Why do people like to leave the mistakes of the older generation to future generations?

Because the older generation can no longer bear the consequences of this fault, people will impose this fault on their descendants in order to get compensation accordingly.

I think this one is very unreasonable, everyone is an independent individual, and the blood connection cannot forcibly change the fate of another individual, which is an injustice to the next generation of people who take responsibility.

I am a college entrance examination candidate this year, and I have always wanted to take the public university, but I was unable to enter the public university because of the political examination recently, and I was told that all majors related to public security and law cannot apply for the examination, in other words, I have no chance to apply for my favorite major. It's really heartbreaking, and I woke up crying several times in my dream.

Because the prosperity of the later generation is based on the mistakes of the older generation, the later generation has to bear the mistakes of the older generation.

Because people don't like to take the initiative to take mistakes, he will leave the mistakes to the next generation, which is people's inertia.

Because as the saying goes, the father pays the debt of the son, so they feel that the mistakes made by the elders are taken for granted by the juniors.

Because there is no ability to repay it when the older generation is gone, it will be put on the younger generation.

Because the older generation had a lot of regrets when they were young, I hope to be able to help them achieve it through the next generation.

Because of the fault, it always has to be solved. And the older generation can't solve it, so it can only be solved by future generations.

Because this is a kind of sustenance, when the old people themselves did not complete the things, they needed to have a sustenance to choose their children.

There are many things that are a matter of procrastination and life, and we will put this matter aside for a number of years, Comrade Xiaoping said wait, we say wait, and our descendants may still say wait, for these small countries like Japan, they cannot afford to wait, but we can wait, the problem is that to deal with this kind of thing, we need to be strong enough, we are not strong enough, what can we do if we do not wait.

Only when people give birth to their descendants can they solve it, and if they die, they will not be able to solve anything.

I think the intolerance of the people around you is also one of the reasons why people are reluctant to admit their mistakes. It's not that difficult to admit a mistake, but it's a bad situation to get into when you admit a mistake. When people around you see someone admitting their mistakes, they will feel like they have entered the moral high ground.

Then: further repeated accusations, intensified accusations, and then one after another, and the views of the person who confessed his mistake will not be taken seriously. When I admit my mistakes, I have already put down my face, and if I usher in such a flattering situation, I will naturally be unwilling to admit my mistakes.

Admitting mistakes actually means improving emotional intelligence, learning to admit mistakes, and making our relationship with the people around us better. Learn to admit mistakes, the recognition of mistakes between lovers and relatives brings more intimate relationships, the recognition of mistakes between friends and classmates can get more recognition, the initiative in work and career can get more trust, and self-reflection and recognition of mistakes can help you improve your ability and thinking.

Adults are not like minors who are supported. Then, in a circle, his personal right to speak is highly related to his own interests, and admitting mistakes is an act that damages his own right to speak. Moreover, apart from the opposing sides, most people who eat melons are not interested in spending time to distinguish between right and wrong, they only focus on who is the weaker side.

And the party who admits its mistakes is often easily perceived as the weaker party. Of course, strong people who are strong enough in their own ability and strong enough often take the initiative to admit their mistakes, but they will create a situation where the other party is considered to be the weaker party, and strengthen their own right to speak!

For example, we often quarrel with our parents over some things, and some people may attack themselves when they quarrel, but now it can be transferred to the cognitive differences between parents and ourselves, that is, from "quarreling because parents think they are not good enough" to "quarreling because two people have different perceptions of some things". When we are able to realize this change at the beginning of the same quarrel, we will not think that admitting mistakes is a big deal, and we will be able to do some behaviors that allow things to ease things relatively detached. But it's not as simple as it sounds, so be sure to give yourself confidence and patience.

As for the misunderstanding, from the results, the most basic judgment is whether there is a deviation between one's expectations and the actual situation, if the deviation is too large and constitutes a mistake, it is a mistake (at least not the purpose you want); Secondly, it is necessary to have a long-term vision and think about the direction of change of the event situation with a far-sighted mind. In addition, it is more necessary to be guided by one's own scientific theories and the rich life experience of others, to discover mistakes in practice and correct them in a timely manner.

After making a mistake, some people run away, some people cover up, some people say they will repent, and some people say they will self-reflect ......But to be honest, everyone's first reaction must not be introspection and repentance, but to find a reason, make an excuse, and must be running away. Actually, everyone is like this, and so am I.

I've always taken the initiative to admit if I'm wrong and seek to correct it, but the results are not very good. It feels like this makes me less persuasive, and it's more difficult for me to persuade and sell some ideas. That's why I think it's time to fool children by admitting their mistakes.

In fact, it should be decided whether to admit the mistake according to the specific serious situation, and if admitting the mistake can add points, then admit it, otherwise not admit it. I think many adults have gradually realized this in their lives that they have become dislike admitting mistakes.

Recently, there was an incident that touched me a lot. One day, my boyfriend and I had a big fight because we forgot to take out the trash, and both sides refused to give in, and we were angry with each other until we were half dead, and finally it ended in a can't be resolved. Since then, we've been arguing a lot about all sorts of little things, sometimes I'm reasonable, sometimes he's reasonable.

But no matter who is in charge, we don't admit each other's mistakes, and always hope that the other party is the one who admits mistakes. Until one day, my boyfriend asked me: "Just say that you are wrong, pay attention next time, how hard is it?"

Don't explain this to me anymore, can you? "In intimate relationships, we inevitably encounter family members, partners, or friends who accuse us of something that is not ours. No matter how much we try to defend ourselves, the other side can't understand.

We will have more grievances and anger because of the other person's incomprehension. As a result, a small problem turned into a war between two people, and we hurt each other and both lost. As a result, we drifted away from each other and became silent.

However, after the estrangement, it is still difficult to calm down. Sadness and grievances keep coming. I want to reconcile with each other, but my heart is conflicted:

Admit your mistake, my heart is unbalanced, why does he accuse me so much about a trivial matter; If you don't admit your mistakes, the relationship with the other party will be difficult to ease, although an apology is simple, but the heart is extremely entangled and painful.

It is a manifestation of selfishness, and it is also a manifestation of not daring to take responsibility. This is also a common problem in this society, not doing things that are not good for oneself, and not taking responsibility for things that are harmful to oneself.

First of all, it should be that you can't afford it, you can't afford to destroy a valuable thing, and if you can bear it, you are not afraid to bear it, but you have psychological salvation, but you can't bear it, as you said, you will try to make yourself less responsible.

This is the weakness of human nature, maybe he has realized that it was his own mistakes that led to the bad results, but he didn't dare, he didn't have the courage to bear the responsibility and consequences, so he chose to put the responsibility on others to escape from reality.

Everyone has a sense of self-protection, and they feel that they can't afford to take the risk after taking it, so they subconsciously push this responsibility out or find other excuses to comfort themselves.

That is, taking responsibility requires a price and action, as well as capacity. It's not rhetoric, so no one wants to take responsibility at will.

Everyone is different in the world, so there will be good and bad in the world.

It is an instinct for people to choose to protect themselves, and when anyone is threatened by an external threat or has to take responsibility for themselves, the instinctive reaction is to protect themselves and make them suffer the least loss, so people often like to push the responsibility to others, which is an animal instinct

Many people are not self-aware, and they always choose to take responsibility when something happens.

Push it to others, not take it yourself.

Because they don't have the courage to take responsibility, or they don't want to pay the price.

Because they are people who have no responsibility, they naturally will not be responsible, and people like this have no moral heart and no morality, no at all.

Because some people are too selfish and never consider the feelings of others, I guess that kind of person will not be of any use in the future, because he does not dare to take responsibility!

This kind of person is often seen in the workplace and circle of friends, if she shirks her responsibilities like this every time, it means that she is a very selfish and irresponsible person, and it is very difficult to be with such people, boring and boring, stay away from them!

This is a problem of human character, one's own behavior leads to a bad outcome, there is no courage and ability to bear the consequences, and in order to protect oneself, one shirks the responsibility to others, which is a kind of self-protection and a manifestation of cowardice.

This kind of person just has no responsibility, he is afraid of being responsible, and it is insidious and cunning to say that it is ugly.

Fear of being scolded and fear of consequences, including financial, reputational, physical and future life.

The answer to this question can be found in the Bible. After Adam ate the fruit of the tree of good and evil, he put the blame on Eve!

Maybe because human nature is selfish, everyone wants to push the mistake and responsibility to others, even if they know that it is their own fault, they will still do it. It can also be said that they don't want to cause trouble because of their fault and responsibility this time, so they are automatically shielded from themselves.

Pushing it to others is convenient, there is pressure to bear it yourself, and you have to have the courage to admit your mistakes, so you always like to push it outward.

Passing the blame on others is to avoid risks, maximize your own interests, and make mistakes so that you can minimize or even lose nothing. Besides, people are inherently selfish, and when something happens, they must think about themselves first, instinctively think of a series of consequences of making mistakes, and then think of countermeasures.

This kind of person is cautious, does not dare to take responsibility, and cannot become a big climate, so try not to do things with this kind of person.

There is no need to be discouraged, it is impossible for people to copy a single sail

Going well, experiencing some setbacks is also a kind of tempering for growth. It is often not a good thing to always be at the top of the top, because he cannot get the training of frustration, and once he encounters problems in his future social life, he will often be overwhelmed and even lead to collapse.

As for what you said about not being able to face your teachers and classmates without face, I think it's even more unnecessary. I think you may have been at the top of your academic ranks, so you are used to being praised by teachers and looked up to by your classmates. But I would say that it's always up to the top and looking down on others, and sometimes it's better to look at others from a different perspective and blend in with others.

Don't put yourself too high and detach yourself from the group, know that society is a group organization, and learn to fit in. We should actively strive for progress with a normal heart. Take your exam as an example, teachers and classmates may not care too much about your grades at all, but care most about yourself.

Just come down from a tall building and take a walk around the woods to get some fresh air.

If you don't do well in the exam this time, it's not a big problem, as long as you summarize what the problem is, you can remedy it in time, take this setback as a kind of training, a kind of motivation, and work hard next time, I believe you will be able to succeed.

You can't hold back your breath anymore and be a good person! The ancients said: "Is it tolerable or unbearable." Youyun: "Endure the rough waves for a while, and further expand the sea and the sky." So you have to learn to say "no"! It's not complaining, it's a break with your past self!

The world is full of injustice.

There is no absolute fairness in the world, if you feel that the loss caused to you is too great, you can defend your rights through legal channels.

There's always a time when the water comes out, don't worry. Sometimes you have to learn to be patient.

Because you're not strong enough.

After someone dies, why is it left to future generations?

According to the past, the quilt is a blessing, after the old man died, a few sons asked several sons to divide the quilt, and the daughter did not participate in the quilt, for example, there were two sons, the back of the quilt was split in half, and the two sons were divided into two sons, if there were five sons, then the five sons tore the quilt and the quilt into five strips, and divided them into five sons, which means that all the blessings of the old man were given to these sons.

The reason why the old man is left to future generations after his death is that there is a common saying that the quilt quilt means that the descendants are very prosperous.

Ze was the afterlife! Our ancestors have a lot of wisdom, so that future generations can inherit their aura!

This belongs to the local custom, and they feel that it is a blessing left by the old man to future generations.

This is a custom in no place, and their quilts are a blessing for future generations.