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Whether the child is good or not has nothing to do with whether he is rebellious or not, whether the child is out of luck depends on the education of parents and teachers, and the most important thing is that the child's talent depends on the child's talent.
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Educating disobedient children should use multiple methods:
First of all, we must be more tolerant and patient, because children who do not listen to open words need more tolerance, and they need more care from their parents, because children are too smart, they may be less focused, more action, playful, etc., only by being more patient and accompanying their children can they grow up happily.
Secondly, you must not scold and scold the child at will, because the child is disobedient, there may be rebellious behavior, and you can't beat and scold the child at will because the child is against you, and push the child to the opposite side, so that the interpersonal relationship is more and more tense and there are more and more contradictions.
Finally, children should be actively encouraged to communicate more, communicate more, express their inner thoughts, not disobedient to deny the child's growth, but also to see the child become mature, become independent and other steps into the shed, stimulate and Chang at the same time let the child continue to work hard to express their ideas, in order to solve the problem of disobedience.
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<> rebellion will make it easier for you to recognize yourself. Rebellion is a sign of unsociability. If you don't like to socialize, you don't need to care too much about other people's opinions and perspectives, so as to start the mode of active thinking.
Therefore, it is easier to reflect on yourself, recognize yourself, change or correct yourself, and finally have the opportunity to jump out of the original environment and circle, and become a "promising" person in the eyes of everyone. In fact, in families with rebellious children, a large part of the family does not communicate well with the child, does not know what the child really thinks, and is too strict with the child.
It has to be said that communication plays a vital role in education. In a harmonious and orderly family in real life, most parents will spend a lot of energy on communication. Communication is the basis of mutual understanding and a necessary process for the exchange of ideas.
If there is a family with this kind of problem, most parents will have the idea that their children should listen to their parents when they are young. Is this true? Sometimes it may be necessary to follow the advice of parents, but as children grow, their self-awareness and perception of the outside world gradually form a system, so they will have their own thoughts and behaviors.
So we need to put these issues into perspective, support and respect some of the child's behaviors.
Parental neglect disappoints their children. Some parents don't like their life at first, and their children usually cause them more trouble, so they don't like to communicate too much with their children. Children who grow up in this environment are often discouraged by the neglect of their parents.
They want to seek the care of others, so they make some friends at school or in society. But because I am too young, I don't have a correct concept of right and wrong to distinguish people, and I am often deceived because I trust others too much. Suppressed emotions want to be released.
Some parents are of the stronger type. Whatever your child's preferences and needs are, just impose plans or items on your own terms. Children who grow up in this environment crave the approval of others, and in order to meet this need, many children will adopt some rebellious behavior to prove to adults that they have grown up.
In the face of parents' incomprehension, there were verbal conflicts with parents, and some students even scuffled with their parents because of their parents' abuse.
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Because children enter adolescence and children have their own ideas, parents can only strengthen guidance and let them go to the right path; Because rebellious children have their own reasonable plans, and will adjust their own mentality, have ideas in their hearts, do not need to listen to other people's opinions, and they are particularly assertive.
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The child's rhetoric is not a rebellion, but a way of expressing himself. Don't underestimate this unlikable child's "disobedient" period, it is a critical period for the formation of children's personality, whether the parental attitude is correct or not, directly affects the formation of children's good personality quality; It is indeed more promising, because they will each have their own personality and ideas. Rebellious children have a critical spirit.
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When children are in adolescence, they will have certain psychological problems, so they will rebel. Rebellious children have their own ideas, so there will be a future.
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I think the main reason is that after the child reaches a certain age, parents ignore the suppressed emotions in the child's heart, which will lead to the child's rebellion; Because rebellious children prove that they have ideas and thoughts, they are very brave, so it will also be of great help in the future.
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Understood. Before, the children of my eldest sister's family were very disobedient, and let him do everything in reverse, and if he didn't go his way, he would jump off the building, which was very scary.
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I have understood, because today's children have strong self-esteem, and once they are overly rebellious, they will run away from home.
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I know, because I am also a person who has younger siblings to celebrate the tour, and I have also experienced the rebellious period of quietly selling my younger siblings, and the behavior and words of the rebellious period are very extreme, and they are easy to do things that hurt themselves.
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It's very terrible, one of my former junior high school classmates, when he entered the adolescent boyhood, he was extremely rebellious, because he was a single-parent family, there was no loss of sedan chair and someone to discipline, often fighting outside, not returning all night, and finally thinking about the person who was stabbed because of a fight with someone.
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I have understood, and I am also experiencing the child's rebellious period is very scary, and it is very scary to cover the jujube and other angers, which can really make people angry, but Bu Bozi can't talk to the child.
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Of course, I have learned that children's rebellion is very scary, so we must guide children well during this period.
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Of course, I have learned that a child's rebellion is very terrible, because such a child will not listen to your teachings at all.
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The rebellious period is very scary, so I have also understood it, and I have also come from the rebellious period, and I understand the psychology of people in the rebellious period very well.
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I have personally learned about children's rebellion, and children's rebellion can ruin their children's future lives.
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Children's rebellion is a very terrible thing for the Sui Qi faction, because at this time they will lose their self-management ability, they will do some things to hurt themselves, and they will also do some extreme things.
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In the rebellious period, children will have their own ideas and opinions, their behavior is different from before, very strange and special, their personality has also changed, and their temper will become very big.
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