If the husband and wife have a bad relationship and have children, should they get divorced?

You should not get divorced because the children are still young, and divorce will bring psychological shadows to the children.

No, divorce has too much impact on the children, and it will be very difficult to live alone with the children.

Marriage is not child's play, and there are children between you, I think you can not divorce without divorce, communicate well with each other, I believe that the relationship between two people can definitely improve.

The relationship between husband and wife is not good, for children, divorce is also a harm, not divorced, in a discordant family all day long, the growth of children will also be affected, husband and wife feel bad and love, but for the sake of children do not divorce, in fact, it is not good for children: children grow up in unhappy families, and children will become sensitive when they grow up.

1.The child escapes reality.

The husband and wife have to live together if they are not in harmony, disputes must be common, and it is impossible for children to know about every dispute, so in the long run, the children will not have a good grasp of the family relationship, and even afraid to deal with some trivial matters in the family, and avoid getting along with both parents.

2.Stressful.

When the husband and wife are not in harmony but do not divorce for the sake of the child, this will increase the pressure on the child, because the child knows that the parents are not divorced for themselves, Chunzhen stares at the parents and sacrifices their emotional life, and the travel wants to let themselves have a complete home, and they should have a good future to repay their parents, so the pressure on the child will be great, the little child actually knows a lot of things, some children are more precocious, they will be better until the parents are separated, but they are children after all, will blame his parents' unhappiness on himself.

3.The personality becomes uncheerful.

If the parents' emotional discord will make the child more sensitive, everyone will have a lot of topics around the family when they go to school, so the children in the family who are not in harmony with the husband and wife are inferior to this topic. Children who enter the family are also more sensitive, and they slowly know how to observe words and feelings, and they are also cautious with their parents.

4.The impact on the child's later family.

The impact of parental discord on children is actually greater than imagined, first of all, it will be more difficult for children to deal with their relationship with their spouse in the future, because they never know what is the right and good way. Secondly, there are also some children who will resist marriage when they grow up, thinking that they do not have the confidence to live the sweet family life like in the TV series.

In terms of family interaction, the relationship between husband and wife has a great impact on the children. The relationship is not good, but you still have to make do with your children, which is a hurt to all three of them! Only by giving children a suitable space so that they can grow up healthily is a good choice for children.

Legal analysis: Couples who have no feelings and have children can get divorced. If a man and a woman in divorce proceedings request a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

Article 1085:After divorce, where children are directly raised by one party, the other party shall bear part or all of the child support. The amount of the cost to be borne and the length of the period shall be agreed upon by both parties; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment.

The agreement or judgment provided for in the preceding paragraph does not prevent the child from making a reasonable demand to either parent in excess of the amount originally set forth in the agreement or judgment when necessary.

Article 1087:In the event of divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be disposed of by mutual agreement; If an agreement is not reached, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the property and in accordance with the principle of taking care of the rights and interests of the children, the woman, and the innocent party.

The rights and interests enjoyed by husbands or wives in the contracting and management of family land shall be protected in accordance with law.

Nowadays, many people say that children are the lubricant of the couple's feelings, and families without children are unhappy. There is no truth in this sentence, many divorced couples have children, and their relationship has not changed for the better because of children. And those families who do not have children, there are also many who are white-headed and old, and the relationship between husband and wife is very good all their lives.

It is true that children are the crystallization of love, but it does not affect love itself.

1. Most divorces are with children.

We can see from some data that most of the divorced people have children, and they don't even fight for custody of their children at all.

For them, having a child is like a life process, as long as both parties divorce, the child has nothing to do with them. And the appearance of the child will not make any changes in the relationship between the husband and wife, whether to quarrel or quarrel, whether to divorce or divorce Tan Chunzhi. From this point of view, after having children, the relationship between husband and wife may not necessarily get better.

It mainly depends on the husband and wife, and the role of the child is not very large.

2. You can grow old without children.

In fact, there are many families who do not have children, and some celebrity families are like this. For example, Chow Yun-fat.

Zhang Weijian, none of them have children. But since their debut, there have been almost no scandals, and they are still known as a model family. From this point of view, the absence of children in a family will not make the relationship between husband and wife worse.

If there are special circumstances, it may also make the relationship between the couple better. Chow Yun-fat and Zhang Weijian are like this, because in the process of pregnancy, their wives were hit hard, so they decided not to have children.

3. Look at the reasons for Senkai without children.

Personally, it still depends on the reason for not having children, and if you can't have children, then you may have to have more quarrels. The relationship between such a couple will also get worse and worse, and it is possible to divorce without children. If both partners do not want children, then there will be no change in the couple's life.

And now people like the world of two people, maybe the family will make the elimination more harmonious.

Marriage is happy, and each of us wants to have a happy marriage. ......However, the real marriage may be unhappy due to various factors, so the parties may choose to divorce. For families with children, divorce can have a very serious impact on the children, so some couples will choose to remarry because of the children after the divorce.

For this kind of question, what kind of choices will the parties make, including the three situations in which the parties will not divorce even if the relationship between the husband and wife is not in harmony with each other, although the divorce will affect the children, they will still choose to divorce, and after the divorce, they will choose to remarry for the sake of the children.

1, although the relationship between the husband and the wife is not harmonious, but for the sake of the children, the two choose not to divorce.

In real life, there are many couples who do not have a good relationship with each other. It can even be said that they are almost on the verge of divorce. ......However, because of having children, everything has changed.

Both husband and wife understand that divorce can have very serious consequences for their children, so they make the choice not to divorce. The sense of responsibility of these couples is very strong, and the relationship between them may gradually improve over time.

2. Divorce does have an impact on the children. But for the sake of his own happiness, he will still choose to divorce.

For some couples, they know that divorce will have a very serious impact on the child, but they will still make the choice of divorce. ......These couples are like this because their relationship has reached an irreparable level, or because they want to pursue their own happiness, so they pay less attention to their children. ......This situation has a very big impact on the child.

3. After the divorce, I found that the children were greatly affected, so I chose to remarry.

Among the various circumstances, the situation in which a couple finds that their children are affected by this after divorce and finally chooses to remarry is the most satisfying. ......Although the previous divorce had a great impact on the couple and their children, from the moment they chose to remarry, the relationship between the husband and wife was repaired, the impact on the children was also compensated, everything was back on the normal track, and the family would be happy again. ......This is clearly the most desirable outcome.