The biggest misunderstanding of loved ones is that they want the other person to take their negative

Yes, everyone is like this, they will vent their emotions in front of their closest people and be their truest self, this kind of thinking is not right, it will hurt the people closest to them.

The biggest misunderstanding of relatives is that they hope that the other party should bear their negative emotions as a matter of course, and they hope that their relatives will understand in the face of their own unhappiness. I hope that my loved ones will bear these unhappy things with me.

Wrong. When we work and socialize outside, we often show our best, even if we are dissatisfied, we will greet each other with a smile, and leave our worst emotions to the people closest to us, so that the family is not in harmony and the chickens and dogs are restless. In fact, loved ones are not the trash can of our bad moods, and they can't bear it.

Therefore, regulate your emotions appropriately and not always find relatives to vent.

Although this is a phenomenon, it is not a normal situation and there should be a better understanding between loved ones.

That's right. Loved ones are the closest people in the world to you, and we often give the good side to outsiders and let our loved ones suffer our bad side.

After being misunderstood by others, I have du shizhi

Release, because the person you are targeting is inconsistent.

The more you explain, the worse it gets, silence is the best solution, but there are people you can explain to him to achieve twice the result with half the effort.

There is a person in our dormitory who doesn't listen to other people's explanationsSometimes the people in our dormitory often had a problem with him, because he also has some problems of his ownWhen we bring it up in good faith, he will think that we are targeting him maliciouslyThen he will say some very vicious things to maintain his so-called self-esteemAnd then when we explained, they still didn't listen, will continue to scold us, so over time, we will not communicate with him after that, and we don't bother to argue with him when we encounter things, so his popularity in our dormitory has become worse and worse, this kind of pretentious person, the more you explain to him, the more energetic he becomes, he thinks that he is right, and what others say is wrong.

I think I'm the kind of person who can listen to other people's explanations, not boasting, sometimes when others express their opinions, I often interject, but when I say something wrong, they will remind me, which is the so-called explanation, and then I will listen patiently, and finally judge what is right or wrong, and if it is wrong, I will apologize to them.

So after being misunderstood by others, first think about the person's character, whether it is useful for you to explain to him, if the explanation is useless, he will not listen to you when you tell him a lot, wasting his tongue.

Explanations are not disguises.

If you are misunderstood, if you don't explain, then you may continue to misunderstand, and then if you give it to her, you will have a bad impact, since you are not wrong, why not explain? After the explanation, everything will be revealed.

First of all, you need to figure out the reason, see how the misunderstanding happened, why others would misunderstand you, find the reason, and you can try to resolve it. When a misunderstanding occurs, you must maintain a peaceful mind, as long as your heart is clear, confidence will return your innocence sooner or later, this is very important, do not be rash, so as not to misunderstand more and more If you can, it is best to take the initiative to communicate, explain the ins and outs of the matter clearly, I believe that the vast majority of people are not confused, if it is really a misunderstanding, it will often be resolved. If you don't think it's appropriate, you can ask a friend to help you explain it to the other person, and as long as the words are spoken, the other party will definitely reflect on the original idea.

If you can't find a good solution for a while, the other party is on the fire, don't worry, you can let it go, and it's not too late to resolve it when the time is ripe. Regardless of whether it is resolved or not, we must still treat each other with sincerity, as the saying goes: see people's hearts over time.

After a long time, others will definitely know what you are. 1.No matter what happens, the first thing to think about is whether you have done something wrong.

If you're right (which is impossible), then put yourself in the other person's shoes and experience what the other person feels.

2.Allow yourself to adapt to the environment, because the environment will never come to suit you. Even if it's a very, very painful process.

3.Be generous. If you don't want to be generous, you will learn to be generous. If generosity really makes you feel distressed, pretend to be generous.

4.Be low-key, low-key, low-key (more low-key than a temporary worker, maybe in the eyes of others you are not as good as a temporary worker who has been working for a few years).

5.Be sweet in your mouth, and don't be stingy with your cheers. (Will compliment people.) A good compliment will make people feel pleasant, but don't go overboard to the point of being off-putting. ）

6.If you think you've been working hard lately, you need to be careful.

7.Courteous. Look the other person in the eye when greeting. Communicate with the older people by the name of the elders, because you are the little ones who are out-and-out juniors.

8.Few words and many deeds. If you talk too much, you will lose, and when there are many people, you will talk less.

9.Don't take the good of others for granted, and know how to be grateful.

10.Hands high and eyes low.

11.Keep the time, but don't expect others to do the same.

12.Keep your promises, but don't make promises. And don't keep in mind the promises made to you by others and believe them.

13.Don't borrow money from a colleague, and if you do, then make sure you pay it back on time.

14.Don't lend money to a colleague, if you have to, give it to him.

15.Don't shirk responsibility (even if it's someone else's. Bear it once in a while and you'll die? ）。

16.Don't speak ill of another colleague behind the back of one colleague. Insist on saying good things about others behind your back, and don't worry that the good words won't reach the ears of the person concerned. If someone says something bad about someone in front of you, you have to smile.

17.Avoid public confrontation with colleagues (including openly raising objections, and even more so violently).

18.Always help others, but don't take the person being helped for granted.

19.Truth be told, it will get you out of luck.

When I am misunderstood, I will choose to explain. And it will be explained at the first time. Because it is very uncomfortable to be misunderstood, and if you don't explain, the misunderstanding will get deeper and deeper, and it may delay the relationship between the two people.

So much so that in the end it became a kind of grudge. Therefore, if you are misunderstood, you must explain it.

For this question, for myself, I will definitely go and explain. Whether it works or not, I'll definitely explain it. Because the words don't make sense and don't express the right meaning, that's my own problem, so of course it's up to me to remedy it.

As for the outcome, that's not what I have to think about, the other party can understand, it means that he accepts my remedy. If I don't understand, then I've made my attitude clear.

Many times, it is easy for us to misunderstand a person, because we only see one side of the scene, and we rely on our own imagination to speculate on others with the greatest malice. Just as Lao Wu saw a news article before, it said that a girl was sexually harassed, but because the article was accompanied by a picture of a scantily clad woman, a large number of netizens accused the victim girl of misbehaving, but in fact, the picture was just found casually from the Internet, not the person concerned. How many people misunderstand a person for no reason because of what they "saw with their own eyes", especially in intimate relationships, so that they haunt it and even hold a grudge from then on.

Therefore, do not easily criticize others, because we do not have enough wisdom to know the joys and sorrows of other people's lives, and we cannot truly understand the ups and downs of others. Because of each person's position and environment, it is difficult to understand each other's feelings. As the saying goes, it is difficult to know people, and it is even more difficult to know each other.

Everything should be understood and discerned from all angles up and down, left and right, front and back, and our subjective understanding and observation is only one thousandth of the truth, and judging from a single angle cannot achieve all-round observation. In life, if there is a misunderstanding caused by some simple reasons, we can explain it clearly. For example, misunderstandings caused by lack of communication and exchanges, or misunderstandings caused by other people's unintentional words, or misunderstandings caused by wrong practices, etc.

These misunderstandings are very easy to dispel, especially if the person who misunderstands you is someone who is more important to you, then you should explain it clearly to avoid a rift in the relationship. At this time, as long as the facts are laid out, they are clearly stated in person, and the apologies that should be apologized are basically over. If you are embarrassed, you can ask a friend to help explain, or in other ways, express the words that are difficult to say in person through other methods, and the misunderstanding will naturally be eliminated.

There are also some misunderstandings that need to be explained clearly if they will lead to very serious consequences, such as affecting the lives of others, or affecting the emergency safety and stability of society. Just as the nuclear leakage in Japan back then, some people said that salt could prevent radiation, which would cause rumors, causing the whole people to buy salt and grab salt, endangering social and economic security; Looking further, there are rumors caused by a misunderstanding some time ago that "the meat floss in the meat floss cake is made of cotton", which caused some irrational netizens to smash the store that sold the meat floss cake, causing economic losses to some innocent people. We have to explain rumors like this that endanger other people's socio-economic security.

So, if you can, explain it, it's best.

Hatred is mutual, this sentence means that if you hate a person, then this person feels your hatred, and he will also hate you, so that the two of you are easy to be at the level of hostility forever, so we should be more polite in dealing with people, don't be careful, open our minds, be more tolerant and understanding, take a step back and open the sky, and let three points be so idle.

Hatred arises when someone else hurts them, or takes away what they want and like. Hatred is a very dangerous psychological state, because with hatred, there will be a psychology of revenge and hatred.

Hatred is mutual. Because one party can't do what he is doing, he has also taken some measures to deal with it. And then slowly hatred arises. It is a serious deterioration of the relationship between the two houses.

Hatred is a strong and long-standing emotion. People who are trapped in hatred are actually more painful than those who are hated, because hatred itself is a process of deepening the damage that has been formed in the past over and over again in the brain. In the process of hatred, people experience negative emotions all the time, and whenever and wherever they think of hate, they are painful.

A little broad-mindedness can reduce hatred, because hatred is not a good thing, and living with hatred is also a very painful thing, and hatred and revenge will never end one day, unless one of them no longer cares. Think about it, wouldn't it be happier to give up hatred?

Yesterday was the closest loved one, today may be the most hurt**, and often the deepest and most unbearable hurt. Because we put too much thought into it, hoping that the other party will give back the same amount; And when too many extravagant hopes cannot be realized, the ensuing damage will be greater. It is undeniable that this kind of giving is actually a kind of love, but it is a kind of persistent and ignorant love; The reward for this lack of wisdom is often negative. ‍‍

People live for the sake of living, and they live for the sake of care. If there is no hatred at this time, then this world will be a paradise on earth, a peaceful heaven and earth. The effect of force is definitely reciprocal, and those who have studied physics in junior high school will know how to answer this question.

Hatred can be the result of one-sided jealousy. Of course, the open hatred is certainly mutual. It depends.

In the face of hatred, psychologically, we must first break this negative psychological cycle and stop the deepening of hatred. Otherwise, people will never be able to get out of this mental circle, and will lead to serious consequences such as depression and even suicide because of this negative emotion.

Hate is one's inability to let go of the person or thing you hate.

Many people think that the opposite of love is "hate".

Not really. The opposite of love is "indifference".

Hatred shows that you are not apathetic.

Haven't put it down yet.

There are many things that have been misunderstood in life, and I will come out and explain them to them, and if they don't listen, I will prove it to them with facts and actions.

Hello, lovely knowing friend.

Let all your worries go away with the wind.

The best way to do it.

It is to clear up the misunderstanding.

Don't take it alone.

Wishing you a life of Pepsi.

May you be happy and happy every day.