Tell me what do you think is the biggest misconception people have about leftover women?

You can't get married when you're old, it's not like that.

People think that leftover women live very poorly, but the reality is that they are very comfortable, without the moral kidnapping of their husbands, children, parents-in-law and a large number of relatives of their husbands' families, and their lives are like fairies.

Not being able to marry is a shame (which is considered in many places).

Love can be met but not sought, and marriage and childbirth are not a necessity for life, the world likes the group effect, but the strong rejection reaction is also a bit excessive, a meaningful life is not nothing to look for, let alone find other people's idle things, China's biggest problem is the lack of respect between relatives in family life, and how much respect is there for the closeness between strangers?Familiarity has been replaced by hypocrisy, whether you have good intentions depends on whether the result really makes the other party not harmed!

Thought they wanted to have children.

A large proportion of older women are selfish, can't cook, don't want to do housework, this is unwilling, that is not happy, just want to do everything has to be borne by this man, everything only needs men unilaterally to tolerate, to bear.

Most people think that older leftover women can't get married, no one wants them, in fact, there are many unmarried among them.

I think this kind of girl must be very picky when looking for a partner, and the requirements are too high.

I feel that the material requirements of the old leftover women are very high, and it is difficult to meet them if the economic conditions are not good, so I am left, and I can bring you a green hat anytime and anywhere.

thinks that the leftover women after the age of 28 are all left over for people to play with, and they don't want to get rid of them, so if you marry such a woman, it is equivalent to paying for her ex-boyfriends.

There is no way to change what she thinks is right, only what she thinks is right is right, and what others are wrong;She only wants men to change for her, not for men.

Everything is innocent, wishful thinking, asking men to do this and that, and calculating very clearly everywhere, how to take the first step, how to take the second step, are all under her control. On the contrary, indecisiveness is also terrible, and it is difficult to establish a relationship with such a woman, especially when it comes to marriage.

Older women have generally been in love once or even several times, and have become veterans in the love field, facing a new suitor, they will always consciously or unconsciously compare with the previous man, what appearance, income, what house to live in, what car to drive, etc., a little unsatisfactory, it will completely extinguish your hope.

Women turn their faces faster than books, they are together today, and they pretend that they don't know you again the next day. The appearance is indifferent, the heart is bitter, and there are inconsistencies on the outside. Anyway, women's things are not trustworthy.

If you are a man, you can definitely find a younger one, because young girls are easier to get along with, easier to get their peace of mind, and it is much more difficult to get married and have children more smoothly than the remaining girls after the age of 28.

The reality is terrible: the reality is so hard that it is difficult to breathe, the house, the car, the appearance, the ticket, etc., etc., must unambiguously meet the other party's requirements, the initial contact feels wrong, and the legs run faster than a rabbit.

Some girls are too childlike and like to live a free and easy life, so one accidentally left herself, not because they were picky, but because they didn't want to get married at all, because of this reason, the remaining girls accounted for a small percentage.

Personality reasons. Some girls' personalities are really not very good, they are spoiled by their parents at home like princesses, they think the whole world is your mother when they go out, they want to be taken care of everywhere, they are strong everywhere, and they don't know how to respect others at the most basic level. Personality reasons are left with girls accounting for the vast majority.

High vision. If you want to marry a good man, there is nothing wrong with it, just like every man wants to marry a young and beautiful man, which is understandable. However, some girls have an unrealistic vision and want to marry Prince Charming, and there can be several Prince Charming, and Prince Charming may not be able to take a fancy to you.

It's too good. The three words to describe a girl's excellence are Bai Fumei. The white finger is actually temperament and cultivation, elegant temperament, and high cultivation.

Rich refers to good economic conditions and good work. Beauty refers to the appearance of beauty. This type of girl is indeed too good, so that many men are afraid to climb high.

Although women don't have to worry about getting married, girls still have to seize the opportunity to let themselves have a good home at their best age. Here, I would like to give my advice. The general rule is that after graduating from college, the sooner a girl gets married, the better.

A woman's biggest capital is young, the younger the woman, the more objects to choose from, men often make more concessions in the face of young women, which will allow you to gain a greater voice and actual family status in the future marriage, which can lay a solid foundation for a happy life in the future.

Let's cut to the chase, how to choose a marriage partner.

1.Be in good health without any disability. If you are not healthy, you will not consider it, which is responsible for yourself and the next generation.

2.Have a higher education, or at least a university graduate. Cultured families tend to be more democratic, with few or no family conflicts.

3.Have a stable job. Before marriage is romance, after marriage is firewood, rice, oil and salt. Remember the saying, in married life, money is happiness.

4.Be responsible. A good man, if he doesn't have a sense of responsibility, is no better. A bad man, if he is responsible, he is not much worse. It's up to the girls to observe for themselves.

5.The man himself is very capable, or his family is very powerful. Just choose one of the two.

6.Loved small children. Believe me, a man who treats any child gently is definitely a model husband.

7.No bad habits. For example, if there are three pornography, gambling and drugs, one of them will be passed directly.

There are many older leftover women who become older leftover women because they hold the idea that there are more men and fewer women (anyway, there are more men who don't have to worry about getting married). They ignore a very important issue, that is, the 'quality' of men, how many of the so many men in China are your standard? Are you married if you are poor and can't open the pot?

Do you want to vomit when you look at it? Are you married to violent tendencies? Are you married if you are sick?

Are you married in a remote area? ......And much more! Once you throw this part of the men away, how much is left?

I'm afraid that the ratio of men to women at this time is not 10:8, but 1:8 or even less!

It's not you who chooses a man, it's a man who chooses you! It's much cooler than you, why do you choose you if you have the conditions? Fresh meals are not eaten to eat leftovers?

Wake up!

All ask questions to solve Xu Zi understands that he should do thinking, personality differences decide that the same sex is suitable for me, Xu and suitable for me is important, I really want to maintain a relationship, I am serious.

True friends talk about contacting him for a long time.

I sincerely hope that it will be exchanged for affirmation.

Nowadays, many girls have their own ideas in love, and they are unwilling to fall in love for the sake of falling in love, so they will not be in love when they are older, which leads to the saying of leftover women. Actually, in my opinion, this is a very normal thing, after all, love does not come just by thinking, and leftover women just have a clearer attitude towards love.

In the eyes of many people, people always want to get married and have children, and if they don't follow such steps, they don't meet the regulations, especially if older girls don't fall in love and get married, they are outliers. However, women's thinking has changed a lot now, they are unwilling to compromise in the face of love, and they are unwilling to find someone they don't love to live with, so it is better to live alone.

In the eyes of some women, what they want to meet is a pure love, and two people like each other, so that they will be happy. If they find someone to marry casually, this is not only irresponsible to themselves, but also irresponsible to the other party, they hope to meet the right person to get married and have children. For girls, they like romance and hope to meet the right person, so that they will feel very happy, otherwise they will think that they are suffering.

Today's girls are not like in the past, many times they still need to rely on each other or family, they have been educated to have their own ideas, and they have their own opinions on love, so they will not easily listen to other people's ideas. In the eyes of such a girl, if you don't meet the right person, you can choose to live alone, you can support yourself, and you can also live a colorful life.

In fact, the appearance of leftover women now is because they haven't met the right person, which is understandable, and you can't force the other party to be a good person you don't love. We should maintain our attitude in love and not become an accessory to anyone, so that we can be truly happy.

Because there are many girls who have not found a suitable other half for themselves after the age of 30, many people will call such girls leftover girls.

It's just some malicious ridicule from people, a kind of contempt for some older unmarried women.

This is because there are many women who have high standards for everything, and there are some women who do not have the right concept of feelings, or they do not believe in love and marriage, so there are leftover women.

Leftover women refer to women who are old and unmarried, because their existence does not conform to people's traditional thinking of "men should be filial piety and women should be married", so people will look at them differently, but with the development of the times, people are more and more self-conscious, and people will gradually change their views.

However, the reproduction of human beings also depends on the combination of young men and women, and entering into marriage to have children not only meets the physiological needs of people, but also the needs of the development of human society.