Why are girls crying and boys indifferent or even bored?

Although it's a girl, it's only normal to cry, sometimes crying does make the other party love you, but after crying too much, your heart will be numb, and you won't feel like it when you cry again.

If you are unreasonable, the man must be indifferent, maybe he is more angry than you, but if you cry normally, if he is indifferent, then he must be unloved. ‍

If you don't like it, you won't cry, boys are not indifferent, they just don't know how to say it, and boys' hearts are actually the same, very chaotic and uncomfortable. ‍‍

Maybe the man is also heartbroken, but he can't express it, and would rather be silent, or maybe he doesn't care about your tears anymore, and giving him space and time to calm down will be a good release. ‍‍

In fact, many men will be very remorseful when girls cry, and the six gods have no master, but they don't know what to do, and the final performance becomes indifferent. ‍‍

In general, in this case, it is estimated that the man has no feelings for this girl, so even if she cries, he will not comfort her, but will only feel more annoying. ‍‍

Boys are not tired of crying when girls vent their emotions normally, but they are tired of crying at every turn, and they regard crying as a way of coercion. ‍‍

That's because girls take tears as a threat, and they will be very annoyed if they cry when they encounter something and want to make boys compromise. ‍‍

Crying is too inefficient to help things work out, and there is no other use than wasting time. Probably something like this. ‍‍

The man who loves you will feel distressed when he sees you crying and sad, and the man who doesn't love you will not be touched much when he sees you crying. A woman crying that a man is indifferent means that this man doesn't love you at all, because the man who really loves you is reluctant to make you sad and see you sad.

Women want to judge whether a man really loves herself, just look at how the man reacts when he cries. If he sees you crying and is indifferent, does not react, but seems very impatient, then most of such a man does not love you.

When seeing a woman crying, the man will be at a loss, he doesn't know how to comfort the girl, he will feel distressed, he will empathize with the girl, and be sad for her.

Seeing a girl crying, a boy sometimes feels distressed, and if a girl cries because of himself, he feels sorry for the other party at the same time, and he will feel more self-blame and guilt. However, if the boy doesn't know what the reason for the girl's crying is, then his first reaction after the girl cries is probably overwhelmed, and even feels a headache, because he doesn't know how to coax the other party.

If a girl is made to cry by a boy in public, many face-loving boys will feel that they can't hold their face at this time. Especially after the girl cries and arouses the attention of the people around her, he will be more anxious, he will want to stop the girl, and he doesn't want her to cry anymore, because he doesn't want passers-by to misunderstand that he is bullying each other.

Most boys will take the initiative to comfort each other after the girl cries, trying to coax the other person. Even if he is not good at words and doesn't know how to comfort the other party, he will silently accompany the other party and use this silent way to give the girl strength and dependence. Those boys who are indifferent when they see a girl crying are either not familiar with this girl, or they don't love each other at all.

I'm a girl, so here's my own opinion.

Girls usually don't like boys to cry, because girls think that boys are the ones who will help them solve things that they can't solve, while girls usually cry because they have troubles and things they can't solve. It may be that over time, you will feel that crying means that you are cowardly, and if a boy cries, it means that he is not capable of solving problems for himself. Even crying doesn't have to represent cowardice.

As for your girlfriend, I think she should not like you anymore, so she will break up with you, it shouldn't be because you cry, saying that you cry like a man may be a small excuse.

If you don't want to break up, you can sit down and talk about your thoughts slowly, after all, communication is one of the best solutions.

Actually, it depends on the occasion.

If you cry all day long, you will definitely be disgusted.

But crying at the time of the breakup shows that you love him.

Every time I fight, if I see my boyfriend crying, my heart hurts to death.

My thoughts are; He must be tired of your feelings, so he wants to dump you, so he breaks up with you, after he finishes speaking; You love him so much that you don't want to cry.

He used that as an excuse to say that you don't look like a man.

It can make you feel like it's all your fault in the end.

If a person doesn't love you and completely loses his feelings, he can't get anything back.

Think for yourself!