At what point does an only child feel the loneliest?

An only child will feel very lonely when he is alone at home, and even more lonely during the Chinese New Year.

When an only child is alone, especially when his parents are not at home, he will feel very lonely.

In fact, only children are most likely to feel lonely in childhood, because other children are accompanied by siblings.

When you see that everyone else has brothers and sisters by your side, and you can help each other when you encounter problems, and you feel lonely when you are alone.

Maybe when your parents are old, you have to take care of your own small family and provide for your parents, and you may be more lonely at this time.

When you are frustrated, when you are in difficulty, when you are not treated well by others, when you are homesick.

An only child will feel especially lonely when both parents have left you and I am by your side.

Working alone outside the home, and your parents don't understand and support you, you will feel deeply lonely.

Always fantasized about having siblings. As a child, I longed for a real brother or sister, but it didn't come true, and I don't know why. I guess we're the loneliest generation.

The main thing is that when I was working in a city, I didn't know anyone.

I am the first generation of only children in Shanghai, my parents are in their 70s, and my body is still tough.

When your parents are divorced, you are the loneliest.

As an only child, there are the following moments when you feel lonely.

Loneliness, only when you really encounter things will you feel lonely and helpless, if you don't encounter things, it must be a good person, no one grabs their own toys, no one competes for the favor of parents and relatives, what is delicious, fun, always be alone, how good!

However, if you really encounter something, you will find that you don't even have a person to consult, not even a person to share with yourself, after all, some family affairs are not suitable for discussing with friends, and some family responsibilities have to be carried by yourself. Therefore, being an only child is not a question of whether it will be lonely, but that there must be times when it is lonely and helpless.

The only child has no companions in the family, will feel very lonely, although he has classmates and friends, but will not be with them all the time, and their classmates and friends also have brothers and sisters at home, they can feel the joy of family, and the only child at home has nothing but to face the parents, although the parents can accompany them, but there are some things that the parents can understand, which reflects the importance of brothers and sisters, and, in a long life, brothers and sisters can also help each other.

On the one hand, although there are no brothers and sisters to take care of in the future compared to non-only children, and it is also a problem to support the elderly in the future, a person will have to face the support of four old people in the future, so it is not good to be an only child in this regard; On the other hand, an only child receives all the love of his parents from an early age, and he can get the resources of the whole family. When I heard this, an only child felt that my head was big, and suddenly I felt that my loneliness was nothing, people living in this world, loneliness may be a compulsory course, because life and death are always experienced; There are certain benefits to being alone, but having a sibling can also help each other.

Therefore, the envy of an only child for a non-only child is not just for a period of time, it is a lifelong thing.

When you are alone at home, when you see other children playing, etc. When you are alone at home and have no other children to play with, you will feel lonely at this time. When I first saw other children playing with siblings, I also felt lonely at this time.

When the elderly are sick and have to work and have no time to take care of them, they will seem particularly lonely. Or on some major festivals, there are very few people at home, and it seems very lonely, and some partners who have not discussed important matters feel very lonely.

You will feel very lonely, the first aspect is that your parents are working outside, and you only have time when you are alone at home, and this loneliness will arise spontaneously at this time.

The first aspect is that when I was a child, when my parents went to work and I was alone at home, this loneliness would arise spontaneously at this time, and I didn't have a mobile phone or computer when I was a child, and some toys were Transformers, shooting pictures, and bouncing glass balls. Another situation is that when you grow up, when your family needs you, and you work outside, but you have to go home, you will feel very lonely and helpless at this time.

For those of us born in the 80s and after us in the 90s and 00s, the vast majority of people are grown up under the conditions of a one-child family, and many people think that our children who grow up in a one-child family are relatively lonely, because they have no brothers and sisters, but many people think that we are happier, because we can get 100% love from our parents. But a lot of times for some only children, they get this kind of 100% love. It may not be what they expect and yearn for in their hearts.

Balance. Because for many children who grow up in single-child families, although they can be taken care of and satisfied by their parents materially, and their parents often pour all their love into themselves, but for many. Only child, in the case. They often encounter certain difficulties in the process of growing up, that is, their parents often have too high expectations for themselves, as the so-called hope that their son will become a dragon, and the heart of their daughter will become a phoenix in the process of their growth will often exert great influence and pressure on them.

For example, it will be imported, let these children study hard and a lot of learning content may not be what these only children like, but they will still force their children to learn, although for these parents, this is a 100% love, but for their children, this kind of love is inevitably too heavy.

On the other hand, for many parents, their children are only children, so they will give 100% love to their children, but this 100% love will also become a kind of doting on their children to make mistakes, and parents are reluctant to criticize and educate. But they don't realize that this kind of love and this kind of education is not conducive to the growth of their children. On the contrary, it will cause many problems for their children in the growth process of Bi Zhituan in the future, and even this kind of education will harm their own children, so it is a good thing for only children to get 100% love from their parents.

But for parents, they should also find the right way to educate their children, and be able to love their children with a correct attitude, so that they are truly responsible for their children.

Now an only child can feel lonely in life because he doesn't have a brother, but it's not the whole reason:

First, being an only child is a special existence, and loneliness also goes hand in hand. In the family, it is a kind of loneliness to be accompanied by brothers and sisters, and in the workplace, it is also a kind of loneliness to be helped by blood relatives. But there are two sides to everything.

It depends on how you understand loneliness. Adjust yourself in loneliness and make yourself stronger, you will find that loneliness is the best booster, go and enjoy loneliness. Loneliness has made you mature faster as you grow up.

I hope mine satisfies you.

Second, only children are lucky, they enjoy the love of their parents and grandparents, and they easily become the "little emperor and little princess" in the family, living a happy life without competition. Lost perception of the outside world, like flowers in a greenhouse. And because there is no peer sharing, there is a lot less happiness, which also increases my loneliness.

This is precisely the greatest sorrow of an only child. When he has to go through the separation from his family to face the society, he needs to experience inner entanglement, struggle and suffering, and this suffering is the throes of growth, which must be endured, and the loneliness of this experience is irreplaceable.

Third, but this is where the two sides of things come in. Only some only children with a more cheerful personality have a lot of playmates outside, so they will not feel lonely, so now they advocate having a second child and a third child, that is, hoping that the child will have a companion and will not be lonely and lonely, which is also a very good thing, because the only child always accompanies him in the process, and a person has more time, so a child's family generally has to get along with other children, so as not to make the child's character become withdrawn. In this way, the child will grow up to be more enthusiastic and have a more cheerful personality.

Personally, I don't really agree with that. First of all, starting from our generation of post-80s, the vast majority of us are only children, and in our growth process, although we have no brothers and sisters, we are alone.

But we never feel lonely, after all, in our daily life and study, we have many classmates and friends who can accompany us to grow together.

Therefore, I personally think that the argument of these parents that only children without siblings will feel lonely in their lives is simply untenable. And for many parents, they really choose to have another child, not because they are afraid of their own children, they are only children, and they feel lonely in life.

In fact, I personally think that this is just one of the factors they consider, the most important thing is perhaps that many parents think that one more child is more reliable than a one-child family, in terms of pension, after all, if the hope of the future pension is pinned on their own child, then the pressure on the child will be great, if you want one more child to be able to share the pressure very well, but I personally think, In fact, this aspect has no direct relationship with whether it is an only child, and the most important thing depends on the education and guidance of parents for their children.

Most of them won't, maybe some people will, I'm an only daughter, never envy brothers and sisters, family conditions are average, my father Bi Qiao pointed to my mother can fully support my want to do it, at the beginning of the hand accessories are not good, life is also very hard, if there are two children at home, the burden will be heavier, now the days are getting better and better, you can enjoy the love and money of your parents alone, you don't want to have brothers and sisters at all, if it's sisters, it's just that, if there are brothers, go back to your mother's house to see people's faces, and you will be disgusted if you live for a long time,It's also disgusting to take things from my mother's house.,My mother's room may be gone.,How good am I now.,How long do you want to live in your mother's house.,There's always my room.,No one will ever give me a look.。