they are old. It's so simple that I love you and you love me just because we like each other and nothing else. This is also why so many people think that the first love object is someone that most people can't forget for a lifetime, and the first love is also their best relationship, although it didn't work out in the end.

Please reply and let me analyze further to help you!

What should I do if I want to contact him?

I can't help but think.

You can go and try to get in touch! But there is a high probability that it will disturb him!

Suddenly entering his life may disturb the other party!

Is there a way not to think about it.

If you have this kind of thought now, you must have feelings for him! Feelings are hard to forget!

If you can't let it go, let the teacher help you!

OK. Help with a solution.

Okay pro. First of all, let me get to know each other first!

Can you introduce the other person first? For example, character.

Please reply when you see it!

All I can say is that I just met that.

Dear, describe each other, let me help you with the problem!

On the one hand, there is sadness, and on the other hand, there is no feeling, after many years of separation, there will be two completely different feelings when you meet your first love.

As the saying goes, it is not sad to be separated for a long time in the world, and it is sad to meet again. It means that this person, after being separated for a long time, may slowly forget, and then slowly forget the feeling at the beginning. It doesn't cause any psychological fluctuationsBut once we meet, it's different.

The surging feelings that have accumulated for many years can be suffocating in an instant.

So there are two situationsOne situation is very sad and sad。Because I have always remembered this person, and with the extension of time, the two of them have changed too much. The little girl in your heart is still ignorant and doesn't seem to have grown up, but when you meet, you will find that she has been smoothed out by society, and her face is covered with wind and frost.

Looking back at himself, he was no longer the young man in white back then, he put on a suit and became an adult.

This sadness has nothing to do with liking or not, it's just a kind of remembrance of my feelings for so many years, the frustration of the person who has changed his heart. Time is too terrible for anyone to stop.

There is also the case of not feeling anything. After so many years, although it is the first love and the bright moonlight in my heart, I haven't been in touch for too long. Time is a terrible, something that can wear out everything, and feelings slowly disappear with the extension of time.

After many years, I met my first love again, the relationship was not there, and the person changed again. When you see him again, he's not what he remembers, so you don't feel anything in your heart. It was as if the wind was blowing across the surface of the lake, making waves, and in the blink of an eye, it became calm.

After being separated for many years, everyone should feel different when they reunite with their first love, mainly depending on the reason for the separation, if the other party proposes to break up, it should be a feeling of disgust for him (her), and if it is their own proposal to break up, it should be a little regrettable.

I didn't feel it, because I knew that I wouldn't be reunited with him after a long absence, and I missed him very much, and then got back together or something. No way.

The years are a pig-killing knife, outside the restaurant where we went to the class reunion, we walked face to face, but we didn't recognize it, and we only reacted when we introduced each other at the dinner table.

Now it's like a stranger, because everyone else is married and has children.

Let's talk about myself, after six years of separation and reunion with my first love, everyone has their own lives, and there is no longer the original heartbeat.

The vision will change with age, maybe after many years of separation, you like another person, and you don't feel anything about your first love.

There will be a feeling of reunion after a long absence, first love is the best memory, and reunion will have a lot of memories of the past.

I don't know each other, and she will always be sixteen years old in my memory.

First love is so beautiful and youthful. At the beginning, they parted ways for various reasons, and when they reunited many years later, they are all adults! No longer young and frivolous, no longer without scruples, understand each other in their hearts, it is enough.

Just a little bit of what you feel at the beginning will go by over time.

Slowly becoming strange, this is the basic idea of goodbye after many years.

It's better to focus more on your current life.

After seeing you for many years, it is estimated that you are a stranger, and you shouldn't feel any heartbeat.

Anyway, I'm going to show my attitude first, I'm going to kill and never be able to break up with my first love again and get back together, and the most annoying thing is the kind of person who keeps eating back grass.

Don't think that life is as romantic as the plot of **, after all, it is an imaginary life made up by many boring literati. Why do you think Karen Mok was with her first love after many years? Anyway, if I think of conspiracy theories, if this first love still has no ability and is a street gangster, it is impossible for her to get back together with him.

So I think the economic base determines the superstructure, and there should be the possibility of him reuniting if he is reunited, but there must be a reason, why did the two people separate in the first place? That means that the two people were not suitable at the beginning, and they didn't meet the right person at the right time.

Then how can you conclude that you met the right person at the right time after many years, not because you are already well, but thinking about each other to let each other see how good you are after many years, is there an element of showing off in it?

Anyway, I thought that if I saw my ex again after many years, I would definitely be embarrassed and want to commit cancer. What is there to say? What is there to talk about?

Don't you think it was very naïve when two people were together many years ago? Do you think it's so romantic to reminisce about the past?

Of course, what I'm saying may be too extreme, and I won't let others think that I was hurt much by my first love, right? But the reality is like this, I don't support getting back together with my ex, because I see that the years are really a pig-killing knife, and I cut one after another on his body, so let's leave some good memories.

Yes That's the case with my friend. My friend is a girl.,When I was in junior high school, I fell in love with a boy in the next class.,Our class belongs to the kind of teacher who is more serious.,It's very strict with us.,I don't know what means we've taken.,Anyway, I later knew the list of all the people in the class who were in love.。 Now that I think about it, it seems that a classmate who made a report leaked secrets.

I remember very clearly that the teacher said loudly to us in the class meeting: "You said that you are still in love at such a young age, look at the people you like, all of them are crooked and cracked, none of them I can see." Hurry up and cut it off for me, don't blame me for being ruthless in looking for your parents!

Ban Ren also "encouraged" us all to go to her to confess our love situation. My friend didn't go because of luck, but later found her parents, and her mother gave her a lot of criticism, and the two of them were separated from each other.

Now the relationship between the two is very stable, and I have met both parents, and my friend's mother was shocked when she learned that this boyfriend was her daughter's first love, and sighed that this is fate.

Love is like a glass of wine, the longer it lasts, the more mellow it is, but at the beginning, people can't stand the bitterness of the wine, only after a certain period of accumulation, they come back and find that the glass of wine is so delicious, so people pick it up again. And the hatred and hatred in the process all disappeared with the drink of that glass of wine! Where the love is stronger, I also find a suitable way to get along.

Yuan Quan and Xia Yu. Because of their low profile, I don't know them very well, and in such a flashy place as the entertainment industry, it is natural that those who often appear in front of people's eyes are easy to be remembered. But like them, a loving couple who are low-key and high-profile acting, few people know their story.

That's right, Yuan Quan and Xia Yu are first love! They were in a relationship when they were still in school. Maybe the two of them at that time thought that this relationship would definitely come to an end, but no one could tell what was going on in the relationship, a little quarrel, a little personality disagreement, and a little dispute over opinions would make a relationship slowly dissipate in the course of time.

So one day the two of them broke up.

Some people break up not because they don't love each other, but because they feel that they can't love anymore and are afraid that they will hurt each other in love, so they decide to let go. But the two of them are really stupid, they just haven't found a suitable way to get along, and the personalities of the two people are still halfway through, why do they easily say let go? Fortunately, there is an old saying that with the help of lovers eventually becoming married!

After going around for a while, I still found that the other party was the most suitable for me, and whether the shoes fit or not can only be known when I put them on. When you first start wearing shoes, you will inevitably feel that your diaphragm is a little hard because of the material, so you take them off immediately, right? Actually, it's not right, the longer you wear the shoes, the better they fit.

The two who were back together understood that each other was the most indispensable person in their lives, so they got married not long after they were back together. After marriage, they live their own low-key life, happy and comfortable! I've seen their wedding photos on the Internet, and it doesn't seem to be a real wedding photo, anyway, I can see that the years are quiet.

Such a couple, the relationship between a couple is really enviable, continue to live a low-key life happily!