Being excluded and isolated by colleagues in the company, feeling very depressed, is it a good choic

Resigning and leaving is the next resort, and only impulsive people would do it.

If you really don't want to endure this kind of cold violence in the workplace and don't want to be a marginal person, you can try to change your thinking, figure out why you are excluded, and then prescribe the right medicine, correct your own problems, ignore those that are not your own problems, and just do your best.

On the one hand, if you are isolated, it means that you are still not good enough, not to the point where your colleagues look up to you, and some people are depressed and silent after being isolated, and even affect work and family, which happens to fall into the trap of others, which is a fool's behavior.

In the workplace, ability is king, when you are strong and valuable, and people will reduce their hostility towards you.

If you can't improve your abilities in a short period of time, you have to change your thinking, and you can try to strengthen your heart first. It's normal to be isolated, excluded, sad, frustrated, and lost, but don't indulge in such negative emotions.

It's been too long, you have to understand that there is no hurdle in the world that you can't get over, no one will be isolated for a lifetime, adjust your mentality, work hard, and work hard to make money.

Another way is to ignore the situation of being excluded, do what you should do, if it does not affect the development of the work, you can also not mind this state, then you can choose to ignore this problem. Many times colleagues isolate you in their interactions, and at work, they still dare not do this, if this is the case, it is good to ignore it, after all, we work to make money, not to make friends.

I feel that while it's good to leave your job, it's not necessarily your first choice. Your first choice now is to think carefully about why you are being excluded and isolated by your colleagues.

If it's because of your own shortcomings, it's better to continue working while correcting them, knowing that it's not easy in any workplace.

If it's really their reason, they choose to leave. I always feel that there should be a reason why you are excluded and isolated.

Leaving a job is not the best option. There is no guarantee that you will be excluded by your colleagues in the next unit, so you must first see what you have lacking in everything, and then decide how to get along with your colleagues next. Why do your colleagues exclude you, is it because you sometimes only know that you are in the limelight and do not consider the feelings of your colleagues, or is it that the leader only values you and arouses the jealousy of your colleagues?

You can invite colleagues to eat together, and don't take credit alone, etc., so that you can integrate into the unit as soon as possible. There is a saying that character determines fate, endure the anger for a while, find out who is the leader of the other party, or seize the opportunity to strike, or take him as a friend, is the right way.

I think it's the best option, because you won't get a good deal when you're in this company, and at the same time, a lot of people will isolate you, so you will feel very uncomfortable, so you won't do your job well, so it's better to just leave.

As a newcomer to the workplace, I was excluded from the company as soon as I entered the company: one is that my personality is too weak and always drags other colleagues back; The second is that he is too tough and does not deal with other colleagues, so he is isolated. Both of these conditions are caused by personality reasons.

The best way to improve the situation is to start by changing yourself. Those with weak personalities should start by learning to refuse; If you have a tough personality, you must learn to get along with others. In fact, on a large scale, if you show your superiority excessively, it will become a show, and if you do this to everyone, then everyone will ignore you.

The person who can really chat is that you say a little, I say a little, know how to let the other party talk a little more, let the other party show his superiority, and be a good listener, and give the other party the right to speak and superiority. People with high emotional intelligence will always care about the other person's feelings in communication, and do not damage the superiority of others as an independent individual. The situation targeted by this trick in a timely manner is that the problem lies with the colleague.

If the problem lies with you, you can still correct it, but if the problem is with your colleagues, it will be difficult to change. Therefore, it has become necessary to fight back in a timely manner, and you can't let yourself be isolated by the other party all the time and suffer from "cold violence" in the workplace. Blindly tolerating will only make things more and more serious, and counterattacking is to be able to tell the other party their own principles, which is equivalent to warning the other party that if this continues, they will also use corresponding measures, and there will be no more situations where they can't fight back and scold and don't fight back.

In the workplace, we may not be able to get the highest position like Mr. Huang Bo, but as long as you work hard and have a higher level, you will stay away from bad people. Slowly, your development will get better and better, your circle will become simpler and simpler, and your career path will become smoother and smoother.

Yes, leaving is a good choice, you can't fit in with everyone here, you can't work happily, you are excluded and isolated by your colleagues, and you have to choose to leave.

When you're isolated by a group of people, you first have to be clear about one thing. Even if you are a swan in the flock, you are a "different chicken" in their senses. Do you understand?

It's that you don't blindly look for reasons in yourself, many friends like me were isolated at the beginning, trying to find the reasons in themselves, thinking that they didn't do a good job, so how should you not let yourself bear the consequences because of the mistakes made by others; There are even more people who, due to being isolated for a long time, put too much psychological pressure on themselves, and slowly do not understand communication and become very inferior. Please, face yourself, it's not your fault that this question is wrong, it's your fault that you're a swan, they're a flock. From the moment you step into the flock, you are destined to be lonely, you always need to travel far away, and they will always stop here, the way is not the same, why bother to "reflect".

Second: the strong are destined to be lonely, and not everyone can accompany you to grow up.

You have to know that if you want to figure out your own path, there must be no one who can accompany you all the way. The passers-by on the road of life are flickering and flickering, more or less, and there are very few people who can accompany you to the end. There is no way, this process is called growth, this process will inevitably make you experience a lot of pain, think about your own path, and then look at their isolation from you, and the harm will be much less.

Third: If no one helps, be sure to be your own nobleman.

When I was once more severely isolated, I also thought about putting down my dignity and bowing my head to show goodwill. Thank you very much, this is just thinking about not taking action, not bowing my head, and achieving me to have a more "tenacious" heart in the face of anything in the future. Please also keep in mind that you must not "bow your head" to the person who isolates you, when you are isolated, don't think about relying on anyone, and be a person with a clear conscience when the sky falls, at least you can still retain your dignity.

Face is earned by oneself, and dignity is given by oneself.

It's not a good choice, you should find the reason when you are excluded and isolated by the company at the same time, think about your own problems, and don't always think that it is someone else's problem, it is likely that because you do something really excessive, resulting in the whole company targeting you, if you say that when they deliberately target you, don't be discouraged, don't care about them, do your job well, let your position get higher and higher, and strive to kill them.

1. Accept the facts and be optimistic. First of all, if you are excluded, you will definitely feel uncomfortable. However, we still need to be strong, and we must not be pessimistic and disappointed because we have been excluded. We must dare to face this situation, accept this fact, and have a good attitude.

2. Self-reflection, first find the reason from yourself. It is necessary to understand the reasons for exclusion in a timely manner and not to ignore them. First of all, you are in the company, it is impossible to have no one who can speak, you can learn from him what everyone thinks of you, and reflect on your usual performance.

Secondly, if it is a personal personality problem, you are more withdrawn and love to be alone, if so, then your colleagues will think that you are not very gregarious, and they will naturally alienate you, not really exclude you, but you yourself have isolated yourself. If you want to make a difference, take the initiative to talk to your colleagues more often, smile more, and walk around with your colleagues more (it's not that hard).

3. Be a low-key person. If you feel that you are being excluded, then when you usually do things, try to keep a low profile, don't be arrogant, always think that you are capable, and look down on others.

Fourth, ensure that the work is not affected. No matter what the reason is excluded, don't affect the work, because the work is your own, and you can't quit on impulse because you are excluded, which may be the result that colleagues want.

If you are excluded, you have to work harder, let the leader or boss see your efforts, as long as you don't get fired, and then slowly solve the situation of being excluded, if you lose your job, everything you say is in vain. Of course, if you are capable enough to do your job perfectly without having to look at anyone's face, then you can completely ignore those who exclude you.

First of all, our work is for our own development, in order to survive, so what's the exclusion of colleagues at work, they are neither the people who want to pay your salary, nor do they want to become important people in your life, to put it bluntly, they are just passers-by in our lives, and we can only treat them as if we don't see them, just do our own work.

The second is that in our lives, we are destined to be unable to make all people accept themselves and like themselves, if we run away by ourselves because we are excluded by others in a place and disliked by others, then we are destined to not be able to grow, where we work, we work hard, do not pay too much attention to other people's opinions, and strive to let the leader and the boss see that our efforts are serious, and we who have not done anything wrong, why should we run away from other people's opinions.

Third, the world of adults is complex, people's hearts can not be speculated, not to mention in the workplace, the current social competition is so fierce, everyone for a job can tear their heads to the blood, some people even make bad intentions to exclude some competitors, for us, the development and survival in the society is what we really pursue, as long as we work hard in our own positions, let the leader see, let the boss see, let yourself develop better, those who look down on us, Those who ostracize us will eventually shut themselves up.

Therefore, we do not need to resign, and there is no need to resign, if others bully you, you can also fight back, and the rest of the time, we only need to work hard to develop ourselves, not to mention, a good boss, they may value more than a young man's courage to fight, not afraid of difficulties, so we can't resign so easily.

Moreover, it is difficult for colleagues in the workplace to become friends or confidants, so there is no need to dwell too much, just treat them as passers-by in life.

Yes, this is because if you work in such an environment, you will be very sad, and there is not a lot of room for development, and the relationship between colleagues is not particularly good, so you will be unhappy.

Hello, in this case, there is no point in staying, because you must be unhappy to work in this environment, if you are looking for a job, you still choose to say that the relationship between colleagues is more harmonious, and then it will be more pleasant to do this, and you can do your job better, so it is recommended to change the environment.

There must be a reason for being excluded by the colleagues around you, you must have done something unfavorable to them, so you can ignore your colleagues in this situation, and you can also explain to them why you are excluding yourself.

If you are ostracized by your colleagues, you should not choose to leave your job. You have to think about your career, and you shouldn't let a small group of people affect your entire career.

If you feel very uncomfortable, you should also quit yourself, after all, such a working environment is not conducive to the better development of your career.

When the workplace receives exclusion from colleagues, it is necessary to distinguish between right and wrong, abandon previous suspicions with colleagues in a timely manner, resolve contradictions, and resignation is not the way to solve the problem.

You shouldn't quit your job, the more you encounter such a situation, you should be brave and push back these thoughts, and you shouldn't back down.

You shouldn't quit your job, you just need to be yourself, why care about other people's opinions, being yourself is what makes you successful.

Try if you can change, if you can't, just go, I personally think people don't change.

Let's find out our own problems first, some workplace characters are loners, loners, and Brother Yuye are all buried in the eyes of some people. Often, another celebration class can be found by the leader and give you a high position.