What should I do about incivility

If you are experiencing uncivilized behavior, I recommend that you take the following steps:

Stay calm: Try to stay as calm as possible and don't let emotions dominate your reactions, which can lead to more serious problems.

Tell the other person directly: Use a polite and firm tone to inform the other person that they are behaving incivilly and give them a chance to correct their behavior.

Report to relevant parties: If uncivilized behavior persists or affects the lives and work of others, it can be reported to relevant parties, such as community administrators, organization leaders, or relevant departments.

Advocate civilized behavior: Through their own words and deeds, call on the people around them to jointly advocate civilized behavior and promote the progress of social civilization.

Remember, the struggle is not for malice, but for others to have a good life experience as well.

First, we need to start with ourselves. First, behave in a civilized manner, and bring yourself so that you don't litter, don't spit, etc.; Second, when traveling, pay attention to details and take care of public facilities. Third, prepare the small details of travel, always have some paper towels, plastic bags, mineral water and other small items that can be used for a variety of purposes, to prevent vomit or excrement from polluting the scenic spots.

Uncivilized phenomenon, secondly, we find uncivilized behavior, we must resolutely stop it, so that uncivilized behavior has nowhere to hide, but we must pay attention to ways and means, not simple and rude.

In the face of uncivilized behavior, you can take the following measures:

1.Communicate patiently: For uncivilized behavior, we need to be patient and polite, stay calm, communicate with the other person, and try to understand the other person's position and emotions.

3.Improve our own quality: We should start from ourselves, improve our own quality, respect others, abide by social morality, set an example, and set a good example for others.

Whatever measures are taken, we must treat each other with courtesy, deal with uncivilized behavior in a civilized manner, remain calm, and avoid conflict and emotion.

When picking up the express, when encountering uncivilized behavior, I may be kind to remind, but I will not intervene too much, I don't want to make trouble for myself because of other people's things, I should do the following.

1. Be courageous and not follow the crowd. If you are on the spot, persuade with gentle and gentle language. If you are in other places, you must do the work of persuasion, and your attitude must be soft, so that it is easier to get results.

2. It takes time to change an uncivilized habit, and it also requires the courage of the management department and the support of the public, and there are successful cases in this regard. Drunk driving has become a rat crossing the street, and the can't set off fireworks within the outer ring is a good start. We hope that there will be less and less incivility.

3. I think that although this society is very indifferent, there are fewer and fewer people who are brave and brave, it is not that people's hearts are getting colder, but that most of the time we have to learn to protect ourselves, especially with young children around us. We must better protect ourselves in order to ensure the safety of our children, sometimes a kind reminder is enough, and in the face of the premise that safety is not guaranteed, do not act blindly!

If you don't care about yourself, I can also understand it, because there are too many uncivilized behaviors now, walking and walking, facing a person, suddenly making a cough in his throat, a mouthful of phlegm flew to the ground Zheng Hutuan, and hurriedly took a few steps back to dodge; Sitting on the bus and subway, I was closing my eyes to recuperate, and suddenly there was a "Hum ha, hey, nunchuck!" Or "Scored, scored!" "I don't feel sleepy;

Walking on the bustling pedestrian street, suddenly an aunt in front of me put a garbage subway that I don't know what, and was so frightened that she couldn't stop her steps, for fear that I would have to pay ...... if I stepped on itMany, many such examples, many, many times, can only pretend not to see, hide away, out of sight.

Hello, first of all, in the face of obvious uncivilized behavior, choosing to step forward to stop it will help to develop a good habit of disturbing civilization. When faced with uncivilized behavior, if you don't stop it, then it will be easy to condone the development of these uncivilized behaviors. So the best thing to do is to step forward and stop these uncivilized behaviors.

Of course, when communicating with others, you should also pay attention to your attitude and don't act too excited. Be kind enough to remind others instead of criticizing their behavior. Because everyone has a time when their memory is poor or when they are sloppy.

So it's better to go up and kindly remind others and tell others that it's uncivilized. Of course, if you say so, others will also accept your suggestions in good faith. I will also carefully correct my mistakes.

If you criticize others too much, they will not only not realize your mistakes, but will also have arguments with them.

Second, make some positive hints and reminders, and try to wait for others to finish the whole thing before commenting. In the face of uncivilized behavior, in fact, we do not need to be in a hurry, because when these uncivilized behaviors occur, it is likely to be accompanied by an emergency. For example, if a car suddenly runs a red light, then it is very likely that there will be a sleepy patient in the car.

For example, if someone suddenly cuts the queue in front of you in the hospital, it is very likely that his relative is more seriously ill and more serious. At this time, we allow others to commit these uncivilized acts because they are facing a more urgent matter. It is also a good choice for all of us to be able to put ourselves in the shoes of others.

So try to wait until something has completely passed, or you understand the situation inside before making a decision and then evaluating it.

Finally, civilization starts with you and me, first of all, set an example. In fact, we don't have to pay attention to the uncivilized behavior of others in life. We try to start with self-repentance as much as possible, and use our actions to influence others, so that others can join the army of civilization.

Over time, incivility decreases.

We can stop Changyun in time and tell him that this is uncivilized. If you don't do it, chances are that these incivilities won't be stopped and will continue to happen. We can also organize some large-scale Fan Xun Zheng activities to tell everyone how to be civilized.

I think that there should be a lack of resistance, but the resistance here does not mean intensifying the contradictions, but using legitimate methods to stop them in time. When going out, it is inevitable to encounter uncivilized behaviors, such as littering, lying on park benches, spitting, open defecation and other uncivilized behaviors.

However, when stopping this uncivilized behavior, you must first ensure your own safety before you can come forward to stop it, if the other party is a lot of people, and it seems unfriendly, then even if you want to stop it, you have to pay attention to ways and means, if you are really weak and powerless, it is best not to care, so as not to cause trouble for yourself, of course, if you resist beating you can still manage. In addition, when stopping, don't just insult or ridicule the other party at once, which will only intensify the contradictions between the two sides and escalate the things that could have been handled happily into unsolvable matters.

Therefore, when we are faced with this kind of uncivilized and impolite person, we should step forward and tell the other party with kind words: "This is a public place, please don't let uncivilized behavior appear", if the other party is interested, they will immediately terminate their behavior. If the other party recognizes the garbage, you can give the other party a plastic bag or paper towel, and the other party puts the garbage in a plastic bag or wraps it in a paper towel, and then tells the other party where the trash can is.

If the other person is lying on a bench in public, you can go straight to him/her, ask him or her to get up, and tell him or her that you should sit here too, as long as he or she has no problem with his or her head or is not a scoundrel, he or she will get up and let you. Therefore, these ways of counterattacking are also a way for us to stop uncivilized behaviors, when we face those uncivilized behaviors, we must stop what we should stop, and we cannot let this kind of people accompany us to destroy the harmony and civilization of our society, after all, it is the duty of every citizen to build civilized cities and civilized villages.

If you encounter uncivilized behavior when picking up the courier, I may kindly remind him. But I won't ask for too much, after all, we don't know each other, it's his own personal behavior, and if I interfere with it, it may backfire and cause more serious consequences, and it is very likely to cause harm to myself. So I'm probably going to turn a blind eye, and that's the safest thing to do.

In the face of uncivilized behavior, the first thing we should do is probably to maintain our image of Wen Burning Que Chunming, and imperceptibly set up a mirror for the uncivilized. When the vast majority of people behave in a civilized manner and consciously abide by public morality, the uncivilized will generally be touched, and then wake up and quietly correct their words and deeds. That's what we'd like to see the most.

We must not stop uncivilized phenomena in an uncivilized way just because there are uncivilized phenomena around us.

In the face of uncivilized behavior, under the influence of the inertial thinking of "more is better than less", many people usually choose to forbear, not to say a word, and let it go. Again, this is not appropriate, and the uncivilized may have nothing to fear in silence. We might as well point out the behavior of uncivilized people in a tactful way, because uncivilized people are habitual and do not realize that they are hindering others, and they will generally accept criticism.

Even if the "diehards" refuse to accept the advice, if they are attacked en masse, they can break down their defenses and make them somewhat restrained. After all, Pitney is angry. It's really not good, we can also ask for help from the staff and even the people's police.

All of these are effective ways to combat incivility. A civilized and harmonious social atmosphere requires the joint efforts of all people.