What should I do if I am afraid of refusing to say something, and I am afraid of regret if I don t s

You can say it euphemistically, don't say it so bluntly, but also determine the appropriate statement according to the other party's ability to understand, if the other party pretends to be confused, then it is a polite refusal, and you will not lose face.

Then speak up.

After all, if you say it, you will not necessarily be rejected, and there is still a 50% chance of acceptance.

And it's not terrible to refuse, it's terrible to leave regrets. After all, you can't do it all over again if you leave regrets.

So in order not to leave regrets, in order not to regret yourself later, it is better to say it.

There are some things that you are afraid of refusal, and you regret not saying them, so you have to muster up the courage to say them boldly. Don't be afraid of rejection, go for everything, no matter the outcome, so you don't allow yourself to have regrets.

Whether it's feelings, or something else, say it, you will have half the chance, sometimes the probability will be high, the other party may be waiting for you to take the initiative to say it, even if it is a refusal, at least you know a clear answer. If you don't talk about it, you may miss it in a daze, and maybe it will be a knot for a long time.

Then be brave. Accept the function calmly. Failure can also come naturally.

Then it's better to say it and leave no regrets.

Pay attention to an artistry, and it is not too embarrassing to express it, and the subtlety of language expression lies in this

Then you think for yourself about rejection or regret, which is more serious, and you will know what to do.

When you suppressed your feelings, now you have the opportunity to release them, and you want to complete the unfulfilled wishes of the year, but time has passed, and you are no longer the same as you were back then. There are two ways to solve it, one is to break it off, stop contacting him, and get along with your current boyfriend well; The second is to decisively break up with the current one and confess to him. I don't recommend the second type, women looking for men are not looking for what they like, the second is to find the kind of responsible, loving and caring for themselves, if your boyfriend meets this standard, I think he is a very good man, worthy of your love for him, but now being in Cao Ying's heart in Han is extremely irresponsible to yourself and your boyfriend.

You should be bold in your confession, otherwise you will regret your life and miss the best time and encounter.

The crush will be sick, or say it, maybe there is still a chance.

Confessing early, even if friends can't do it, is better than having a crush.

It's not interesting to be afraid of wolves and tigers, so it's better to tell each other boldly

You can be happy and sincere, pursue her generously, love and be loved are a kind of happiness, you don't take the initiative to communicate, how can others know that you like her, so you have to be brave to confess, in order to achieve success.

I'm afraid of losing, so I don't choose, I don't choose, let you choose, and blame you for the wrong choice. Because he is my baby, I can't lose my baby. The Lord of the Rings, the Lord of the Rings, my darling, I'm willing to jump off the lava to get you in order to get you.

I feel like it's better to tell her not to regret it, to regret it, and if you tell it, wouldn't it be better if the two of you are together, and if the two of you don't make it, it doesn't matter, because I have fought for it before.

If it's a woman, it will be stabbed directly, and it will be better to confess directly, and cut through the mess with a quick knife

Don't leave regrets for yourself, dare to love and hate, there must be someone who confesses first, be yourself, and have no regrets.

Confession! Crushes are painful, don't torture yourself.

Confess directly, accept it, communicate, and give up if you don't accept it.

If each other's conditions allow, and you can be sure of yourself. I suggest you take a step forward.

I'm the same way, I can't help it.

If you have been moved by a person before, as long as you know, you can't say it, but you still have a little regret in your heart, of course, you like someone, it's a pity not to say it, after all, it's all gone, it's no longer there, don't regret it, cherish the present!

Then you should ask that person quickly to see if there is any hope, and if not, you will die.

Friends, let's be brave, call out what is in our hearts, no matter what the outcome is, don't leave yourself with regrets!

If you have regrets, you can find an opportunity to say them in the future.

It takes a certain amount of courage to say it. If you're prepared, what's the point of speaking up. If you say it, you won't have regrets, don't say it, one day, you will hold yourself out of internal injuries, and regrets will be 100% left.

Vindicate. As you said yourself, it might be a shame not to say it. If you say it, you still have a chance, and if you don't say it, you won't have a chance! Don't you dare to confess when you're such an adult? Is it so frustrating?

Some words may only be harmful, that is to say, it may not hurt, but if you don't say it, you will leave regrets, and if you are brave enough to love, you have to confess.

Then don't say it, even if you regret it, regret can be self-encouraged, and the damage is not easy to make up.

To confess, May 4th, September 10th, April 16th, the best day of the three days can be confessed.

This requires your skill, find a suitable opportunity to confess, and you need to find a good environment, and you have a chance when the other party is in a good mood.

There is only one chance in life, say it, you can let go, you will not hurt anyone, not to say, it will only make you regret it later.

Love doesn't have to be spoken, silent actions can be expressed by the other party, isn't it?!

Since you love her, don't hurt her, bless her silently, and find the one who belongs to you.

If you love, speak up and don't leave yourself with regrets.

You have to say it, don't hold it in your heart.

If you like it, you have to face it bravely, don't wait until you lose it before you want to chase it, then it's too late.

How do you know if it's love or hurt if you don't try? Don't let yourself regret it for the rest of your life.

Your emotional intelligence is too low, look at your eyes, expressions, and action analysis, you will know if it is interesting to you? Isn't it embarrassing to confess if you don't have the meaning? Interesting, you don't need to confess, and it will come naturally.

Try it and find out! No regrets!

When you are hesitant to do something, firmly don't do it.

When I say it, I don't have a burden in my heart, and sometimes I have to have it in my life, and I don't want it in my life.

Don't say it, keep that little bit of beauty in your heart, it's that you can't run away, it's not that you can't ask for it.

Don't say it, at least you can live a lifetime, albeit at the level of friends!

Say it, and even if you don't say yes, you won't regret it, because you've tried.

Friendship lasts longer than love, but you can try it if the other party has no partner, how can you know the result if you don't do it!

It is your business to confess or not, it is someone else's business to accept or not, it is up to people to make things happen, and it is up to heaven to make things happen! It's best to leave no regrets!

Say, don't give each other regrets.

Say it. Don't ask about the future, but ask for the end without regrets.

Say it out loud and love out loud.

In fact, it is normal to quarrel in love, let alone a girl's temper, don't rush to amplify it first. As a person (boy) who has been in a long-distance relationship for three years, I still have some experience First of all, when I realize that the frequency of incompatibility is too high and affects my happiness, it is necessary for the two to talk. At this time, you must let go of complaining and communicate your true thoughts to each other, if you don't just want to have fun, don't hide and be embarrassed.

Maybe the other party does not have the intention of communicating at the beginning, then it is necessary to sincerely create an atmosphere of communication, he will be moved to participate in the process, do not shirk each other's responsibilities, each should reflect on it, and after forming a general unified idea, the real problem will slowly emerge. At this time, you can basically understand the other party's mind, you can start to think about how much you want to improve, how much you can change for the other party, don't be arrogant and emotional, "I have changed everything", do what you can, it is not easy for a person to change his heart. After making up your mind, write it down, and remember that it is written down and not spoken, writing is much more influential on people than speaking, not to set up evidence, but just a binding force on yourself.

Finally, it is recommended not to speculate on the other party's feelings for you, hurt others and yourself. It is strongly recommended not to keep using values as a reason for not cooperating, once this thing is formed subconscious, the consequences will be serious. Learning to accommodate change is an inevitable process to achieve long-term relationships.

Of course, if this process is too long and there is no hope, scatter your own happiness. I wish you happiness if you don't have any regrets.

I suggest you go for a walk every day, keep a good attitude, trust your boyfriend a little more, and give yourself a little more confidence. The reason why you are doing this is that you are not confident and insecure about yourself, and you are worried that your boyfriend will break up with you. So what you have to do is give yourself a little more self-confidence and make yourself better.

You can try to change your personality, or you will break up.

Hello, according to your question, I feel that you can only say it without regrets.

Sincerely answer for you, I hope to adopt.

You just think that he will not succeed, and be brave to confess, don't think that he will succeed, it means that you care too much, so you will not dare to confess for fear of failure. You will only know the result if you have tried, and you will not regret it in the future if you have tried.

I think the most important thing to do is to look at your own character, if it is an extroverted boy who is not so shy to express himself will be generous, some may confess to the girl in person, if it is a slightly more introverted boy, the first time to confess to a girl is very shy, may not dare to confess to the girl in person, maybe will use the way of writing letters. I think if I like it in my heart, I should say it out loud, and if I don't let the other person know, I have it in my heart. It's hard to feel aggrieved.

If you don't say it, you will definitely regret it, so compare it to courage, and then ask her out to tell her what you want to say.

Instead of simulating countless exercises in your heart, it is better to express it bravely, let go and love once, just do it, if it doesn't work, just pull it down.

This is the sweet words that a boy said, it will always be the past, and irresponsible love must establish a good relationship, so that there can be a real development. If the person you like is like Guan Guan to Dr. Zhao in Ode to Joy, and someone has a girlfriend, then it is better to keep it in your heart silently, because confession is useless! You also have to measure the gap between yourself and the person you like, including all aspects, personality and hobbies.

In fact, if you usually have a lot of contact with her, she can guess that you have a good impression of her, and if you think she doesn't hate you either, you can confess along the way.

It shows that you think about this relationship very clearly, you understand what you want, and these are what he can't give you, some things are said, there is not so much pressure, so relax, since you have given up this relationship, and think about it clearly, just pick him up and say that it is impossible, give him an answer, since you don't love him anymore, let him go, let others have the opportunity to love him, don't drag the mud and water, it's better to be decisive.

Now that you've decided, be firm. If you feel relaxed and relieved, it means that your decision is right, and make it clear to him directly and decisively, so that he should stop bothering you.

What two people need to be together is tolerance and understanding, first of all, you must know very clearly why you want to be with him and why you broke up, or that there is no way to solve the conflict between two people except to break up? Besides, it's not whether he loves you or not, it's whether you love him or not! I believe that no matter what happens to you now, you must have been happy.

Have a good talk with him and tell all your thoughts, such as what kind of life you want, what kind of husband you want to marry, etc.!

If you don't want to be together, don't connect. When it is broken, it is broken.

It's divided, why bother entanglement, live a chic life.

Regret is lifelong, and if you say it, at least you have tried.