What is the greatest sorrow of poor students on the road to growth?

What is the greatest sorrow of poor students on the road to growth? That's the atmosphere of homeschooling. If parents have the idea that "people are poor and short-minded".

This can have a serious impact on a child's development. Because children's enlightenment and education are received from their parents. When parents feel ashamed of themselves as inferior to others because of their poor family.

The family atmosphere formed by this kind of thinking often has a very big negative impact on the child. Suppose the parents are strugglers who are not short of ambitions. The fighting spirit of parents will keep the child in the spirit of striving for progress.

On the contrary, it will make the child have a serious inferiority complex. Especially in this commodity economy society. It always makes people feel that money is a shackle on poor families.

When the child's parents are willing to settle for the arrangement of fate and no longer struggle. He will also have decadent thoughts. Thus distrust of one's own abilities.

Although he doesn't yet know how capable he is. But he has already decided that he is not as good as others. ）

My school is a third-rate high school that is not focused or exemplary. During home visits to new students. What I found out was that parents always complained that their children didn't work hard and didn't care.

Opposite. The child's evaluation of the parents is even worse. Parents who always talk about themselves only care about their children's grades.

I don't read books, I don't study. I've done a simple statistic. Parents love to read and learn.

The students' study habits are better.

The biggest disadvantage of the children of the poor family is not actually the gap between the primitive accumulation of their parents, but the fact that there is no one to lead them on the road of growth. Therefore, it is best for children from poor families to cultivate their own sense of differentiated competition, such as having the excellent qualities of diligence, responsibility, integrity, and humility, as well as the awareness that they can withstand grievances and suffer losses are blessings, and they can also outperform the market in the long-distance race of life. It is said in "Historical Records: The Biography of Goods and Colonies":

There is no financial power, few wits, and there is no time to fight", which means that when you have no assets, you should first rely on your own strength to earn the first wealth in your life; When you have small assets, you should rely on your intelligence to broaden the channels of making money as soon as possible to increase your wealth; When you are already rich, you should be good at seizing favorable opportunities to continue to increase your wealth. Come on, all the children of the poor family, only self-improvement is the truth.

However, it is difficult to come out of a poor family, but it profoundly conveys to us a social situation: that is, the class in our country is solidifying, and there is serious injustice in rural education. It is an indisputable fact that since 1999, when China's institutions of higher learning expanded their enrollment in an all-round way, the proportion of rural students in China's key universities has gradually decreased.

What is worse than this situation is that the students who can be admitted to China's key colleges and universities have a high family background and a high education level of their parents, so many people are sighing that it is really difficult for my country's poor family to have a noble son.

As we all know, the college entrance examination is currently the fairest exam in China, and it is an important way for poor students to change their own destiny. Although many domestic scholars criticize the college entrance examination education and say that the college entrance examination is an examination-oriented education, it is undeniable that many poor students in China change their destiny through the college entrance examination, such as the well-known director Zhang Yimou who was admitted to the university after the resumption of the college entrance examination in 1979, and completed a redemption for his own destiny. In fact, the decrease in the number of poor students in China's key universities also reflects from the side that the upward path of poor students is becoming less and less.

Poor students bear a lot of pressure, including their own unwillingness to fate, their parents' expectations of themselves, and the cynicism of those around them. So they will work harder and harder in the process of learning. The poor family background made them more able to adapt to some difficult circumstances.

For example, the high temperature in summer and the cold in winter have long been accustomed to it. In order to achieve excellent academic performance, fight against time. In the eyes of others, they have worked hard enough, but it does not necessarily pay off for their efforts.

For poor students, everyone has lost at the starting line since birth. And if you want to change your fate efficiently, then reading is the most recommended way. In the process of reading and learning, our outlook on life and values began to change, we became more positive and optimistic, learned about the wider world, and learned richer knowledge.

At the same time, we continue to study and get in touch with a broader platform, and at the same time have the opportunity to engage in higher-end jobs. Even if you can't achieve material success in the future, the perspective from which you look at problems, your understanding of the world, and the change of values are all really improving.

On the road of growth, poor students may encounter many setbacks, and may continue to lose the motivation to struggle. At this time, it is recommended that you read more inspirational books to recharge yourself, get in touch with more positive energy, and make your mentality more positive. No one's life is smooth sailing, and many great men have experienced hardships that are unbearable for ordinary people.

So, keep your eyes on the goal, keep working hard, keep fighting, and become a better version of yourself.

Class. Whatever class you are born in, you will always be in that class.

If you want to climb up, you have to have the luck of a successful businessman.

What about your 985 211, you might as well work for someone after graduation.

In today's China, the working class is a class that has been involuted.

There is nothing to eat, growth is, the construction site carries the ashes to read the manual, and increases knowledge. The instructions are memorized, and they are not exam questions.

The level of thought and vision will be limited, and although it can be successful through hard work, the horizon will not be opened after all.

A good atmosphere for learning and growth and an attitude towards learning in the family! The difference in ideology!