I often make trouble in love, but my boyfriend is indifferent, does he not love me at all?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-11
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    The man is indifferent, it's not that he doesn't love it, maybe he doesn't dare to love!

    Two people fall in love, it is a run-in between personalities, and such a run-in is bound to be accompanied by various frictions, and mutual understanding and reflection after quarreling with each other must become a lubricant and make the two parties get along more like a fish in water.

    Just seeing the subject's question, or the way it is precisely expressed, I think you are angry now, and feel that when you tell the reason for the quarrel, the man should bow his head and admit his mistake as a matter of course. So what do the facts look like? What are you arguing about?

    Which of you is responsible in this matter? Or do you think that as long as there is a quarrel, the man should bow his head and admit his mistakes is a sign of love for you?

    I'm sorry, but I want to say that from your boyfriend's point of view, it's obvious that in this matter, he doesn't admit defeat, so he will be indifferent. So from another point of view, you said the reason for this matter, it was you who looked for him first, so who is the problem, he must have another idea in his heart.

    If you bow your head and admit your mistakes, then how can he forgive you with this attitude? If it's his fault, his attitude of ignoring you is also worth asking you to break up. In the case that you didn't say the reason, I can only analyze it like this, if there is anything inappropriate in the expression, please forgive me.

    After the quarrel, the woman took the first step to show weakness and gave the man a step, in fact, the man also wanted to go down this step. It's just that he was still angry at that time, and he didn't admit defeat so easily, which was a kind of self-esteem.

    Very strong state. He just wants to prove that he's right and you're wrong. This situation is caused by what you have been trying to get him down.

    It is said that you can't reason with women, especially angry women. You also reason with the man in turn, and take the lead in making a compromise gesture, which will only spoil your own man. Just as you're worried that he's not in love anymore.

    Since you love him a little more and spoil him, then you try to tolerate his bad temper. On the contrary, don't always be the first to compromise.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    No, it's a little annoying to your approach, not every man likes a woman who works small, and some like to be gentle and considerate.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    On the contrary, your boyfriend loves you so much, that's why he tolerates you so much, doesn't say anything about you, and doesn't give you big truths, you should cherish it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Feelings need two people to manage, to understand each other, respect each other, and not be unreasonable, so that men will be very disgusted.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In a relationship, girls often think a lot, and the most common is to suspect that their boyfriend doesn't like them. Although this kind of thinking is very normal, it should not happen often, because as a girl, you should still maintain self-confidence. Most girls don't have a particularly strong sense of self-confidence, so they always feel that they may not be particularly good in a relationship, so they won't let the other party like them all the time.

    But you know, since two people choose to be together, it means that they are very satisfied with each other, and in this case, they should wholeheartedly believe that they are worthy of love. <>

    Strong self-confidenceAs a girl, you must have a very strong self-confidence, only in this way can you make yourself better. If a girl believes in herself very much, then the girl's body is shining, and as a boyfriend, they will feel very happy to have such a girlfriend. On the contrary, if the girl is always doubting the other person's love for her, then it will always make the boy feel tired, so it will affect the relationship between the two people over time.

    Communicate moreOf course, if the girl really has this idea, she can also communicate with her boyfriend, and if you find that the other party really doesn't like you, you can choose to end the relationship. In life, no one can live without anyone, so girls can also choose to start their new life after ending their relationship. In sex, girls can accumulate enough self-confidence and work hard to improve themselves, so that they will not have such feelings when the next relationship comes.

    Trust each otherIf you just think too much about yourself, you should believe in yourself and each other after communicating with your boyfriend, because mutual trust is a very important thing in a relationship. So it can't be said that having this feeling is vexatious, but if you often feel this way, you are making trouble. As boys, they will have more pressure in their lives, and if they are constantly facing an unreasonable girlfriend, they will also feel very tired and want to end the relationship.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Two people should understand each other and tolerate each other during the relationship, it is possible that others may be negligent to you when they are busy at work, or there are places that cannot be taken care of, which is particularly normal, and in love, two people should also have independent space for each other, and they cannot ask others to think about you and care about you all the time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's not like you're being vexatious.

    Because your boyfriend doesn't love you enough, this is completely something you can feel. It's a fact that your boyfriend doesn't care about you or doesn't care about you.

    So you must let your boyfriend really change himself and give you a sense of security, so that you can feel happy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's not that you're making trouble, it's something you really feel. Whether your boyfriend loves you or not, it can be seen from his usual concern and some behaviors.

    If your boyfriend doesn't love you enough, then you need to know how to separate from him for a while and let him reflect on the changes on his own.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There are many reasons why a guy doesn't love a girl, and the vexatious you say may be one of them.

    One aspect is: Because the girl is too much, another aspect is that the two people's personalities are incompatible, and there is no way to integrate together.

    It is also possible that the family does not agree because of family reasons.

    It's also possible that a simple guy has changed his mind, so you can communicate.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    So what did you do to feel that your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore?

    If it's just a small thing, then maybe it's vexatious.

    In fact, in love, it's okay to be occasionally vexatious, but you can't just quarrel like that.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think in the process of love, if you feel that your boyfriend doesn't love you enough, sometimes a woman's feelings are really sensitive, at this time you should continue to observe him again, don't just beat him to death, give him another chance, and observe for a period of time to see if he really has no love for you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Not. Because girls are very defensive, and they suffer from gains and losses. This belongs to the nature of girls, and it is recommended to communicate more with your boyfriend so that he can give you enough security so that you will not feel this way.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Many women are on the weak side in their relationships, they treat their feelings very simply, very seriously, and even give everything they have. However, sometimes they just can't feel the other party's sincerity to themselves, they lack a sense of security, and they always feel that their boyfriend doesn't have the sincerity to pay for them!

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's just your feelings, maybe you're thinking too much. Maybe he was too busy with work during this time, so he snubbed you, you should learn to understand him and be a sensible woman.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    A woman's sixth sense is very strong, as long as there is a little change in the boyfriend, they will be unpredictable, so this is not vexatious, everyone has the pursuit of being loved, if a person who does not love you, really does not want to continue to associate with him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It shouldn't be like this, because the girl's mind is very delicate, if her boyfriend doesn't like her anymore, I think the girl will definitely know, so you should still tell your boyfriend to treat yourself well.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When you feel that your boyfriend doesn't love you, I don't think this is vexatious, it is said that a woman's sixth sense is the most accurate, it must be because he doesn't care enough about you in his usual life, so he will make you feel this way.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you feel that your boyfriend doesn't love you enough, it should be that you are unreasonable, because after being in love for a long time, two people may lose their freshness, so they should tolerate each other and understand each other.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you feel like your boyfriend won't love you for no reason, it may be that you yourself are a little too troubled. Give yourself a little more confidence and give your boyfriend a little more trust. It will be better that way.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Girls often feel that if they really love me, they should do what they should do. Once the other party does not do this, they will unilaterally think that the other party does not like them so much, so sometimes they cannot unilaterally draw conclusions.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think you must understand your boyfriend when you are with him, don't cling to him too much, and don't mess with him unreasonably, only in this way will your boyfriend love you and like you more.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I feel that my boyfriend doesn't love you enough, I don't think this is unreasonable, sometimes a woman's feeling is really accurate, since you feel that he doesn't love you anymore, then separate from him, emotional things can't be forced.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Yes, if you are often unreasonable, it will make the other party feel very tired, maybe once in a while he will coax you twice and will coax you, but after many times he doesn't want to coax, and he has lost confidence in this relationship, so you should reflect on yourself.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's not that you are unreasonable, a person who doesn't love himself can feel it, you have to talk to him patiently, calm down and ask him what he thinks, it's best to learn to let go and face reality.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In many cases, as long as his current love is not as warm as before, girls will indeed feel that their boyfriends don't like him as much as before, this is not vexatious, this is just a normal reaction in everyone's hearts in the process of falling in love.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Generally, a woman's sixth sense is very accurate, whether a man loves you or not is actually very clear in your heart, but sometimes you are lying to yourself. If you don't think he loves you enough, it's not that it's vexatious, it's that you're insecure.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It may be part of the reason, it may be because the other party has made new good friends, it may be because the relationship between two people has weakened, it may be because the other party has no feelings for you, it may be because you value the other person too much.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's hard to explain this problem, you think your boyfriend doesn't love you enough, it's unfounded, there's no evidence, maybe he doesn't love you enough, but it's also possible that you're being vexatious, or it's possible that you're asking too much.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    A girl's sixth sense is very accurate, so your feelings may be true, but you can't decide on this alone, I think you have to tell your boyfriend what you really think, not be suspicious yourself.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I feel that you are insecure in your heart, and always suspect that your boyfriend doesn't love you, if you quarrel with your boyfriend because of this, you are making trouble, if he doesn't love you, he won't be with you, don't think too much.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think you may be because of some previous experiences that have caused you to be unconfident, you know that your boyfriend is good to you, but you are always suspicious, then it means that you have no basic sense of security about love.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If your boyfriend doesn't love you enough, I think it's because he doesn't take you seriously enough anyway, and if you say that you have done a lot of things that make him sad, you should be more considerate of him.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think you've copied the scriptures and know your own problems, and your vexatious troubles have disappointed your boyfriend who loves you again and again, and if you still want to make amends, you must get rid of this problem.

    If you still love him and don't want to be separated from him, make changes for him, let him see your sincerity, surprise him, let him recall the good memories you once had, if he is willing to give you another chance, you must take advantage of it, and you can't be willful in the future.

    But if he is determined to leave, don't be stubborn about not letting him go, it will make him farther and farther away from you. After separation, you can improve yourself and learn to control your emotions, because controlling yourself is a sign of maturity. As you get better and better, your love will come quietly.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's normal for men to like the new and hate the old, and your vexatious fuss is just an excuse for him.

    In general, this situation is that once the freshness period is over, they become normal, and they become better, and they can find a better one.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Then if he says so, you should be resolute and stop wasting time loving him.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    What he meant.

    He's not going to marry you anymore.

    You have to correct your mistakes.

    He might change his mind.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    He was done by you, and he has no feelings for you.

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