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I feel that I should talk to my girlfriend about it, since my work is not good, I should take a good look at myself, see what my shortcomings are, improve myself, and work hard to change jobs.
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I used to earn less in my previous job, I was tired, and I didn't want to mention it, and I felt inferior every time I got together, but then I went to a night school, and slowly got a theory, and then I practiced more in my work, and I did a better and better job. My girlfriend is not good at work and loves to be angry, so I should ponder whether I can let her put down her work first and rest for a while? If life is stressful and costly, then take her to her hometown to recuperate for a period of time.
In fact, many times our so-called impetuousness is caused by unquiet hearts, and returning to our hometown, especially in the countryside, will have a lot of gains after staying for a while. It is recommended to give it a try.
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At this time, you should carefully tell your girlfriend that you must enrich yourself, and slowly your work will become better.
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If you have the ability, let your girlfriend quit! She is responsible for being beautiful like a flower, and you are responsible for earning money to support your family! Since you are not satisfied with your current job, as a boyfriend, you can also try to change your job and change the environment.
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In fact, it's normal for girlfriends not to talk about work, and when they don't have a boyfriend, they don't earn enough money to spend their own work, and they also need their parents to help. Of course, if you have a boyfriend, you have to relax a little, and when she passes this relaxation time, she will refer to your real economic situation to help you share some appropriately, and don't be too annoying, it's unnecessary.
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Actually, I don't think that's a good thing, so you don't have to worry too much about it.
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If that's the case, try to communicate as much as possible, resolve the matter peacefully through communication, and if your girlfriend doesn't change, I think you have to be ready.
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There is no specific answer to this, and everyone's opinions and ideas are different.
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Introduction: If you are under a lot of pressure at work, you should also talk to your girlfriend about it, and the two of you must learn to communicate.
If your girlfriend is always arguing with you, look at what happens between the two of you and then make a choice. If two people are always arguing with each other, it is necessary to find the problems between the two people and then solve them. If there are always some problems between two people, you should talk to them in time and see how they can solve them.
You can talk to your girlfriend about it, saying that your work is under a lot of pressure, and you should also make appropriate changes, so that your girlfriend can better understand it. If two people are often unhappy, they can also experience it appropriately, some people will always have some hesitation when doing things, so at this time we must learn to grasp it well, so that we can make appropriate changes, and don't let ourselves have this situation.
If two people often quarrel because of some misunderstandings, and the work pressure is very high, you can also talk to your girlfriend appropriately, so that your girlfriend knows what she is busy with, so that your girlfriend will also be very relieved, don't put your girlfriend at home and snub your girlfriend. Some boys are in a very bad mood after being cautious at work, and girls should also learn to be considerate of their boyfriends, see what is wrong with their boyfriends, and then make a choice. If girls often feel that they are sad, they should tell their boyfriend about their emotions so that their boyfriend can understand, girls must consider their boyfriend's thoughts when doing things, and the biggest way between two people is to communicate well, so that two people can also be happier together, and they must think about how each other is.
If your boyfriend's work pressure is always very high and he is very busy, he must share it well for his boyfriend, and the two of them must choose to be together well, so that the two of them will be happier.
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It is necessary to adjust the mentality of arrogance and self-control, Ziming should not bring the troubles of the work book back home, you can communicate well with your girlfriend, communication can avoid most of the quarrels, and you can let the other party understand yourself.
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In such a situation, I think you should adjust your mentality, and then you should also make yourself more positive, don't compare with your girlfriend, and don't vent your emotions on your girlfriend.
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You should choose to communicate with your girlfriend about the stupid encounter, you must let your girlfriend know the situation with you, and you also need to understand your girlfriend's quarrel after work.
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Quarrels are common, on the road of feelings, no one is smooth sailing, your work pressure is relatively high, or the boy's work pressure is relatively high, the girl does not know, the girl does not understand. It's just that you know it, if you don't say it, no one will know, it's like this, your girlfriend keeps quarreling with you, in fact, you also have a headache, and the quarrel is nothing more than those reasons, you have to prescribe the right medicine. For example, if a girl quarrels for money, or for emotional things, etc., etc., this is possible, then you have to analyze the specific problem.
Yes. So if you analyze the specific problem specifically, and solve the problem three, if it is a matter of money, then I can only tell you, then the boys will make more money, because there are many girls who spend money like flowing water, and there are many girls like their ancestors, uh, many girls are like this, so this is the case, so boys have to make more money.
So if this is an emotional problem, the values are different, then this one is more troublesome, then you can only tend to one value, and the values close to him are like this. If you want to pursue this girl, then you can only do this, if you want to pursue someone, then you have to be closer to the values of the person, or emotionally close, then that's it, if you don't want to pursue him, then you break up. Therefore, if you say this, this problem still depends on how the boy eats it and how wisely he faces it, because there are many problems.
These questions can't, but the most important thing is to see how the boy faces them positively.
What I'm talking about is the easiest, because there are too many reasons for quarrels, and many people think that quarrels are unnecessary, in fact, there is no one on the emotional road who doesn't quarrel, and those who don't quarrel rarely say that you want to talk about the couples of both sides of the marriage, and you still want to divorce, that's also the divorce of 1000 flashed in the brain, so that's how it is. So if you can handle it well, then I believe you can marry him, if you can't handle it well, it's likely to be goodbye.
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If your girlfriend keeps quarreling with you, it depends on what the reasons and reasons for your quarrel are, so that you can solve it in a targeted manner, and you need to communicate with your girlfriend well, tell her that she is under a lot of pressure at work, so that your girlfriend can understand your feelings, don't support everything alone, feelings are two people's affairs, and mutual understanding and tolerance are needed.
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You should communicate with your girlfriend first, let your girlfriend understand you, and you should also avoid being emotionally excited, be calm when quarreling, avoid impulsiveness, and prepare surprises for her appropriately to calm her emotions.
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Two people must tolerate each other when they can be together, you are very tired at work and under pressure at work, but your girlfriend is also very tired and needs care, she also wants to talk to you about her pressure, she is also very tired at work, and she has to cook and clean for you when she comes back, and when she looks back and sees you lying down, you are also angry when she changes you.
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You should take the initiative to tell the other party that you are under a lot of pressure at work in your life, and you hope that the other party can understand you. You should also reason with each other.
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Learn to control your temper and win. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke sent a message.
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You can work hard to make Qingzhi calm down and bury Sun Lai, try to communicate calmly with his girlfriend, express his true thoughts in his heart with her, and hope that she can empathize and understand herself, because it is not good for two people to quarrel like this, and it will affect the relationship between two people.
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At this time, you should break up with your girlfriend, your girlfriend doesn't know how to understand you, and always plays a petty temper and keeps arguing with you, you should break up with him decisively.
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Haha, I laughed, since you said that other people's girls are handsome, how can you take advantage of all the good things, and you have to accept the little temper behind the beauty to enjoy the beauty of others.
I think your girlfriend is just spoiled, and I take it for granted that others are good to me, especially your boyfriend, who has to obey his orders. She's a habitual angry thinking.,It's the type of person who wants to vent a little bit of unhappiness.,In fact, you yourself know how small things this is.,Carry a kun bag and say it directly.,It's still partial to others to understand.,Then just find a love master.,Really meet a love master and spit out bitterness and say that there is no sense of security.。
Emotional girls will always be angry for a little bit of childhood, or even inexplicably angry, and when they are emotional, they are not cute at all. It turns out that most of the people who look better are not very modest, mainly for the people around them. I always feel that others should revolve around me.
Who made this an era of face-seeking.
I think you're a boy, so you have to look like a boy, get used to where you should be, and don't admit your mistakes if it's not your own fault. I don't think there is a need for a man to carry a bag for a woman, what does it look like? You can communicate with her well and say that I care about you very much, and everything I do is to hope that the two of us will be together, but I also hope that you understand me, and I will correct what I really do wrong, but your constant emotion really makes me feel a little tired.
Just put it directly. The real fit together is to be able to communicate and understand each other, and it is definitely not that I have to put up with your bad temper just because you are good-looking. It's okay to endure for a day, but you will always get tired after a long time.
It feels like you're too passive in the relationship and have no voice.
I'm afraid of making a mistake if you talk too much.,You're not tired.。。 Women sometimes still like boys with a bit of personality.。。 Appropriate men, a little ... I can endure it, I can endure it anymore, but I can't bear it.
I've read the advice that others have given you. I don't approve of it, because I used to be a very grumpy girl, and my boyfriend has a headache about it.
Disastrous. I now feel like I'm wrong. To learn to understand others, there is really no obligation that I must be good to you.
If you don't like your girlfriend to do nothing all day, you can try to arrange something for her to do as much as possible for her to do as her job, or maybe she just wants to stay at home and not work. You can also relax your requirements appropriately, after all, the two sides of love should accommodate each other in life, and I believe that she can also understand your feelings, and be more understanding and considerate of each other. I believe that the problem is not difficult to solve, and the problem of girlfriend not wanting to go to work is easy to solve.
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Whether it is materially or emotionally, you can satisfy her, if you can give your girlfriend happiness, make it clear to her parents, you will be responsible for her life and will give her happiness, who parents don't want their children to be good, they will consider it, and your girlfriend should talk to her parents well, let her parents know what she thinks, this is not a question of whether she is afraid of stiffness, this is related to her happiness in the second half of her life, and she should grasp it well.
I think you are right to have such an idea, because you are young now, and you now have the idea of planning for the future, men are to focus on career, love is secondary, because love can be betrayed, once it is betrayed, there will be no more, but the career is their own, lost, you will lose the hard work for the future life, your girlfriend said this about you, the reason is that she doesn't want you to take your career as a gain, it may be that she will not cool you, will not think about it, but you can be more reasonable with your girlfriend, If she really loves you, if she really understands you, if she really wants your life to be good in the future, she will be cool and understand you, if she can't do it, it can only mean that she is selfish, it means that he doesn't want you to have a good future, if so, it is better for you to do things according to your own ideas, because many times it takes your own courage to do things.
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