The decision of a lifetime of happiness Everyone gives a clear way

First of all, your relationship is laid in the hazy state of your youth! Didn't experience much wind and rain! Time can dilute everything!

You may not understand it now, but you will understand it until you try it! Don't give up your career for the other person or someone else?! Because that's not where you end!

Think for yourself, do you give up your career for the sake of a future that doesn't know the outcome, do the benefits outweigh the disadvantages, or do the disadvantages outweigh the advantages? You'll have too many ...... her in the futureI'm afraid you won't be able to handle it then!

Everyone has their own path, and feelings depend on fate. It's not that if you stay, your relationship won't change. If you choose to go, it doesn't mean you can't be together in the future.

If you don't want to give, how can you get something in return. Sister, I have done everything before, I get up early and set up a stall in the dark, work during the day, and sometimes I am tired like a dead dog. Now I'm very content, I can eat enough, I don't freeze when I sleep, I'm very happy, come on!

Find a job that supports you and learn some skills that you can develop (of your own choosing).

Love is sometimes so helpless. There are many things that you can't earn back! Everyone will experience the cruelty of reality! When you love him and can't get the love of others after working hard, he will understand how deeply he hurts you!

Because, he doesn't love you. Sometimes, love also requires both parties to work together. There is no power in one's love.

It's too much of a problem, something is wrong.

First, I think you and your husband still have a deep relationship, so divorce is not recommended; Second, I think you have a strong desire to talk emotionally, and you may be more easily provoked, so it is recommended that you be able to remain rational and sort out your thoughts clearly; Thirdly, your husband is a key player, between you and him, you should make him clearly aware of your feelings for him and the protection of the law for your family connected by marital bonds, between your husband and his mother, you should encourage him to correctly understand his own status, he can be filial, but not unprincipled, especially because of his own lack of opinion, he should not become a shelter for other people's emotional garbage, or even become a "tool" in the eyes of others; Fourth, for your mother-in-law, you can only move with affection and reason, especially by enlisting your husband's support to weaken his power, to explain to him the law, you and your husband are voluntarily married, this is free, no one can interfere, your marriage is protected by law, your future children can have both the father's surname and the mother's surname according to the regulations, this is the child of the two of you, not with whose surname is "who", anyway, you can't "surname" your mother-in-law's head, If your mother-in-law acts aggressively, she loses even more. Fifth, don't emphasize "getting rich", marriage means that both parties live together, and there is no rule on who must move to whom, this word will become your mother-in-law's handle, and it is easier to make your husband wronged, and it is difficult to have a sound personality. I hope you can get along with your husband and love each other, and if your relationship is good enough, you will definitely be able to resolve these problems.

It feels like your story is like a show, and if you really can't solve this problem effectively one day, it's also a good idea to ask for help.

My mother-in-law is selfish, she showed it early, and she was good, unlike me, when I had children, my mother-in-law showed her selfish feet and threatened me with watching children.

I hate her to death.

Mother-in-law is not the point, the point is your husband, who looks useless. If you can get your husband, it's useless for your mother-in-law to make trouble. If your husband and you don't have the same heart, I'm afraid you will have to separate sooner or later. Late is better than early part.

Mother-in-law is not all selfish, why is the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law not the end, because no party can take a step back, the husband is wrong to anyone, have you seen the beautiful era of the daughter-in-law, Yu Wei's mother and edamame, Yu Wei is called a real man, a filial son, a model husband, do you understand what I mean, if you want to live a happy life, it depends on your husband's, this middleman is the best solution, I hope your family can be happy and healthy.

No matter how troublesome the old man is, he is an elder, and if he is an elder, he should be respected. In our China, Pepsi filial piety comes first. In fact, your husband is very embarrassed to add in the middle, he doesn't want to make his mother sad, and he doesn't want his daughter-in-law to be embarrassed, if you still love your husband, please love his mother like him, filial piety to her family, I always believe that people's hearts are flesh and blood, if you can treat your mother-in-law as your own person, I believe that her heart knot will soon be touched by your filial piety.

Divorce is not advisable, it can be seen that you love each other very much, just because it involves the parents of both parties and our traditional Chinese face problems, your husband enters your family, he may have an inferiority complex in his heart, at this time as a wife, you win more to soothe this psychology in your husband's heart. Money is the most emotionally hurting thing. But love is more important than money.

Of course, it's okay for you to fight for your interests, but don't take money too seriously, otherwise you will definitely lose both. Use your love to influence your husband and your mother-in-law, I wish you happiness!

If you get divorced, you can ask for the previous 30,000 yuan back, but if you can't do it, you can see the court.

Love her with your heart, the past has passed, no matter how much you mind, you can't change it, only change your mind, if you love her, why care about her past, not to mention that she loves you now, I don't know why you can't see her when you're in a bad mood, you can use more ** contact when you go on a business trip, couples don't have to be tired of being together all the time, occasionally a little distance is to grasp the right to enhance feelings.

If you are really worried about this, it is better to break up ruthlessly, stop torturing yourself, 26, the relationship should be clear, don't delay yourself and don't delay the other party, it's up to you to do it, weigh it well, I hope my answer can help you, good luck :)

Do something sorry for her, you won't mind if you have a ghost in your heart, hehe.

Why should you be with someone you don't like, you know it's wrong, and you have to make a decision on the spot.

Your hesitation will make you more sad in the future.

Give each other too much space, and what you don't like now doesn't mean you don't like it in the future.

Human life is very contradictory.

Suggestion: Separate for a while, if you think of each other once in a while, then you already like him.

Of course, you shouldn't continue to walk if you know it's wrong, and the long pain is better than the short one.

Why force yourself to be with someone you don't like?

If you don't feel happy, why do you want to go on?

You're going to die sooner or later, are you still alive? Dislike? Are you sure you like someone? And not a bunch of people? Just appearances?

There are hundreds of millions of people in the country who are just as you think, there are those who go home to get married and start a business after accumulating the original funds, and there are also children who grow up and keep going out to work! Everybody's on fire....

Start from the basics, rely on your own efforts, and continue to struggle. Believe in yourself, you can!

Dude, for example, it's okay to learn a craft, I'm also a part-time worker, but I'm learning, depending on your hobbies, If you like the same, work hard, I believe you will succeed, Come on.

Find a stable job first, and then go to the company to open an account, take out half of the salary every month and save it into the company, both long-term and short-term, the fastest money, although there is a risk, but there is still 90% of the fall limit