I am miserable by the misunderstandings of others, especially my loved ones. How to deal with it?

Communication is the most basic element of being human, unless you don't plan to live in human society.

So you have to prove that what you do is actually conventional, that you use words and act casually, and that this is not to lower your personality, but to tell people that you are like them.

In addition, the increase in the cost of communication is not conducive to your development and growth, you must face up to this reality, you will pay a great price if you don't know how to communicate, and Saddam Hussein in Iraq is so unlucky.

I've had similar experiences, and some generation gaps can never be bridged, so let time dilute everything. The best way to divert one's attention is to practice one's eloquence by the way, so that in the future it will be possible to refute them and convince them and leave them speechless. But it's best not to show your face, and it's always yourself who suffers from confrontation and hostility.

But maybe you still lack an open-minded heart to tolerate others.

Since it's a misunderstanding, let's reconcile, and if you persist like that, neither you nor your loved ones will be happy. Explaining to your loved ones is not giving up your self-esteem, but just letting both parties understand each other and believe that they also wish you well. If it is caused by the generation gap and different concepts, then let time dilute everything and temporarily divert your attention, but don't give up, you still have to fight for the opportunity.

So you have to prove that your own approach is actually conventional, using words and acting casually, but telling others that you are the same as them, and the increase in the cost of communication is not conducive to your development and growth, you must face up to this reality, if you don't know how to communicate, you will pay a great price, Iraq's Saddam Hussein is so unlucky, this is not to lower your personality.

The pressure on the alternative is so great that you may not have to bear it at all, and communication is the most basic element of being a human being, unless you don't plan to live in human society.

This may be the reason why you have a bad impression of them before, so in the mind you think you are bad ... So it's easy to misunderstand you ...

If that's not very important, then forget it, don't dwell on them anymore, time will tell, you can show them ...

But if it is a matter of great importance, then you have to explain it to them and prove your innocence with all your testimony ...

Time will tell. The one who purifies himself ...

You have to be anxious to explain to this relative, this is not good, they will think that you are weak-hearted, you are a little more relaxed, since it is a relative, and it is a misunderstanding, sooner or later the truth will be revealed, if you are really uncomfortable, you can tell other relatives about your grievances

Answer with a cheerful mind, don't be pretentious, don't be angry, don't ask the teacher for sin, and don't think of the other party very badly. Second, we must grasp reason, do not seek provocation and revenge, and be open-minded and easy to be understood; Narrow-mindedness is difficult to understand. Third, we must have a bearing, and have a smile on Lianyun, "laugh when you open your mouth, laugh at the past and laugh at the present, and laugh at everything; The big belly can tolerate, the sky and the earth, and what is not tolerated by people.

Fourth, we must have a sincere attitude, if the "mistake" is in ourselves, sincerely apologize to the other party; "Mistakenly" on the other party, don't "ignore and don't let people"; "Mistaken" in a third party, eliminate interference. Fifth, it is necessary to strengthen self-cultivation, hold a modest, friendly and enthusiastic attitude towards making friends, and avoid misunderstandings. Sixth, to pay attention to the method, if the other party is straightforward, you can "go straight in" and explain to him; If the other person is introverted, you should put a little more thought into it to avoid misunderstandings.

You can write to them and tell them what happened.

Of course, you can also wait for yourself or them to calm down.

Say in advance that you want to talk about it calmly.

Don't get excited. If it's uncomfortable.

You can go to a higher place.

Tearful situation.

The night view is very beautiful.