Can an only child feel lonely?

Most people will say "I will feel lonely" on this question, but I don't think it is necessarily, we must look at the problem from a dialectical point of view, and analyze specific things in detail.

Only children generally get more family attention, get more love, warmth, is very happy, basically the whole family around a person, they grew up in a loving environment, the character is mostly kind, cheerful, positive, lively, normal to go to school and socialize will have a lot of friends, not necessarily feel lonely. But there are individual examples, such as parents are busy, not at home, and their personality is a bit introverted, it may not be so easy to make friends, I think only children may feel lonely in an occasional moment, especially when others are fighting with their older siblings, or younger siblings, this loneliness is more obvious, because you are alone. But there is also a situation that is not afraid of loneliness, and even enjoys loneliness, a person's efficiency is very high, and he can do whatever he wants, where he wants, what he wants to do, and there is no shortage of such people in life.

I myself am not an only child, I have a younger brother, although I often "dislike" him on weekdays, sometimes I really break up and I will think, why do I have a younger brother, when I was a child, I always thought about "with a younger brother, will my parents not love me" and other questions, but in many cases, I am still more fortunate to have a younger brother to accompany me. Families with many children are most afraid of having the idea of "preference for sons over daughters" or having children "jealousy" is heavier, the more children, the greater the responsibility of parents, and now some families of three or four adults are not good at educating a child, not to mention two children and three children.

In some respects, the responsibility of the only child is also quite large, especially for parents, grandparents when they support the elderly, there are no brothers and sisters to share, and they can only carry the weight alone, which requires the only child to be more promising, which is also one of the major pressures on the only child in today's society, but now there are very few only children, basically there are brothers and sisters, because the country has opened the second child.

Yes, the three-child policy.

It's coming out soon, and parents will also think about it for the sake of old-age care, and they won't have only one child, and some families, more pursuing the word "good", will give birth to a girl and a boy.

The only child does not feel lonely, it depends on the individual's personality, we can't blindly jump to conclusions, everything has a good side, a bad side. It's normal for everyone to feel a little lonely at some point or at a special time.

I think so, as someone with so many siblings in my family. First of all, under the prospect of a general increase in the education rate in modern times, more and more women choose to be unmarried or have only one child, so the proportion of only children is increasing. But what I want to convey is that being an only child is not necessarily good.

Only children, resources are exclusive, this is the greatest benefit they enjoy, if their older generation is also an only child, it is a collection of six people in one, but most of them are lonely. They play alone at home; Going to school alone; A person resists the pressure given by his parents, and so on. Their joy is shared by no one but their parents, and the New Year is even more cold than that of families with multiple children.

This can be divided into two stages, one is childhood, as children, the most important thing for them is to enjoy the joy of innocence, then in childhood, they are lonely, they have no playmates at home, no laughter at the same time, no bosom friends in the same adolescence, no brother or sister to help them resist, and no brother or sister to be sent by themselves. This is the cause of loneliness.

The second is the period of middle age, which is a period of greater pressure for most people, because it is a transition period between the old and the small. At this time, loneliness is different, at this time they will feel that the only child is really lonely, in the face of their parents' old age, illness, they are unable to take care of it, but the newly established family also needs energy to manage, at that time they feel extremely anxious. But on the other side, families who are not only children, they are also in the middle age and standing, but they are happy, when their parents are sick, they will help each other, consult with each other, understand each other, and be each other's trash cans like they did when they were children, which is a rare brotherhood.

Therefore, I think that as long as you have the capital to raise children, you can consider joining the ranks of non-one-child families, because being an only child is really lonely, and don't worry about multiple fights, you must always believe in the truth that blood is thicker than water.

Middle-aged and standing.

Childhood solitary play.

Sisters play together.

Only children will be lonely.

That's for sure. The love life of an only child will definitely feel lonely, seeing that others have sisters and brothers, and they are high lead and have nothing to do with the wheel, so they feel lonely and open their minds.

Only children do feel lonely, he is alone with no one to consult with him, no one to play with him, so now many of them have a second child.

In a single-child family, because there is only one child and no siblings to accompany them, some people will think that the only child is lonely. Such a view is patently inaccurate. ......The reason why I say this is because an only child can get the love of his parents, the care of his relatives, and the love of his friends, so he is not lonely.

1. The only child can get the love of his parents, so he is not lonely.

In a one-child family, the only child can receive all the love from his parents. This makes the only child feel more happy. ......In such a state, the only child will not only not feel lonely, but will feel very happy.

In fact, because they can have all the love of their parents, the living conditions of the only child will be more comfortable, and the corresponding will have more happiness for Jingliang. Therefore, an only child does not feel lonely in life.

2. Only children can also get the care of relatives, so they are not lonely at all.

In a one-child family, although the only child is not accompanied by siblings, their relatives will give them more care, which will make them feel warm and their lives will be more fulfilling. ......An only child living in such an environment will not feel lonely, but will feel very comfortable and happy.

3. An only child can also be loved by his friends, so not only is he not lonely, but he is very happy.

The reason why some people think that an only child feels lonely is that they believe that an only child has no siblings and lacks the company of their peers. ......But in fact, the only child has many friends, and these friends are his peers, that is, his siblings ......With them, you can get more love, and the only child will feel fulfilled and warm because of it, and their life will not be lonely, but full of sunshine. ......For these reasons, an only child does not feel lonely because he or she has no siblings.

On the contrary, the life of an only child is very happy and fulfilling.

Now the only child in life I personally think that loneliness will still exist, after all, there are no siblings and feel lonely, since childhood no siblings in a one-person environment to grow up, pampered and loved by parents, although the love of parents is to tolerate the only child, but no siblings, life is more boring, unlike a family with many children, will feel that you playmate together, because children need playmates, so they will not feel lonely.

First, being an only child is a special existence, and loneliness also goes hand in hand. In the family, there is no brother and sister company, which is a kind of loneliness, and in the workplace, there is no blood relatives to help, which is also a kind of loneliness. But there are two sides to everything.

It depends on how you understand loneliness. Adjust yourself in loneliness and make yourself stronger, you will find that loneliness is the best booster, go and enjoy loneliness. Loneliness has made you mature faster as you grow up.

I hope mine satisfies you.

Second, only children are lucky, they enjoy the love of their parents and grandparents, and they easily become the "little emperor and little princess" in the family, living a happy life without competition. Lost perception of the outside world, like flowers in a greenhouse. And because there is no peer sharing, there is a lot less happiness, which also increases my loneliness.

This is precisely the greatest sorrow of an only child. When they have to experience separation from their families to face society, they need to go through internal entanglements, struggles and torments, so that the sedan chair is scattered, and this torment is the throes of growth, which must be endured, and the loneliness of this experience is irreplaceable. But that's where the two sides of the world come in.

Only some only children with a more cheerful personality have a lot of playmates outside, so they will not feel lonely, so now it is advocated to have a second child, a three-Tan fetus, that is, I hope that the child will have a companionship, will not be lonely and lonely, it is also a very good thing, because the only child always accompanies him in the process, and a person has more time, so a child's family In general, the child has to get along with other children more, so as not to make the child's character become withdrawn. In this way, the child will grow up to be more enthusiastic and have a more cheerful personality.

I feel like I'm going to feel lonely. Nowadays, people's Dancha life is becoming more and more stressful, and there are fewer and fewer families willing to have more children, and there are more and more only children. An only child will feel lonely in life because he has no siblings, because his parents are busy with their own work and have no more time to spend with their children, but send their children to live with their parents.

So the only child is still very lonely and kind in his heart. There are several reasons for this:

1.Many parents are busy with work, as an only child, growing up without siblings, when they encounter difficulties in learning or life, they can't find their family members to help, at this time, they often feel lonely in their hearts, and they always feel alone, so they are very eager to have the company of their brothers and sisters, hoping that someone can face difficulties with them.

2.Because the only child rarely gets along with his family, he will lack interpersonal skills in interpersonal communication compared to families with many children, and because he is used to doing everything by himself at home, he is afraid of bothering others, and tries to try to complete the task alone, even if it is very difficult, he will work hard and try his best to do his best. When faced with some particularly difficult problems and have to be completed with others, this is when the only child feels lonely.

3.Only children will be relatively more mature, and if something happens at home, it will be much better to have a brother or sister on the side to help come up with ideas and share the affairs of the family together. Therefore, an only child needs to think about many things from many aspects on his own, and he will be more mature.

4.Stressful is also an aspect of how lonely an only child feels later in life. Because an only child is the only child, parents put all their hopes in you.

I hope you will do better than others in the exam, do better than others, and do everything first. Because you're the only one, wanting you to succeed more often tends to make your child feel really stressed. When an only child becomes an adult, he or she has to face the problem of supporting his or her elderly, and at this time, he will feel very lonely when he cannot cope.

If parents often take the time to accompany their children, so that children have enough sense of security, then compared to the only child who lacks parental companionship, such children will generally feel less lonely, and many only children often have relatives and siblings or school partners to accompany them, and it can also be matched to make up for the regret of not having biological brothers and sisters.

An only child may not feel lonely in his own right, and he may even think that he is the only child, and that it is better for his parents and other family members to give him all their love alone. In fact, whether to let the child be an only child, or whether the parents should combine the family feelings to cultivate the situation, the most important thing is the economic ability, because now there is really no upper limit to the education funds for raising a child. If both parties have thought it through, whatever decision is made is good.

And whether the child is lonely or not, parents need to pay more attention to the child's inner needs, let him feel love and recognition, he will grow up healthy and happy, and he will not really feel lonely because there is no partner at home.

In fact, for some of the only children of Da Songchi, they do not feel lonely when they have all the love of their parents in their childhood, but if their parents are sick or die, they often feel extremely helpless and lonely at this time. Whether it is a one-child or a multi-child family, if you talk about loneliness, you can't do without the company of your parents, so no matter how busy you are at work, you should not easily neglect the company of your children.