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成事不語遂事不谏已前不咎 (chéng shì bú shuō suí shì bú jiàn jì wǎng bú jiù ).
Don't say it: Everything is a foregone conclusion, so there is no need to say it.
Then the matter is not admonished: there is no need to correct and redeem the matter that is almost over.
The past is not to blame: There is no need to pursue the gains and losses and responsibilities of the past.
If you don't learn poetry, you can't speak: "poetry" refers specifically to the Book of Songs
Literally, it is difficult to communicate with people without learning the Book of Songs.
Confucius. The study of the "Book of Songs" is so important, because the "Book of Songs" in Confucius's mind should be in the status of "knowledge element", such as language skills, cultural knowledge, personal cultivation, etiquette and music education, vertical and horizontal, and governance of the country and the country, all need to start from the foundation of the "Book of Songs". This is probably the original meaning of Confucius's "if you don't learn poetry, you can't speak".
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Don't comment on something that has been done successfully. Don't dissuade you from doing something that goes well. Don't blame those who have already passed.
Past: Meaning of the past. What does it mean to be in the past?
Someone owes me 1,000 yuan, and he has already paid me back, so this matter is called over, and he owes me 10 years and still hasn't paid it back, so this matter can't be counted as over. I used to be very thin, but now you're not skinny. In the past, this kid was trick-or-treating, and now he definitely won't.
Don't say it: everything will be done, not necessarily all success, since it has been done very successfully, why do we have to talk about him.
Do not advise: a thing that can be done without any resistance and is supported by many people is very smooth, so why dissuade it. One thing depends on whether he is a good thing, and it depends on whether he does it smoothly.
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When Zi heard it, he said: "Don't say what happened, don't admonish it, and don't blame the past." ”
When Confucius heard this, he said, "There is no need to mention what has already been done, there is no need to dissuade what has already been done, and there is no need to pursue what has already passed." ”
Original text] Mourning Gong asked the society to slaughter me, and slaughtered me and said: "The Xia Hou clan is pine, the Yin people are cypress, and the Zhou people are chestnut, saying: Make the people tremble." When Zi heard it, he said: "Don't say what happened, don't admonish it, and don't blame the past." ”
Notes] 1) She: The god of the land, the temple that worships the god of the earth is also called the shrine.
2) Zai Me: Mingyu, Zizi I, a student of Confucius.
3) Trembling: fear, trembling.
It makes the common people tremble. When Confucius heard this, he said, "There is no need to mention what has already been done, there is no need to dissuade what has already been done, and there is no need to pursue what has already passed." ”
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Here's why:
The truth implicit in these words is: to look to the future, to be open-minded, calm, and tolerant.
Not saying what has been done means that what has been done does not need to be explained. Failure to admonish means that what has been done should not be persuaded again, and not to blame the past means that the mistakes made in the past are not investigated.
These three words are different on the surface, but in fact, they are all talking about some basic life principles, talking about some methods and attitudes for dealing with the world, and strive to be open-minded, so as to understand life.
"Don't say what happened, don't admonish it, and don't blame the past" characteristics:
Original text] Mourning Gong asked the society to slaughter me, and slaughtered me and said: "The Xia Hou clan is pine, the Yin people are cypress, and the Zhou people are chestnut, saying: Make the people tremble." When Zi heard it, he said: "Don't say what happened, don't admonish it, and don't blame the past." ”
Solution: Lu Aigong asked me what kind of wood should be used to be the god of the land, and slaughtered me: "Pine trees were used in the Xia Dynasty, cypress trees were used in the Shang Dynasty, and chestnut trees were used in the Zhou Dynasty.
The meaning of the chestnut tree is: to make the common people tremble. When Confucius heard this, he said
There is no need to mention what has already been done, there is no need to advise what has been done, and there is no need to pursue what has already passed. ”
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Mourning Gong asked the society to slaughter me, and slaughtered me and said: "The Xia Hou clan is pine, the Yin people are cypress, and the Zhou people are chestnut, and the people are said to tremble." When Zi heard it, he said: "Don't say what happened, don't admonish it, and don't blame the past." ”
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It is inconvenient to explain what has been done, it is inconvenient to save what has been done, and it is inconvenient to pursue what has already passed.
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Confucius said, "It is inconvenient to explain what has been done, it is inconvenient to save what has been done, and do not advise what is being done, and it is inconvenient to pursue what has already passed." ”
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Do not blame the past: "Don't say what happened, don't admonish it, don't blame the past." ”
Explanation: It is inconvenient to explain what has been done, it is inconvenient to save what has been done, and it is inconvenient to pursue what has already passed.
From the Analects
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Don't advise: Don't stop what is going on.
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Good! The management committee v played indian dance, and I Hu Hansan is still a story synopsis, playing gg Xu's brother, the number of households, Shang Hyuk said.
You can say it euphemistically, don't say it so bluntly, but also determine the appropriate statement according to the other party's ability to understand, if the other party pretends to be confused, then it is a polite refusal, and you will not lose face.