I m too good, what should I do if I m always bullied?

That's the way it is.

If you keep putting up with it, you will always be bullied.

There was no time to endure it to the end.

You ask this kind of question in this kind of Buddha forum.

Only one answer can be obtained.

It's just for you to continue to endure.

You deserve it.

I didn't know I taught people that.

I won't be guilty.

But it doesn't matter.

I just wanted to tell the truth.

Maybe I'm not enlightened yet.

Maybe I can't see that long-term.

I also have a lot of confusion about the teachings of the Dharma.

I've always felt the Dharma now.

After so many years of circulation.

There are a lot of things that the Buddha didn't say.

The current Dharma and the worldly Dharma are opposite in many places.

Use the Dharma to live.

All you can get is the aftermath benefits.

The essence of Buddhism is not to teach people how happy they are to live in the world.

It teaches ultimate liberation.

I don't see any reincarnation.

I can't see karma clearly.

Causally. But I've been thinking about it.

Why some people have a smooth life.

Some people have been rich and prosperous all their lives.

And some people have been miserable all their lives.

Down and out. Could it be that these are all random? Why some people are born with a good life.

We humans can only see the passage from birth to death.

But before birth.

And after death.

I think this can only be answered by Buddhism.

It comes down to a word.

I want to do good deeds alone.

There is always nothing wrong with being kind to others.

At this point.

Leave aside past life cause and effect.

The same is true of the worldly law.

You are good to others.

Others are good to you.

Oh, doesn't that mean I'll just say "no"! It's okay to help out your dark side when bullying you Just because you're good doesn't mean you won't lose your temper! It's good if you and the person who bullied you twice, and they know that you are a good person, not a bully!

If you are a good person ... You've always thought so. Is that right???

Then do you still continue to be a good person? Because maybe you want to change, it's hard for someone of your kind to change.

Besides. Good people are the most attractive... Isn't it?

The most, please distinguish it. Good.

And. Idiot... There is a difference.

I hope you are a good person. I don't want to.

You are a fool ...

Now this society. . . Does anyone dare to hit someone (unless there is some holiday, analyze it yourself and see what the problem is).

If someone hits you again ... Call 110...

Try to change the way you behave and don't be the silent lamb forever. You must know that in this society, people should learn to protect themselves from harm.

Summary. My dear, when you are bullied, don't always be alone and make the most reckless behavior that is not conducive to you, but know how to strengthen yourself silently. After all, no matter which circle you go into, the probability of meeting a villain is basically the same.

Instead of making a fuss and leaving yourself without a foothold, it's better to endure it first.

What should I do if I have been bullied.

My dear, when you are bullied, don't always be alone and make the most reckless behavior that is not conducive to you, but know how to strengthen yourself silently. After all, no matter which circle you go into, the probability of meeting a villain is basically the same. Instead of making a fuss and leaving yourself without a foothold, it's better to endure it first.

When you slowly become stronger, you can leave the annoying people far behind, and let the troubles easily turn the page. Instead of turning your face and getting angry, you should work hard.

If you are bullied, don't have extreme thoughts. Otherwise, it can lead to serious consequences. But don't blindly tolerate it, otherwise others will get an inch and bully yourself even harder. Be confident, keep your sanity, and don't lose your judgment.

If you are bullied by others, you can hit back at him and sneer, thank you, once again let me know that I have shortcomings in this area and need to learn to remedy it.

This way he will think that you are wrong, and he will also think that you are very interesting, and he will look up to you so that he will not bully you.