It s high school. If you don t want to make friends, how can you refuse tactfully?

Updated on society 2024-08-13
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    It's all about fate. When you go through the high school days, when you enter the university, looking back on this period is often not only the tension and pain of high school study, but also the memories that make you smile. I hope that whenever you recall this, you will smile more than you will sigh when you remember those hard days.

    That way you'll feel happier. I also went through high school, and I always feel happy when I look back. It was a really hard time in high school.

    Just don't regret yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    To be honest, after reading what you wrote, I think it's so complicated. You don't like deep friends, it's okay. But from a girl's point of view, I think that since people will like you, it means that you are very attractive in a certain way. But if you don't want to have a deep relationship with her, then you can only destroy.

    Your own image, for example, say to her, "I'll tell you, my girlfriends are a lot," or play with a lot of girls after class, if you can't do it, you mobilize the more righteous girls around you, and take the girl who wants to "go all the way" with you in the name of dating, and snub the girl who wants to "go all the way" with you along the way. No matter how stupid you are, you can see that you don't care about her, and she will retreat.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    You and I have a bit of a similar personality

    I think it's okay, I don't like to make friends with others, so let's talk less, go to the toilet to eat, it's easy to refuse, as for the usual words, well......You don't have to reject people thousands of miles away, if it's too special, you will also be gossiped about by others, saying that you are high.

    It would be nice to be quiet. When others talk to you, try to say "um" when they are annoying.

    And the trivial things that are usually regarded as some essential memories every day.

    High school is still wonderful. It's good to keep a low profile.

    Hope you'll be better

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Study hard, read every day, and read more famous books.

    Allow your mind to mature.

    If you don't want to make friends, try to avoid them.

    If there is one that is tightly entangled, deliberately pretend to be rusty.

    But I think you'd better make some friends.

    You can't do it without friends.

    Hee-hee......

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Oh my word, I'm speechless to you - I just want a lot of friends to play together, crazy, very happy, alone, very lonely, but my elementary school, junior high school, and high school are basically staring at one or two good friends to play, and a large group of people play a little yearning.

    If you really want to refuse, then usually when they come to talk or play with you after class, you say you don't go, do your homework or something, and slowly they won't bother you, but this will be isolated.

    I'm most afraid of a person, I hope you get the best results

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    As long as you don't care, as long as you can get along with your classmates indifferently, there won't be the situation you said, and yes, people will always be affected, but if you can get along with the person you like (really not, look for it in the book) As long as the good influence is greater, you will naturally not be afraid.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You have a very good idea, but it's just that making a good brother or a close friend is really rare It's really rare I think it's much more important than finding a girlfriend now I've lived for more than 18 years, but I really think it's a brother There are only two But I'm very glad that one used to be a classmate in elementary school One is in junior high school I also found that most people around me now have a strong purpose of making friends Personal interests and so on My two brothers are a little bit of a game together Good friends must be made Because you will definitely need it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    We are in this society.

    You have to accept all kinds of things.

    There are always many things that are not used.

    We need to have a positive mindset.

    To adapt to yourself not this.

    Because this is a ruthless society.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    When they eat with you, say things that are unpleasant to the other person and do not hurt others.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Say it to him. You are comrade.

    Make sure he won't bother you in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Now is a critical period, and I want to wait for us to be admitted to the university.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    As long as you don't do anything annoying, no one is going to hate you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's very simple, you haven't adapted to the environment, you have to learn to adapt instead of waiting for the environment to change to adapt to you, and there are friends who don't care much.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When you arrive in a new environment, you will feel uncomfortable. Maybe the people you mentioned will have the same thoughts as you, after all, everyone is not very familiar with them, and after a while, you should think they are good.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When you get to a strange place, there will always be something you are not used to, and it will be fine.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is recommended not to rush to make friends first, and to spend a day or two to understand the personality of your classmates. Those who are generous and smile brightly are good people to make friends. At the same time, you also need to be mindful of your actions.

    If a classmate initiates a conversation with you, remember to speak softly. If you see a bad friend, try to stay away from him. In short, attitude is very important, and you should also be brave and take the initiative to interact with your classmates.

    Good luck with your friends!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's good to be like-minded, and making friends with a purpose in high school will not seem to you to be too scheming.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hello landlord, it depends on your feelings, there is no fixed standard, if you feel good, just be friends with him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Invite him to a cheap place to eat, look at his eyes, if you have contempt, you don't have to pay, and when you check out, if he wants to give money, but you don't pay until you give it to him, don't pay.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The first thing is to see if he honors his parents, and the second is that the righteous word comes first, ** is priceless.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Those who dare to take responsibility and do not speak ill of others.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you learn alone and have no friends, you will be lonely and unheard.

    I didn't have many friends in high school, but I made them.

    Du even after reading the big zhi school is the kind of person who knows his heart.

    Don't worry, you'll always meet you.

    Don't be stressed.

    High school does have a lot of coursework.

    Get along with your classmates all day long.

    Besides, you're still a boarding student.

    Why can't you make friends?

    Why don't you want to be friends with people in your dorm?

    This is just the beginning of the first year of high school.

    Do you want to spoil the atmosphere of the dormitory?

    If you provoke the whole dormitory classmates to target you.

    All indifferent to you.

    This is when you will be even more sad.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, don't hate others, learn to accept, dormitory people.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Then you will be more and more lonely, and you will not be able to live alone in the world. Albert Einstein said that we live in someone else's world.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Isn't it cool? People always have to communicate and adapt to the environment!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Handsome guys, I actually like women.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hehe, I have a friend, it's called learning,

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    State the reason why you don't want to go. It's over in the heart.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Let's just say I didn't have time that day, make an excuse.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I x x immediate family family marriage and other things of this family's life, how can I not go.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Say it's uncomfortable or say that the company is working overtime.

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