Xianfeng and Prince Gong were raised by a mother, why is the relationship so bad?

Because Xianfeng and Prince Gong were rivals, the two of them had been fighting for the throne back then, so the relationship between the two of them was so bad.

Because Prince Gong's ability in all aspects is stronger than Xianfeng, but Xianfeng ascended to the throne, Prince Gong was not convinced, so he often fought with Xianfeng.

Although Emperor Xianfeng and Prince Gong were raised by the same mother, after all, when facing power, everything is a floating cloud, and they will not hesitate to fight for the throne.

Because they both wanted to be emperors, and at that time, only the two of them could inherit the throne from Daoguang, so their relationship was quite poor.

Although Prince Gong is more powerful, Emperor Xianfeng will please Daoguang even more. In ancient times, if you want to be called a prince or an emperor, you can't just rely on your ability, you have to make your father happy. After all, who will be the emperor depends entirely on the emperor's choice, not on whose ability is too strong.

Now I will talk about my own views on this issue and see how Xianfeng is better than Prince Gong.

1, Emperor Xianfeng knows how to pat on the back.

Although Prince Gong is very capable enough to be the emperor of the Qing Dynasty, and his political talent is far greater than that of his brother Xianfeng. But he doesn't know how to express himself in front of Daoguang, just imagine how capable a person is, if others can't see it, it means that you are incapable. Although it is said that gold always shines, it may be too late to wait until the day it shines.

Therefore, it is really important to know how to express yourself. And Xianfeng did a good job at this point, so Emperor Daoguang would choose him.

2. Xianfeng knows how to promote strengths and avoid weaknesses.

Although Xianfeng's ability is not strong, he knows how to cover up his shortcomings and only show his strengths to Emperor Daoguang. The most typical example is that when Emperor Daoguang asked Prince Gong and Xianfeng to compete in hunting. Needless to say, Xianfeng is bound to lose in this game.

But Xianfeng said that he couldn't bear to kill these little animals, leaving Daoguang with the image of a benevolent monarch. Therefore, it is not surprising that Daoguang would choose XianfengAlthough Xianfeng is incapable, he knows how to show his strengths.

To sum up,Although Xianfeng is not as powerful as Prince Gong, he knows how to show himself correctly and can please Emperor Daoguang. In my opinion, it is not surprising that Xianfeng was able to get the throne in the end.

Or because of Xianfeng's benevolence and filial piety, Daoguang made up his mind to pass the throne to Xianfeng, but the competitive Prince Gong only got a prince, and he never had a chance to take the throne.

In contrast, Xianfeng still defeated Prince Gong in the end, because Prince Gong was more competitive and competitive, while Xianfeng was kind-hearted.

There are three things that make Daoguang change his mind, one is the kindness shown by Xianfeng when hunting, the other is that when making a choice, Daoguang thinks that Xianfeng's behavior is more brotherly and brotherly, and finally Xianfeng behaves very filial when Daoguang is seriously ill.

After listening to the hunting incident, Daoguang felt that Yizha was really a benevolent good child, and the ancients advocated filial piety and benevolence, so when Daoguang chose the crown prince, he set up Yizha as the crown prince, so he became the future Xianfeng Emperor. And Yi became a prince.

Strong ability does not mean that you have a throne, there are many other factors to consider, the most important thing is to let the emperor recognize you, not how strong you are.

Because the ancients advocated filial piety and benevolence, and Xianfeng was a manifestation of benevolence and filial piety in the eyes of Daoguang, Daoguang made up his mind to pass on the throne to Xianfeng.

Because the ancients advocated filial piety and benevolence, when Daoguang selected the crown prince, he made Yizha the crown prince, so he became the future Xianfeng Emperor.

The ancients advocated filial piety and benevolence, and if they wanted to be called the prince and the emperor, they couldn't rely on their ability alone, but they also had to make their father happy.

The relationship between the two is not very good. In order to compete for the throne, the relationship between Xianfeng and Prince Gong was not very good, and Xianfeng did not reuse Prince Gong after succeeding to the throne until Cixi took power.

At first, the relationship between the two was still very good, but then the relationship deteriorated, and Xianfeng paid less and less attention to Prince Gong.

Prince Gong and Xianfeng are not siblings of the same mother, and Prince Gong's mother is the queen mother

And Prince Xianfenggong's mother is the queen mother, not because he feels that it is beneficial to him, but out of gratitude。Filial piety and gratitude are an excellent culture that has been passed down from ancient times. It is also an excellent traditional culture in China by default, and it is still being inherited in modern times.

When you get help from others when you are in the most difficult time, you will always remember the help of others. will repay them myself later. Chinese have always been people who know how to report their favors, and they are not like other countries, and they bite others in turn.

Therefore, while receiving help from others, we should also learn to repay others, and we should also learn to help others ourselves, so that the world is full of love and everyone can feel warm.

Because the status of Prince Gong and Xianfeng's mother is different, Prince Gong's mother is the queen mother.

Xianfeng is not as favored as Prince Gong, and Prince Gong's talent is much stronger than Xianfeng, so Xianfeng named Prince Gong's mother as the queen mother, so as to ensure that Yi (Prince Gong) will not oppose him, so that he can keep his throne.

Because Prince Gong's mother gave birth to many children for Daoguang, and the Borzigit clan has always regarded Xianfeng as his own and raised him as his own son, so he was named the queen mother.

This is because although she is not her biological mother, she is her father's woman, so she is also the queen mother.

Because Prince Gong's biological mother was the mother of the previous emperor, he was honorific.

This all depends on how the emperor decides, the queen is set by the emperor, and the queen mother is held by the emperor, this thing is very interesting, sometimes it can be said that the emperor's mother is the queen, but sometimes it is not necessarily.

Because Xianfeng was raised by Prince Gong's biological mother since he was a child, she regarded Xianfeng as her own and cared for him meticulously. Therefore, after becoming the emperor, Xianfeng repaid the kindness of parenting, and Fenggong Prince Gong's biological mother was the queen of the emperor's liquid Zen Liang.

Because although Xianfeng was named the crown prince, Emperor Daoguang favored Prince Gong very much, so he was very jealous of him, and the relationship was very bad after he took the throne.

Because they have all fought for the throne in the past, and both sides have direct interests, neither of them is subject to the other.

Because they don't live together for a long time, they are very strangers to each other, and they don't have a lot of communication, especially their different views, etc.

Because their two brothers were political enemies and had fought for the throne, Emperor Xianfeng had always regarded Prince Gong as a thorn in his side, fearing that he would covet his throne. So they have a bad relationship.

Although Xianfeng and Prince Gong were raised by the same mother, their relationship was bad, and it was also caused by the struggle with the imperial power and mutual suspicion, because it was normal for the imperial power to turn against each other.

Because there is a contradiction of interests between two people, for the sake of their own rights, they are very vigilant against each other.

If there is a disagreement between relatives, it must be something more important than family affection in their eyes, maybe money, maybe power. In my opinion, no matter what we pursue, family affection is something we can't give up in our lifetime.