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If he is financially independent, self-reliant in personality, and does not depend on his parents for anything, such a problem would not have occurred. The crux of the problem lies with him, and how he communicates with his parents. If he is financially independent and his personality is self-reliant, after he has communicated many times, his parents have always disagreed, and my opinion is that you can not rush to combine each other.
Parents are bystanders, they can see better than you, parents love their children, parents do not agree, it must be something that you are not a good match. So, even if you get married, there will be problems in the future. If he is not financially independent, his personality is not self-reliant, and he is dependent on his parents everywhere, and his parents do not agree, I think you should still be separated.
Because his parents' opinions will influence his thoughts, and his quality of life. Once that bit of novelty between a man and a woman has passed, his parents' opinion is the best excuse for him to leave you. Human beings have two distinct natures:
The first is to pursue advantages and avoid disadvantages; The second is to like the new and hate the old.
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Emotional matters are the most troublesome.
I'm also against it at home now.
And my girlfriend's family is not against it.
I just want it would be better to get married sooner.
To tell the truth, everyone knows that adults want their children to live a better life.
Let's look at the opening point. I keep it with my girlfriend now.
It's just that it's a long distance.
Just complaining.
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Feelings are the most annoying, once I and my fiancé were the same, but the woman's family did not agree, and the family also arranged a blind date for me, but I ran away, our family still did not agree after three years, and the adults were also very sad for our affairs, but the so-called Jin Cheng goes, Jin Shi is open! We finally got the understanding of the family, as long as we usually communicate with adults more, and comfort them more, people's hearts are flesh and blood, and they just hope that their children will live well, but don't force themselves with adults, then they will be more sad, I wish you a lover to eventually become a family!
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It's not that simple, is it because of family background?
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I want to marry my boyfriend, but his family doesn't seem to like me, what should I do?
1. Strive to integrate into his family, so that he will be happy after marriage.
Everyone's marriage wants to be blessed by both parents. Some people are slow to accept strangers, and if they find that their boyfriend's parents are not very enthusiastic about them, but they are not very disgusted, it means that they are not against the marriage. If this is the case, you should communicate with them more, let them understand themselves and let themselves understand each other, so that they can better integrate into the family.
2. Don't care about his family, love each other, you can overcome all difficulties, and after getting married, living your own life is the most important thing.
Although the opinions of both parents are very important, if two people really love each other, then they don't have to deliberately care about the opinions of each other's parents, after all, getting married and living is mainly a matter for both husband and wife, and if the other party's parents are more open-minded, they will also support the child's marriage, even if they are not very willing, they will not cause trouble in their lives. So, you don't have to worry too much about such things.
3. Ask your boyfriend for advice and ask him to help him figure it out.
When encountering such a problem, you can also ask your boyfriend to talk about your thoughts, after all, this matter involves the marriage of two people, and two people need to face and solve it together. Boyfriends can also say more good things about their girlfriends to their parents in their daily life, or understand their real thoughts, and open their hearts in a targeted manner, which will make such problems easier to solve. That is to say, in the process of falling in love, don't encounter any problems, carry them alone, as a couple, you should face the difficulties in life together.
Moreover, such a thing will also test whether the relationship between two people is solid.
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Be sure to determine your boyfriend's attitude, whether he is willing to marry you, whether the relationship between the two of you is stable, if these questions are positive, then the boyfriend will first communicate with the family to give you a few good words, you also have to be good to your boyfriend, do more in his family to gradually be able to get the approval of his family.
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First of all, you should express yourself more in your boyfriend's house. Quick hands and quick eyes. Go to your boyfriend's house and work more. And talk more. Talk to your boyfriend's family more. Promote the relationship between the two parties. And you should bring some gifts when you go to your boyfriend's house.
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You can cater to your boyfriend's family, do what they like, buy some gifts when you go to the house as a guest, talk sweetly, and his family will like you.
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